discussion Should I be worried that my date don't text me since yesterday ?

[MoonGoodandHappy]

I had a very great date and very good chemistry with a guy 2 days ago. He said that he was very interrested and we even kissed. The day after, I sent the first message in the morning and he texted me back quickly, I was very happy about that. And then at 1pm he texted me again with a cute message I was so happy I sent him a cute message.

 

But after that, he didnt text me the rest of the day at all... And right now it's the day after, it's 9am and not a single text from him.... I know that he is a doctor and is busy but I'm very anxious about it. Should I be worried ?

[Donquizote]

 

 

[needs]

Not at all, he's probably just taking some time. If the date went well you should go off of that more than anything.

[jonnysands91]

In the first days of a relationship/dating setting, if someone wants to text they will. No matter where they are or how long it's been.

[Punky Rooster]

It's the holidays, people get busy.

[GreatCoolBright]

If i like someone i always repaond right away. 
 

but then again as ppl said it’s xmas maybe he’s in an airport or whatever

[Josh]

you got ghosted and left on read

[KatyPrismSpirit]

Some people are just bad at texting or have a busy schedule. If the date went well just assume the best for now. and if it doesn’t work out, it’s not the end of the world.mp3

[Yawn]

36 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

Should I be worried

well yes! 

[Kern]

Was that the first date?

If they want to kiss you and love you after one date they usually dip fast after that when excitement wears off

[MoonGoodandHappy]

1 minute ago, Yawn said:

well yes! 

Ok 

[Johnny Jacobs]

Give him another 24 hours then text him back. Doctors are usually super busy especially if he's in his first years. A text doesn't take much of his time tho. 

[Badgalbriel]

Nah, don't worry. It's been less than 24 hours. Sometimes it's just not possible to focus on an online conversation when your personal life is too busy. 

 

If he doesn't reply by tomorrow, text him back and propose another date before the holidays, saying you're gonna be busy with family next week and that you want to see him before that. 

[Maestro]

Nope and try not to read into it. He might be playing it cool or just not much of a texter. It sounds like he’s into you 

 

you have to play it cool too. No offence but this thread and your response to a few hours without a text could be a red flag to him. Just relax and try and go with the flow

[West Coast]

Get a grip!

 

[Harsh2256]

This is what gays always do. The man will act like you're the best thing to happen to him then dip and find a new one. Ik the downvotes are coming in. Straight men would probably do the same if dating wasn't so hard for them. 

[MoonGoodandHappy]

11 minutes ago, Badgalbriel said:

Nah, don't worry. It's been less than 24 hours. Sometimes it's just not possible to focus on an online conversation when your personal life is too busy. 

 

If he doesn't reply by tomorrow, text him back and propose another date before the holidays, saying you're gonna be busy with family next week and that you want to see him before that. 

 

7 minutes ago, Maestro said:

Nope and try not to read into it. He might be playing it cool or just not much of a texter. It sounds like he’s into you 

 

you have to play it cool too. No offence but this thread and your response to a few hours without a text could be a red flag to him. Just relax and try and go with the flow

Thank you.... I just sent him a text... Couldnt wait more.... I hope he respond....

[Dolce Vita]

people are busy around the holidays, if he’s into you he’ll respond when he can. remember you literally only met this person once

[Kern]

idk I've done this a couple of times, I met someone and liked them a lot and the realized I kinda don't wanna meet them ever again

 

[Maneater]

You aren’t part of his daily life, he doesn't need to text you all the time

[Maneater]

17 minutes ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

 

Thank you.... I just sent him a text... Couldnt wait more.... I hope he respond....

Like you seem desperate, that has put me off guys in the past

[Domination]

Tbh sounds fine. Text him again after new years and say you want to get together again 

[Illuminati]

It sounds fine, he texted you back and then texted you first the next time. Just don't be too pushy and don't tell him that you're glued to the phone waiting for him to message you cause it might come off too clingy

[MoonGoodandHappy]

2 minutes ago, Illuminati said:

It sounds fine, he texted you back and then texted you first the next time. Just don't be too pushy and don't tell him that you're glued to the phone waiting for him to message you cause it might come off too clingy

 

12 minutes ago, Domination said:

Tbh sounds fine. Text him again after new years and say you want to get together again 

 

22 minutes ago, Dolce Vita said:

people are busy around the holidays, if he’s into you he’ll respond when he can. remember you literally only met this person once

 

39 minutes ago, Maestro said:

Nope and try not to read into it. He might be playing it cool or just not much of a texter. It sounds like he’s into you 

 

you have to play it cool too. No offence but this thread and your response to a few hours without a text could be a red flag to him. Just relax and try and go with the flow

 

43 minutes ago, Badgalbriel said:

Nah, don't worry. It's been less than 24 hours. Sometimes it's just not possible to focus on an online conversation when your personal life is too busy. 

 

If he doesn't reply by tomorrow, text him back and propose another date before the holidays, saying you're gonna be busy with family next week and that you want to see him before that. 

He just texted me with the cutest message ever. I'm just a stupid drama queen. 

[Badgalbriel]

Just now, MoonGoodandHappy said:

 

 

 

 

He just texted me with the cutest message ever. I'm just a stupid drama queen. 

Yeah, don't worry. But still, propose a date before the holidays. Cause things might get even busier next week.