discussion I'm actually very stressed out, my boyfriend might giften me a car after 3 month

[Dear Reader]

5 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

Thank you.  I just cant wait to see what it is... But the fact that its reported for tomorrow and I work tomorrow and for 5 days, kill me, it's so stressful. I think about calling my boyfriend and ask him... Anyway, I think I will wait and see....

Well, you could call and ask but it won't be a surprise anymore. My advice is not to stress it too much, whatever it is just show you're thankful but never feel the pressure to “thank him" in any way you wouldn't. Remember you didn't ask for anything and you still deserve respect at the end of the day 

[Rotunda]

Have you lost the ability to hold a conversation with your boyfriend?

 

Regardless, unless a car is paid in full, it's not a gift, it's an obligation. And it's one you may not actually be able to afford.

Edited March 20 by Rotunda

[teenager]

27 minutes ago, TheBoss said:

Pushed back? Not this messy rollout…

not his boyfriend being interscope a&r

[Kayseri Mantisi]

i don't think a car would get delayed last minute like this, they work more professionally than this (at least at where i am from) 

[Cesar]

he's love bombing

 

so he's either a narcissist or has borderline personality disorder, ur doomed either way sis…. i'm sorry

 

[Redstreak]

17 minutes ago, Rotunda said:

Have you lost the ability to hold a conversation with your boyfriend?

 

Regardless, unless a car is paid in full, it's not a gift, it's an obligation. And it's one you may not actually be able to afford.

Yeah like, what happens if things go sour, will OP be on the line for it? Will a gift like this be hung over him in the future? It just seems very early for something like that

[Reginald]

You're young enough to be taking a driving test, while newly-dating a doctor who's buying you a car??  Wow 

 

Edit: Wait -- 

  

3 minutes ago, Caesar said:

he's love bombing

 

so he's either a narcissist or has borderline personality disorder, ur doomed either way sis…. i'm sorry

 

 

They made a point here

Edited March 20 by Reginald

[MoonGoodandHappy]

5 minutes ago, Kayseri Mantisi said:

i don't think a car would get delayed last minute like this, they work more professionally than this (at least at where i am from) 

Honestly, I HOPE it's not a car and more like a bouquet of flowers or a perfume. 

[liquiddiamonds]

27 minutes ago, Rotunda said:

Have you lost the ability to hold a conversation with your boyfriend?

 

Regardless, unless a car is paid in full, it's not a gift, it's an obligation. And it's one you may not actually be able to afford.

Finally some common sense here. People here saying “make sure its in your name" are telling on themselves they never had a car lol if you can afford it and the car has been paid: great. But if you can't afford it with your own work it's not a gift. You have taxes, insurance and gas on top of your already preexisting expenses. In that case makes sure it's in HIS name and responsibility 

 

it reminds me of a friend's mother that bought a car as a wedding gift to a friend and his boyfriend and she only paid the first two months of a 36-month payment. She basically hand them debt as a wedding present

 

But if you feel uncomfortable about it as going too fast you should let him know and refuse the gift. Keep in mind that people refuse engagements when proposed for the same reason. It's common and healthy to say no to partners. You should do what's comfortable to you. 

Edited March 20 by liquiddiamonds

[NoOneDiesFromLove]

Maybe he's messing with you and this is all an elaborate prank 

 

 

Jk have fun driving your new car

[Sabrina Carpenter]

girl accept it and tell him no take backs once u guys break up 

[Arrows]

If you really like him, I don't think it's a problem. 
 

People don't buy a whole car when “lovebombing" lmao, that claim is absurd! He clearly really likes you a lot and wants to lock it down imo. So it's important that you like him as well.

 

He's really immature if he's doing this just to say “but I bought you a car" in an arguement one day, but none of us have any reason to assume he will! 

[TheCal]

manifesting this for myself🙏

 

just be sure it's in your name

[May]

my bf wont even buy me a tesco meal deal

[Kern]

34 minutes ago, liquiddiamonds said:

Finally some common sense here. People here saying “make sure its in your name" are telling on themselves they never had a car lol if you can afford it and the car has been paid: great. But if you can't afford it with your own work it's not a gift. You have taxes, insurance and gas on top of your already preexisting expenses. In that case makes sure it's in HIS name and responsibility 

 

it reminds me of a friend's mother that bought a car as a wedding gift to a friend and his boyfriend and she only paid the first two months of a 36-month payment. She basically hand them debt as a wedding present

 

But if you feel uncomfortable about it as going too fast you should let him know and refuse the gift. Keep in mind that people refuse engagements when proposed for the same reason. It's common and healthy to say no to partners. You should do what's comfortable to you. 

I think OP just made it up, this reeks of fake lol

[Great808]

You literally just wanted to brag about this lmaoooo. Congrats tho ig

[Katamari]

It's the killer 

[MoonGoodandHappy]

13 minutes ago, stupidjock said:

I think OP just made it up, this reeks of fake lol

? Why would I do this?  What would be the point?  To have a 10 pages topic?  I'm not 12 years old.

Edited March 20 by MoonGoodandHappy

[Santhosh]

2 hours ago, Revolution said:

communicate

 

[liam13]

it should've happened to me instead

good for you. be careful tho cuz it could be money laundry or sumn

[Price of Fame]

why are you telling us this, tell him   

[ImsoLOUD]

I'm fighting my inner cynicism right now

 

At least take the car for a joyride with your friends one time at his expense 

[Pendulum]

1 hour ago, Caesar said:

he's love bombing

 

so he's either a narcissist or has borderline personality disorder, ur doomed either way sis…. i'm sorry

 

 

Can we, like, cut off the BPD stigma? So ******* offensive. What do you mean by "doomed"? 

 

Edited March 20 by Pendulum

[KeirGrey]

take the car and break up with him

[Almighty Gaga]

Yall have a silent relationship or what? Gurl ASK him.