discussion Unpopular gay opinions/Talks gays aren’t ready to have?

[ScorpiosGroove]

p*d*philia’s so normalized in the gay community that a lot of gays are victims without even realizing / admitting it to themselves

 

way too many gays have absolutely no sense of shame, class or manners and are a little too comfortable sending zoomed in pics of their loose holes & unattractive shrimp dicks to complete strangers (on top of having the audacity to get mad at you for blocking / ignoring them) 

[KOMH]

Being promiscuous/a sex addict is NOT a personality trait. Stop shaming gays for believing in monogamy.

 

Straight male validation is useless

 

You don't get brownie points for throwing members of the LGBT under the bus, nor are you exempt from being misogynistic or racist.

[airplane]

gay men need to stop letting straight girls use them as their accessories

[shinyshimmery]

Be your own person, and stop giving into pop culture and the mean girl persona. 

[Solaria]

The GTA thing is so true oh my god I LOVE open world games where I can just explore for hours on end

[Johnny Jacobs]

25 minutes ago, NewStanner said:

You won't turn a straight guy gay, and even if you did, he wasn't straight to begin with

[Bussea]

27 minutes ago, Arrows said:

Gay people care way too much about what other gay people do. Just look at this thread.

^ and this response.

 

19 minutes ago, KatyPrismSpirit said:

Also, some gays need to stop their obsession with telling anyone that has remotely feminine traits gay. You are literally projecting your middle school bullies and do it because it makes you feel good. E.g, Shawn Mendes

!!!!! 
 

I can’t believe I forgot about this. Gays calling other men gay and trying to actively out them without even for certain knowing that they’re gay will always makes my ass itch  even if they were in the closet, why do you feel as though it’s necessary for you to out and make fun of them? It goes back to the Regina George thing I said. You’re trying to live out your mean girl fantasy as an adult because you were too busy getting shoved in lockers in school with your oversized Born this Way shirt

[Bussea]

35 minutes ago, Illuminati said:

This is the first time I'm reading that gays don't play video games GTA is kinda perfect for gay driving, I've been running over people since GTA2

I saw someome on twitter say that gays are only pretending to like GTA so they can seek validation from straights and it’s weird to want to be a serial killer  ***** let me run people over while listening to Robyn in peace

 

 

[D_Man3379]

Sound like a broken record, but stop thinking that acting like Regina George makes you popular. 

[Orsay]

Stop being weird toward straight guys who clearly aren’t interested, stop insisting men who don’t identify as gay are in fact gay

 

Stop thinking your sexual endeavors make you cool, no one cares (this applies to some straight people too)

[LittleStarmen]

dick size is more inportant than face

[Tropez]

6 minutes ago, D_Man3379 said:

 

Sound like a broken record, but stop thinking that acting like Regina George makes you popular. 

This one. Too many gay men think that being mean, and belittling other people makes them cool. It seems to be a reaction from being bullied as children. And they want to relive those days as the mean girl. 

[theoghon]

A sizeable portion of gays, some of them on ATRL, haven't caught up that being intact > being c*t, please don't call it "just a flap of skin"

 

#SupportbodilyAutonomy

[GentleEarthquake]

This reminds of that deluded ATRLer who claimed he's had seggs with like 50 straight males. He said he would see groups of guys in the street and try to separate one of them 

[Khris]

this late 2010s cursive singer girl pipeline SUCKS. So tired of it!!!!!!!!!

Halsey
Phoebe Bridgers

Clairo
beabadoobee
Tate Mcrae
Olivia Rodrigo
Bebe Rexha
Ethel Cain
Cowgirl Clue

[bliaz]

2 minutes ago, GentleEarthquake said:

This reminds of that deluded ATRLer who claimed he's had seggs with like 50 straight males. He said he would see groups of guys in the street and try to separate one of them 

Maybe he's the Beef Cake Hunter guy? 

[rzal]

Gay men are NOT more misogynistic than straight males, I'm tired of this narrative. SOME are but most are absolutely not. People who say this must have not been around straight men.

Douching is necessary. I always see gays on reddit proudly claiming they never douche  I hope it's just a reddit thing  

[dussel_06]

Two bottoms can’t form a relationship. So it’s important to ask for positions at first date. It’s a total time saver. 
 

Bottoms can’t date verse gays since they’ll be forced to top which is impossible.

[Fleahive]

1. Masculinity isn’t toxic and fems that try to paint it as toxic but don’t ever go after other fems are hypocrites. When have you seen someone like James Charles go after another makeup girlie? lol they complain about no one liking them but it’s clear they don’t like themselves. 
 

2. Prep is the cause for the rise is antibiotic resistant diseases. Y’all have gone so far left trying destigmatize sti’s that you get on prep and bareback with someone new every week. Get an sti and make it no big deal because “at least it’s not hiv!” And go on a round of antibiotics multiple times a year and now you’re ******. 
 

3. Heteronormativity is a buzzword used way too often by miserable chronically online gays that try hard to be different. 

 

4. Depression is at an all time high because yall have tied your soul with so many random depressed drug addicts/alcoholics with your one night stands. Having sex with strangers literally bonds you together spiritually. Thats why so many of yall only like depressing music. 
 

5. Gay men do not know how to take selfies. Dead panning your selfie camera makes you look scary and depressed not attractive. It’s okay to smile. 
 

 

[Fleahive]

6. The rise in everyone becoming porn stars isn’t liberating and has turned so many into sex addicts. I’ve had to unfollow people on twitter because everything they like and share is *****graphic. How can someone interact with  that on their timeline EVERY DAY and think it’s normal?

[Fleahive]

7. Children don’t belong at pride. Too many adults have turned it into a sex parade. I cringe every time I see a kid in the audience. 
 

8. Cruising is outdated and trashy. 
 

9. Kink shaming is ok. 
 

[Riverbank]

I've noticed that gay men mature much later when it comes to relationships, emotions, and life in general. Most gays didn’t have the option to build relationships in HS and go through certain formative experiences. And I think it’s sad because most of us missed out on what the majority had during their teenage years, so we have to turn to hookups/dating apps to compensate for that, but it will never be the same because these alternatives are just too shallow and emotionless IMO

[glitch]

Jockstraps are for sport

[Bussea]

1 hour ago, rzal said:

Gay men are NOT more misogynistic than straight males, I'm tired of this narrative. SOME are but most are absolutely not. People who say this must have not been around straight men.

Douching is necessary. I always see gays on reddit proudly claiming they never douche  I hope it's just a reddit thing  

they are

[Summerboy95]

-Not everything revolves around sex

-Not everything revolves around having a perfect body so people look at you with sexual desires

-Having a job and a career is good. Trying to live your life using old people as wallets in exchange for sex is not something healthy

-Prostitution is not a way of living. Most of the time, it is a way of perpetuating and romanticizing social inequalities, sexual abuse, and labor exploitation

-Gay death isn't real. You can enjoy your life after your 30s while being gay

-Being monogamous is not "following a heterosexual way of living", it's about committing yourself to a life project with someone and being mature enough to learn how to say no and not to think about gay death