Karla Cabello Posted April 13 Posted April 13 please don't drag me but a guy being a popgirl stan is such a turn-off, like you are automatically a sister for me am i perpetuating gender roles 2 12 3 1
Karla Cabello Posted April 13 Author Posted April 13 like maybe if you are a rih stan you may get a pass, but a swiftie or a gaga stan that is ****** behavior 1 2 2
Princess Aurora Posted April 13 Posted April 13 It depends. What If he's a top or a verse top with a huge ding-dong?
jesus del rey Posted April 13 Posted April 13 Is this another way of "tell me you are a bottom without telling me you are a bottom"? 1 2
Solaria Posted April 13 Posted April 13 If he's a top idgaf… discussing pop girls in our free time and wrecking this hole?? What more could I want 2 1 11
Popular Post Raichu Posted April 13 Popular Post Posted April 13 I'd never date a Swiftie cuz they'd dedicate the worst song ever to you when you break up 16
znake Posted April 13 Posted April 13 I prefer they like pop music, if not they will force to listen their stupid boring music !! 2
Batsy Armada Posted April 13 Posted April 13 It just depends on the extent of how much they stan. There are more important things to consider when weighing the reasons to or not to date someone. I still say, though, it beats someone stanning sports and a particular team—especially one that's always losing. 3
Tudors Posted April 13 Posted April 13 (edited) It's wrong to think it's thread worthy but Fine to have preferences Edited April 13 by Tudors
BrokenMachine Posted April 13 Posted April 13 It depends on how obsessed they are and if they turn their stanning into misogyny/discrimination/r*cism as some ATRLers do 1
Sawk Posted April 13 Posted April 13 It's your choice at the end of the day, but I think it's a bit immature and yes, also perpetuating gender roles.
Bethenny Frankel Posted April 13 Posted April 13 as long as they aren't a huge barb, it's fine with me
TotallyHot Posted April 13 Posted April 13 (edited) As a trans woman, this is not an issues. No men in a passsable, femenine, fully stealth trans' dating pool is ever going to be a pop Star stan. Actually, even before I transitioned I was only able to attract bisexual men at best. None of then cared about pop stars and One in particular used to bully me For stanning them lol (tho he did listened to them). Edited April 13 by TotallyHot 1
EtherealCat Posted April 13 Posted April 13 at least see what sort of phone he has before jumping to conclusions 3
KBax Posted April 13 Posted April 13 I honestly don't think it should matter, it should really come down to whether you connect with them and like them. But it's your choice at the end of the day
RussianRoulette Posted April 13 Posted April 13 Ot shows you expect maturity and someone stable. A real life stan cannot provide any of that. You have my respect.
GeeDuval Posted April 13 Posted April 13 Depends the level of obsession. If that's all he talks about that's a turn off, but I find dudes that are open to music no matter the genre artist, etc. attractive.
Mornings Posted April 13 Posted April 13 My man is a Brazilian Beyonce stan but honestly I never would even know. He doesn't really talk to me about it and it's taking me to the tour when she announces it. Lol he had an outfit made for renaissance tour and is already commissioning his new tour look. Lmao I find it endearing honestly
TheGerm Posted April 14 Posted April 14 (edited) i was always fond of my ex's who were thoughtful about production and theatrics. there aren't pop girls i hate just those i dont listen too, so if there was a guy who was able to introduce me to music he felt passionate about, i dont think its a deal breaker Edited April 14 by TheGerm
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