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Ive noticed a lot of people here saying that they much prefer their 30s, but for me its the opposite.. I enjoyed my 20s way too much, had my own place, was making six figures, travelling, etc all in my 20s and that stopped in my 30s. I enjoyed my 20s way more than i did my 30s thus far.

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What made you flop?

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i am not 30 yet. but i have liked life more the older i get so i will probably like it better.

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I’ll let you know in 2 years.

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20 minutes ago, Revolution said:

i am not 30 yet. but i have liked life more the older i get so i will probably like it better.

Same. starting your life with your partner, buying your first place, succeeding in your career. All very exciting.

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I enjoy my 30s much more

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Early 20s was my peak now in my flop era but will defo repeak in 30s

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21 minutes ago, Alongoria13 said:

I enjoy my 30s much more

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I'm not near my 30s yet but I'll let you know in the 2030s what it feels like

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im literally in my 40s and im not enjoying it at all

 

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I’m struggling financially but all might change next year.

 

I think I’m doing something. I have my own plaxe, my own car, good paying job. I’m just 31 so I’m expecting things to get better from here on.

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30s >>>>

 

I'm having SO much more fun in my 30s and experienced new adventures and hobbies, not to mention I feel like I truly found myself and accepted who I am and how I look. And it's true that sex gets way better as you age :gayliecat1:

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I just turned 32 in December. I know I’m still in my early 30s but here’s my journey so far:

 

1. I’m financially a lot more stable now. My average income jumped from ~$90K in my 20s to over $230K now. I live in a nice apartment in NYC that I love.

 

2. I’m more confident in my body. I’m more muscular than I was in my 20s.

 

3. My skin is better now since I’ve been consistently taking care of it

 

4. I love my current friend circles. I’ve ditched my fake/toxic friends behind in my 20s

 

Despite all that, my dating life still sucks. And I hate that gays are deemed ‘old’ when they’ve reached 30. Mentally that makes me feel old and makes me want to be in my 20s again. But at the end of the day, I’m happier now than I was in my teenage years & 20s.

 

30s is definitely your peak life

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2 hours ago, Distantconstellation said:

had my own place, was making six figures, travelling, etc all in my 20s and that stopped in my 30s.

I feel like some of those things you achieve in your 30s. What happened?

 

Anyway, live your best life babes and try not to dwell on the past too much... I used to do that, once I stopped (and stopped caring about impressing others/and comparing myself to others) I started loving my life a lot more :-) x

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@fememeist Did you think I was older or something?:suburban:

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I miss the energy I had in my 20s but the level of dgaf in my 30s is glorious. Plus I’ve calmed down a lot and not nearly ass aggressive and high strung. 
 

The random pains are annoying though. Like my daily back pains are tearing me up. But NOTHING I did in my 20s beats coming home at 1-3pm and taking all my clothes off and laying in bed. The naps in your 30s aren’t a JOKE!

 

30s>20s easily 

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15 minutes ago, Armani? said:

@fememeist Did you think I was older or something?:suburban:

Oops i don’t know why i misread 2040s(younger actually)

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I'm about to turn 31 in a few days and I'm honestly enjoying it more. I probably would've enjoyed my 20s more had I come out earlier, who knows?

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Things are a lot more peaceful in my 30’s. I used to feel like I wasn’t good enough in my 20’s now idc if I’m not lol

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57 minutes ago, Maroonx said:

I feel like some of those things you achieve in your 30s. What happened?

 

Anyway, live your best life babes and try not to dwell on the past too much... I used to do that, once I stopped (and stopped caring about impressing others/and comparing myself to others) I started loving my life a lot more :-) x

I just got lucky i guess. While yall were flopping in your 20s, i was having fun, going out all the time, travelling, making loads of money and worked from my phone. It stopped at like 28/29 though so now im flopping while yall are thriving. My 20s were amazing, dont care for my 30s.

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I just turned 30, so I’ll let you know halfway..

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Im 31 and much prefer my 30s, financially speaking, but do miss my energy levels. I spend a lot of money on supplements/vitamins and nutrient rich groceries that I didn’t have to in my 20s. Sometimes I wake up with my shoulder in pain because I slept on my side a certain way which is also crazy. 

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Maybe you’ll drop an Emancipation of Mimi soon babes. Don’t worry! Everyone has their flop era.

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I'm not there just yet so I'll bookmark and come back to this :suburban:

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I peaked in my 10s and it's mostly been downhill from there.

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