Hitchhiker Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Looking at hot people is one thing I believe most people do that but flirting with them is just wrong esp if he’s around
Archetype Posted February 22 Posted February 22 (edited) It’s fine to look, but have some self control. Don’t get flirty with other guys because the entire point of flirting is usually to lead to something else, and it’s not fair to your bf nor the person you’re flirting with. As for the “h*e face” I have no idea what that means but I’m just going to assume you shouldn’t be doing that while in a closed relationship. Edited February 22 by Archetype
nostalgic Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Sounds like you aren't truly happy and satisfied in your relationship if you find yourself drawn to others like that 1 1
Digitalism Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Most gays have low self esteem and look for sexual validation all the time You're normal
Gorjesspazze9 Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Just think how you would feel if your partner was flirting with someone else
Redstreak Posted February 22 Posted February 22 I thought one of the advantages of being gay is the understanding that men are visual? My bf and I like checking out people and doing a little flirty flirt
Twilish Posted February 22 Posted February 22 (edited) Depends, are you the top or the bottom? Edited February 22 by Twilish 2
Littlejfrey Posted February 22 Author Posted February 22 Thnak you for all of your answers and just to clarify, what I mean by "flirting" is looking at them more than one time and make eye contact, but that's it, it's not like when I make eye contact with them I start bitting my lips or stuff like that lol But yeah, I can see how it could be potentially dangerous, so I'm gonna try to control myself 1
Mandalore Posted February 22 Posted February 22 How attracted are you to your boyfriend? Are you in love with him?
Bosque Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Doesn't everyone look at hot guys? Very confused by the answers in this thread 1
MonsterJohn Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Are you hot? If so then feel free to lewk, gays love validation from hot guys. Just think of it as you doing charity 1
Relampago. Posted February 22 Posted February 22 My BF and I have discussed this, especially because he loves attending circuit parties and it’s not typically my thing. We agreed that entertaining the flirting but not going out of our way to encourage it is fine, basically trying to be nice and have fun. But once it reaches the point that’s it’s going beyond flirting or something is obviously going to happen, we have to shut it down. I think you need to have that conversation with your BF. Ideally your relationship is strong enough to have that conversation and make sure everyone’s on the same page. If you really feel the need to flirt but your partner isn’t okay with that, you need to look inwards and see if that’s something you can handle or not. I don’t think you’re a bad boyfriend necessarily but you’re intentionally hiding the truth and that’s never good for a relationship. So while you might not be inherently bad just for giving eyes, it’s not good to feel guilty about something and then keep that from your partner. 1
Relampago. Posted February 22 Posted February 22 1 hour ago, Dephira said: Doesn't everyone look at hot guys? Very confused by the answers in this thread Yeah, and also being gays.. it’s just something that kinda occurs. But the issue is that the OP definitely feels some type of way about it, implying there’s something going on there, real or not. That feeling is telling us that it’s not something purely innocent or harmless, and they should definitely be discussing it with their partner if that’s the case. 1
littlepotter Posted February 22 Posted February 22 Consider being in an open relationship if you feel that need to flirt? It's great once you dont have gays shouting in your ear that it's wrong
Tudors Posted February 22 Posted February 22 You're not hard enough on yourself but your an average boyfriend
Rotunda Posted February 23 Posted February 23 There’s a difference between a look and flirt. And boundaries need to be negotiated w/ your partner, not us.
dumbsparce Posted February 24 Posted February 24 I don't know how other ppl function but when I'm in love with someone AND in a relationship with them, it's almost like every other guy is invisible. I don't feel the need to look around bc I have who I want right next to me. So you either don't really care about your bf or that's just the way you're wired. Though If I had to pick one I'd go for option #1 tbh
jakeisphat Posted February 24 Posted February 24 Maybe your man lowkey wants a piece too. Start bringing these other boys in for threesomes. Problem solved.
Sabrina Carpenter Posted February 25 Posted February 25 ask to open the relationship i make out with guys in front of my boyfriend at clubs
John Slayne Posted February 25 Posted February 25 get an open relationship, that way you can get the horniness out of your system while still maintaining an emotional bond with your partner.
Phaunzie Posted February 26 Posted February 26 Hmmmm, I feel you haven't been completely honest with us. Are you having lusty shivers when you flirt with other men? Where were you on the night of the murder? Oops wrong thread. Is there a new man in your future?
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