discussion Is back-to-back masturbation a red flag?

[Asscatchem]

This guy I met isn't masturbating constantly throughout the day like chronic masturbators so I do not think he suffers from chronic masturbation BUT every time he does masturbate, he does it at least 3 times in a row with 10 minute breaks in between. Is this common or should this be concerning?

[May]

idk if it's a red flag but it's weird  but who are we to judge, it's a harmless urge

[Kayseri Mantisi]

Is he an iPhone user? if yes, nothing else should be concerning about him for you tbh.

[KFC]

Honestly I don't have the stamina to go 3x in a row but the second time is always so intense  so I can't imagine how good the third time feels. It's good that he's in touch with his own body, it means he'll be able to please yours as well

[elevate]

Can you change your pfp? Between wondering how you know this man's masturbatory habits and the Android vs iPhone obsession, I just don't feel like it's becoming of SNSD. Thank you.

[illia]

There's nothing wrong about masturbation itself, but if he's constantly watching porn, run

[The Man Who]

I read the title wrong and thought this was about standing back to back with somebody else whilst you both masturbate. 

[!ngwe]

enjoy youth 

[D.Va]

He is going to destroy his nerves if he keeps that habit on the long run 

[Gorjesspazze9]

What else are we supposed to do if you’re single? 🤷‍♀️

[Zaram]

So he also cums three times in a row?

[sickofwaitingtables]

God, we (our generation) see everything as a red flag nowadays. If it doesn't harm him or others, he can do whatever he likes. 

[Frappucino]

And they say romance is dead. 

[tost1]

42 minutes ago, The Man Who said:

I read the title wrong and thought this was about standing back to back with somebody else whilst you both masturbate. 

a concept

 

Ot: if his libido is so hugh good for him tbh

Edited January 22 by tost1

[terrorblade]

like 3 full sessions or just edging?

[Breathe On Moi]

4 minutes ago, terrorblade said:

like 3 full sessions or just edging?

guys that spend hours edging, or the guys that tease themselves and never finish are more red flags IMO 

[Raptus]

Your made up scenarios are not as funny as you think they are 

[Asscatchem]

2 hours ago, May said:

idk if it's a red flag but it's weird  but who are we to judge, it's a harmless urge

I agree it's harmless I just needed a second opinion because don't people usually just finish once and maybe a second time once in a blue moon? Regularly doing 3-5 in a row is something I've never heard of.

 

7 minutes ago, Raptus said:

Your made up scenarios are not as funny as you think they are 

This is way too specific to make up and I'm not trying to be funny. Where else can I ask other gays questions like this?

 

1 hour ago, D.Va said:

He is going to destroy his nerves if he keeps that habit on the long run 

I feel like this is true. I might just warn him to be careful.

[family.guy123]

Do you get him off enough? Why is he masturbating so much? 

[Asscatchem]

 

49 minutes ago, Zaram said:

So he also cums three times in a row?

39 minutes ago, terrorblade said:

like 3 full sessions or just edging?

Yes full but his volume isn't that great each time. 

[Asscatchem]

2 minutes ago, family.guy123 said:

Do you get him off enough? Why is he masturbating so much? 

Because I just met him and we finally did it last night?

[galomika]

if he don't **** three times a night... peace!

[feelslikeadream]

I wouldn't pursue a relationship because I would feel annoyed that he was wasting his seminal fluid on masturbation instead of saving it up for my face.

 

But if you don't have that issue, I wouldn't call this a "red flag." He'll probably adjust the habit once you're dating anyway.

[brraap]

Not for women 

[CottageHore]

I wouldn’t say it’s abnormal, although excessive masturbation can sometimes be a trait of porn or sex addiction, but that’s rare and pleasing one’s self is normal and nothing to be ashamed of.

 

That being said, if I was with a partner and they were constantly masturbating and it was affecting his ability to have sex with me, I’d have concerns. I do also think people who spend so much time masturbating instead of doing other things like being productive, moving their bodies, or being creative just wouldn’t align with my lifestyle.