discussion post a red flag when dating

[Asscatchem]

post something you think that is red flag when you are dating someone for the first time

 

ill start: treating waiters poorly

[FolkLover1989]

Ngl

 

I expected using Android smartphone from you 

[#Beautiful]

stanning lana

 

[Asscatchem]

Just now, FolkLover1989 said:

Ngl

 

I expected using Android smartphone from you 

im kinda in talks w an android user rn sis... he's cute but its been a while since we hit the next base so im gonna meet another guy this weekend 

[Dolce Vita]

guys that are overly affectionate/wanna act like a couple straight away…i learnt this the hard way  

[DawnAnti]

A guy who doesn’t know how to communicate or does not have the balls to say things 

[poki]

Zelda / Mario tattoos. 

[Dear Reader]

dating men

[Smarticle]

thinking which phone they use is a dealbreaker in a relationship

[Prodigal Self]

14 minutes ago, #Beautiful said:

stanning

well yes

[abelfenty]

Someone that posts EVERYTHING they’re doing on social media 

[Ger.vaz]

Talking about your ex or Even mention him/her

[Kayseri Mantisi]

Stanning or loving Lady Gaga for me (not trying to hate or anything, completely serious)

[Bentley]

Drinks to much, is messy, is flamboyant 

 

my boyfriend… 

[Asscatchem]

21 minutes ago, Smarticle said:

thinking which phone they use is a dealbreaker in a relationship

for the record ive stated multiple times in the mod-deleted thread (#bringitback) that i never thought using an android was a dealbreaker just a red flag im done with the slander!

[Lana Banana]

43 minutes ago, FolkLover1989 said:

Ngl

 

I expected using Android smartphone from you 

LMAO

[jesus del rey]

Bragging about how good of a bf you are and how much love you have to give. I learned from experiences that whenever you hear someone say this, you should RUN.

 

Also, stanning Lorde 

[Pandora30012]

When they need to be in constant contact and freak out when you dont reply to a text quickly

[katara]

43 minutes ago, DawnAnti said:

A guy who doesn’t know how to communicate or does not have the balls to say things 

Yep lack of communication (skills) is the biggest deal breaker. Soooooo many other relationship issues stem from that. I run ASAP if I can confirm that the guy is guilty of that.

 

Sadly bad communication skills run wild among gheys (and men in general). I feel like 90% of gheys on dating apps are guilty of it. 

[GeeDuval]

How they treat seniors, bartenders or

waiters.

 

if they’re always checking themselves out every time they pass a damn mirror, or post every damn thing on social media.

[Dear Reader]

Just now, GeeDuval said:

if they’re always checking themselves out every time they pass a damn mirror

the way this irritates the **** out of me 

[Just a Gay on ATRL]

If their profile says "short-term" or "still figuring it out", I won't even bother anymore. No problem with them looking for that but it's not for me nowadays..

[Alldeezy]

A guy that tries to change you

 

It's why I stay single bc men think you'd change for them 

[Revolution]

if they're from china, turkey or albania

[Cloudy]

2 hours ago, Dolce Vita said:

guys that are overly affectionate/wanna act like a couple straight away…i learnt this the hard way  

Literally me yesterday, yet I don't seem to learn

 

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I'll say being latino, they always leave you with your heart broken. It's been too many times at this point yet I still make the same mistake over and over again god damn it 

Edited December 4, 2023 by Cloudy