Capris Groove Posted March 9 Posted March 9 Anyone else noticing the norm these days seems to be acting overly nice to people, in an insincere way? People just meeting you and acting like they're your best friend, giving compliments they don't mean, the constant "ilysm bb 💞" vibe, etc? Being generally upbeat and positive is nice, but I'm finding more and more the vibe is just sooo saccharine sweet. To the point where just being 'normal' is seen as blunt these days if not outright rude.
Cheers Posted March 9 Posted March 9 Yea I agree. It comes off very ingenuine and off-putting. Being polite does not mean you have to be fake and overly friendly! 4
Dialamba Posted March 9 Posted March 9 Y’all hate fun. And I’m saying this when I’m antisocial but i love when people are nice to me. 9
NumbSoul Posted March 9 Posted March 9 I wish more people were like that - there's so much negativity and rudeness where I live I only have one friend who something like this could apply to and, outside of the fact that I do believe he's genuine, I will still take overly nice any day!
The Music Industry Posted March 9 Posted March 9 15 minutes ago, Capris Groove said: Being generally upbeat and positive is nice, but I'm finding more and more the vibe is just sooo saccharine sweet. To the point where just being 'normal' is seen as blunt these days if not outright rude. Don't know you but... Have you considered the possibility that maybe you are? If people find you blunt/rude, there's usually a reason sis
Revolution Posted March 9 Posted March 9 i just befriend the ones who are genuinely nice and chill. and keep the rest at a distance.
TROPICUM Posted March 9 Posted March 9 in my own experience some people can get so sensitive if you don't pull the entire fake nice thing either that or i am a huge b*tch and don't know it
Danny789 Posted March 9 Posted March 9 Who cares as long as they’re not rude and also you can never be sure if it’s sincere or not so just enjoy until you find out.
Into The Void Posted March 9 Posted March 9 Hmmm i never met anyone overlty nice so not sure. I get what u mean but you shouldn't let it bother you.
Rotunda Posted March 9 Posted March 9 Personally I don’t mind when people are overly nice. What I really hate are the “inclusive bullies” (people who present as extremely tolerant and socially-conscious, but really just use it as a way to look down on others). 1
Bethenny Frankel Posted March 9 Posted March 9 theres a girl in my grad program like this who treats everyone like shes their best friend, its insufferable
Tudors Posted March 9 Posted March 9 (edited) 2 hours ago, Capris Groove said: Anyone else noticing the norm these days seems to be acting overly nice to people, in an insincere way? People just meeting you and acting like they're your best friend, giving compliments they don't mean, the constant "ilysm bb 💞" vibe, etc? Being generally upbeat and positive is nice, but I'm finding more and more the vibe is just sooo saccharine sweet. To the point where just being 'normal' is seen as blunt these days if not outright rude. The first time my manager texted me a heart and a lova ya I felt uncomfortable and wondered if I should say it back lol. He's a sweetie tho. Also at everyone ln my office always message me with a hello how are you? In our chat system. It's like I know you want something cut to the point. I hate the fake nice stuff. I do like when I'm walking in the hallways or to break at work and we all say hi!!!!! With a giant smile. It's honestly uplifting in some way lol. Also can't stand being yelled HELLO WELCOME TO WALGREENS HELLO WELCOME TO 711. Like just stfu I know you don't mean it Edited March 9 by Tudors
bad guy Posted March 9 Posted March 9 I’d rather that than misery people project on others. People who view life in a negative way and who always find something stupid to complain about (like this) are the worst 3
Illuminati Posted March 9 Posted March 9 You just complain for the sake of complaining imo The whole "ilysm bb" thing is pretty standard for girl groups and always has been. Maybe make more straight male friends if you miss being called out 2
Mordecai Posted March 9 Posted March 9 That's a trend? Lol What I don't get are how women are like this with each other and then ***** about each other behind their backs
Princess Aurora Posted March 9 Posted March 9 As long as it doesn't harm anyone, I don't think it's much of a problem. It's just how I'm built for example
Dula Peep Posted March 9 Posted March 9 I guess I’d rather have people being overtly nice for no reason than a straight up cvnt…
40000000000000 Posted March 9 Posted March 9 yes and i do not befriend people like that. i appreciate honesty and sincerity, don't need anybody to baby me.
Cain Posted March 9 Posted March 9 I don’t really encounter these people? Most people are just… genuinely nice And anyone being obviously insincere is not seen as nice
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