discussion Are you/Have you ever been a homewrecker

[smartalek22]

Inspired by nothing in particular, but Gays and whoever else of ATRL, have you ever been the homewrecker? 

[PopKills]

Hmmm once I went to the club with my friend group and a guy I used to date came and brought his girlfriend (who was also friends with some of my friendgroup) and long story short we made out the whole night and when I told his girlfriend a few hours later she just was like „I mean he‘s bisexual I can’t change that“ but insisted they’re monogamous 

Edited December 27, 2023 by PopKills

[Aston Martin]

I was talking to a guy once who turned out to be married but I blocked him once he told me  

[Raver]

I was ******* around with this guy who was married. I didn’t know he was as he lied about his name. The name he gave me was his boyfriends name so any time I looked him up nothing matched. Anyways I ended up finding out thru his number when I searched it and found his profile along with a picture of his wedding. I also found out he was undocumented as he had a go fund me to pay for an immigration lawyer. His husband is ugly but I did stop messing with him after I found out. 

[Revolution]

no im classy

[Xtina23]

yes, on average, about every 3 weeks...

oh and I've been in multiple fights with other bottoms to fight for tops on Grindr

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[Jon Snow]

I hooked up with a guy and I later figured out he was seeing a girl. I'm so sorry she was/is being cheated on. I don't know what kind of a relationship they had, but I suppose she knew nothing about him hooking up with guys. I haven't seen him ever since he bent for me.

 

Another time a girl used me to kinda have a revenge on her boyfriend. They had broken up and she had been single when we've kissed just for fun, but when they got back together she used that situation to spit in his face, because he cheated on her or whatever. Later I found out they had seen each other the same night, so I guess they just broke up for show. I distanced myself from her years ago. 

 

All in all, I was never a homewrecker, but I was used twice for people to cheat on their partners.

[Vespertine]

Not knowingly. 

 

Lately I’ve been asking every blank profile if they’re single if it seems like we might meet up. At my age I’ve started noticing a shocking number of DL bi guys cheating on their girlfriends. 

[Bacardo Royale]

Multiple times a year. Married D taste good

[Zefierce]

Is it still being a homewrecker if the home isn't wrecked?

[Nightingale]

Stole someone’s boyfriend once since they were in a long distance relationship 

[Sergi91]

No but I want to end their marriage. 
 

 

[Gorjesspazze9]

No I’m Chronic Virgin 

[Alldeezy]

not on purpose .. one guy was married and I told him to go back to his wife .. and I was still called the bad person

and the others were guys telling me they were single then when im caught with them at the club I was called a bf stealing **** and I was just DONE!

 

I don't trust men .. but I also don't trust girls

 

maybe once I screwed my ex while he was still with the girl but he was cheating on her like he cheated on me then I told her right afterwards .. and luckly she never got mad at me .. only him

[Hallad173]

Ooof sort of, but not really. Both parties were cheating with me 🤭

I just moved to Texas that year and was fresh out of my ugly duckling phase, so I was gobbling up the attention I would get, doing mental gymnastics to justify my messy antics😂😂😂

 

So whenever this couple would throw their pool parties during the summer, maybe once every other weekend, occasionally I’d be alone with one or the other, and they would try to come on to me. It started with compliments and touches and then kisses but I just chalked it up as a drunken thing that happens sometimes and figured they were just non-monogamous.
 

One day partner A was asking partner B about what went on after he left the pool. Partner B made sure to completely omit our make-out sesh out of the story, saying everyone just left and then he came back home. That’s how I figured that this may not be an arrangement between them and they both may not be in the know even they are both doing their duty lol. They eventually broke up at the end of the year because partner A was cheating with someone else and Partner B moved back home to another city.

Once it crossed into lying and covering tracks behavior, I did distance myself though. But they had such a nice pool and amazing home, I definitely went back for the end of summer party on Labor Day weekend. just made sure to stay with the group and left the party before the sun went down 

 

Spoiler

Partner A and I smashed a few times the next year, while he was single. 

 

[White Rabbit]

Yes, the first time I was kinda groomed thinking about it  but the second time, that was on me

[needs]

No but I got my ex stolen by a home wrecker and I'm still salty over it

[Comedor]

No but I did wreck a friendship.

 

I was with a guy, then with his roommate, then back to the guy, and finally with the roommate again.

[sha-nasty]

Yes, unknowingly to start w/ coz they had a joint profile for threesomes. So I thought that's what was happening. But he showed up by himself saying his partner felt ill only to tell me post sex not to mention it to anyone since they only hookup w/ other people together.  Messy, but every time he'd come back, I'd tell him to tell his partner. I was like maybe y'all could be open? 

[EnigmaticAndroid]

On occasion 

 

Usually, it's by accident 

[FightDragonsWithMe]

An old gay on Grindr who is in a married relationship hits me up and I did think about it but I didn't like the persons vibes/entitlement to my time. 

Edited December 27, 2023 by FightDragonsWithMe

[Illuminati]

4 hours ago, Sergi91 said:

No but I want to end their marriage. 
 

 

Moral of her story, "do whatever makes you happy" But she WILL post about you for clicks and views

[popmusicisdead]

i would never

 

[Gelato]

yea I trashed my parents' living room when they got me the wrong iphone a couple of days ago lol

[ThousandMiles]

I can’t get dick let alone married dick