discussion Non-muscular gays. What's the closest/longest you've been with a fit guy?

[UnusualBoy]

It was just hook ups but they were really good.

[Pendulum]

Only hooks up but in my experience they were either as dumb as cardboard or too coked up 

[Dante Silva]

I have unintentionally kept a very fit guy on hold for a year. He is a PT (personal trainer) and his body is exceptionally well chiseled and muscular (without him having gone too far). I can see he checks out my Grindr profile from the “viewed me” section fairly regularly.
 

I can sometimes be a ‘hoarder’ and told myself I will clear my apartment of clutter before the time is right to get back in touch with him and invite him around. I have been a little bit de-motivated from clearing the clutter and I admit sometimes I think to myself “he’s so hot ytf am I waiting” but I’m at a point where I have worked through a lot sexually and my libido is not as high as it was at a certain point in my life, so I simply end up having a cup of green tea and zoning out to Lana on the sofa whilst jadedly looking at his pics.

 

I know that when we do finally meet I’m probably going to enter a kinky headspace simply because he’s so hot and that this delay is simply the calm before the storm.