rigo Posted February 23 Author Posted February 23 (edited) Thanks yall, I recenly met up with this guy. He really is stunning and such a good dude we talked one hour prior and one after the hook up. We've been in touch. I do believe there's someone special out there for me. My poetic mind sometimes thinks about his shadow already. Also, recently saw Colton Underwood's doc he's stunning but also seemingly did terrible things. I was inspired by some of it. I will take you on my journey atrlers... i will update you soon Edited February 23 by rigo 3
Jon Snow Posted February 23 Posted February 23 1 hour ago, rigo said: I was born into a religion, all of my memories are connected to those believes. I became extremely attached to it and found a home. I would even travel to different cities and conduct services, I became some type of prodigy. Also, one my earlier memories is kissing my neighbor, another boy, when I was 3 y/o. I have always known I'm gay. This church does not accept homosexuality in any way and they have a shunning system put into place. If a person is disfellowshipped their family and friends can't talk to them again unless the person decides to go back into the church, which in this case will involve living in the closet again. I have suffered all of my life falling in love with everyone and having my heart broken many times, trying to start formal relationships with women and it didn't work. I feel very lonely, I have lost practically all of my friends, it's like being born again. No childhood friends and an unpreparedness to face the new surroundings I'm exposed to. It is very lonely. I wonder if it's too late to live my Love, Simon goes to college gay dream or if I should just go back into the cage? Is it too late? 33 is the best age! you deserve to live your best life have you ever watched Fleabag? if not, i recommend it. there's one scene that almost perfectly fits your situation
Blue Jeans Posted February 23 Posted February 23 The best time is a year ago, the second best time is NOW 2
IBeMe Posted February 23 Posted February 23 never too late and you are not alone! u have to know that the majority of gays tend to not live their authentic life until later! some early 20s, some late 20s, some early 30s and some NEVER sadly. You have come to that moment at 33! you are still young. It's only this newer generation that is having a bit of an easier time coming out or being ok with their sexuality at a younger age. it's a more recent phenom. You are not alone Now go and make up for those lost years but dont be irresponsible! always be safe and dont be a serial dater just because u feel like u lost so much time etc...!
Distantconstellation Posted February 23 Posted February 23 1 hour ago, nadiamendell said: I know plenty of gays that didn't come out and start dating until their 40s or 50s. It's never too late. true its never too late but unfortunately for whatever reason a lot of them also have messed of lives because they try to live out their teens, 20, 30s while being 40s 50s and its just not the same. It will never be the same experience, so yes its never too late but time it ticking. 1 1
Afterglow Posted February 23 Posted February 23 Too late? Never. You're young and hot. Go out, have fun, go to clubs, the gay world is fun! Take a gay cruise! This is the perfect time.
Alldeezy Posted February 23 Posted February 23 Im 32 so I bloody hope its not too late Just enjoy your life don't rush it. you'll fine your man one day 1
Maroonx Posted February 23 Posted February 23 never too late babes, whether you are 10 or 60... Live your life like you're supposed to and don't like religion or people stop you. do your thing x
Santhosh Posted February 23 Posted February 23 It's never too late for anything as long as you commit 100%
LadyDiana Posted February 23 Posted February 23 3 hours ago, toast said: Find comfort in the fact that you can be honest with yourself about your sexuality, especially since there were so many gays before us who weren't able to do so/didn't get to make it to 33. Don't try to force a Love Simon story - believe in the fact that there's a beautiful story that begins with where you are right now. This is so beautiful 1
BloodLuster Posted February 23 Posted February 23 3 hours ago, airplane said: a song for you b*tch I was about to type the intro's lyrics ot: go ahead and fight for your dreams, op
Tudors Posted February 24 Posted February 24 If you are 33 you are getting OLD. Better put yourself out there and get the best quality dick you can find with the time you still have left 1 1 1
Slap Posted February 24 Posted February 24 On 2/23/2024 at 10:19 AM, rigo said: I was born into a religion, all of my memories are connected to those believes. I became extremely attached to it and found a home. I would even travel to different cities and conduct services, I became some type of prodigy. Also, one my earlier memories is kissing my neighbor, another boy, when I was 3 y/o. I have always known I'm gay. This church does not accept homosexuality in any way and they have a shunning system put into place. If a person is disfellowshipped their family and friends can't talk to them again unless the person decides to go back into the church, which in this case will involve living in the closet again. I have suffered all of my life falling in love with everyone and having my heart broken many times, trying to start formal relationships with women and it didn't work. I feel very lonely, I have lost practically all of my friends, it's like being born again. No childhood friends and an unpreparedness to face the new surroundings I'm exposed to. It is very lonely. I wonder if it's too late to live my Love, Simon goes to college gay dream or if I should just go back into the cage? Is it too late? Is 33 too late? Absolutely not. Just go buy a nice good quality olive oil and you’ll be forever young. Jokes aside can I reccomend you read Jane Fonda’s book “Prime Time”? She talks about the three acts of life 0-30, 30-60, and 60-90+. It gave me a lot of perspective that cultural judgements about life being over and not being able to reinvent yourself after 30 is utter bullshit. You are at the perfect age for this and you have so much ahead of you, be brave and be yourself because you will never look back. I say this as somebody who is a similar age and also had to leave a toxic family environment in order to be myself. It’s okay to feel scared and hopeless but remember those strong emotions show that that’s not the life you want - but be strategic about it and play your cards to your advantage, get things in order so you have friends, finances, therapy and whatever you need to take this step and do it when you feel ready - but keep in mind it’s always going to feel scary. Remember, you’re only at the beginning of your second act 1 1
terrorblade Posted February 24 Posted February 24 not Love, Simon Spoiler i want nick robinson so bad
rigo Posted February 24 Author Posted February 24 29 minutes ago, Slap said: Is 33 too late? Absolutely not. Just go buy a nice good quality olive oil and you’ll be forever young. Jokes aside can I reccomend you read Jane Fonda’s book “Prime Time”? She talks about the three acts of life 0-30, 30-60, and 60-90+. It gave me a lot of perspective that cultural judgements about life being over and not being able to reinvent yourself after 30 is utter bullshit. You are at the perfect age for this and you have so much ahead of you, be brave and be yourself because you will never look back. I say this as somebody who is a similar age and also had to leave a toxic family environment in order to be myself. It’s okay to feel scared and hopeless but remember those strong emotions show that that’s not the life you want - but be strategic about it and play your cards to your advantage, get things in order so you have friends, finances, therapy and whatever you need to take this step and do it when you feel ready - but keep in mind it’s always going to feel scary. Remember, you’re only at the beginning of your second act Solid, I used to believe my story could help anybody in that church but it sounds like it can give perspective to a lot of gay men
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