discussion Girl cut off her friend by ghosting. Ex friend responded.. Who was in wrong?.

[popmusicisdead]

both sound annoying as hell

[KatyPrismSpirit]

Mid off

[Keter]

I don’t think you should ghost people out of nowhere, but if it’s been an ongoing issue without resolution or there’s toxic behaviors involved, you can let someone know that the friendship isn’t moving forward. I’m honestly against having randoms all up in your space, around your man, etc. anyway. Get to know these raggedy heffas first. 

[Bears01]

First girl sounds like an insecure/bratty teenage girl who just wants clout and attention. 
 

Second girl comes off as a lying backstabber who’s either incredibly stupid, or incredibly manipulative. Either or. 
 

Im on “team neither” 

[KFC]

These two both sound like awful people and they should never have been friends with each other in the first place. Recipe for disaster

[cOe]

They both sound equally obnoxious

[St. Charles]

I made it 30 seconds in and I cant. Can someone post a TLDR?

[John Slayne]

1 hour ago, St. Charles said:

I made it 30 seconds in and I cant. Can someone post a TLDR?

the first girl thought the second girl was after her mans so she cut her off. the second girl said the first girl was trippin and she was never after him 

 

it all sounds very petty and childish tbh

 

[Beyonnaise]

I don’t think either is in the right and I wouldn’t want to be friends with either of them. Ghosting a very close friend is trashy. But it’s also telling that the second girl isn’t addressing the comments that she made about thinking she could end up with the guy.

[ScorpiosGroove]

what a deeply uninteresting "beef"

[St. Charles]

19 minutes ago, John Slayne said:

the first girl thought the second girl was after her mans so she cut her off. the second girl said the first girl was trippin and she was never after him 

 

it all sounds very petty and childish tbh

 

Yeah idk about airing out the stuff publicly. If you cut someone off it's just best to move on. Why open up everything again? Now I bet a lot more women are after her man. 

[Rotunda]

I think opening your friendship/relationship dynamic for millions of people to comment on is a much bigger issue than the ghosting piece. 
 

The second girl is probably guilty, the first girl could have kept this in a group chat though.

[What_A_Mess]

8 hours ago, FolkLover1989 said:

 

This is viral all over twitter and tiktok and people have different opinions 

 

Who do you support??

 

I am with first girl 

 

 

Her boyfriend for more context

 

 

 

All of this embarrassing drama for THAT?!! 

[Mocha]

the ghoster is right

[GardenPanty]

i only support ghosting if it's someone you don't know very well (ie. a first date), not a long time friend. if she wanted to cut her off she could have at least explained why. communicating your feelings doesn't mean you're saving a friendship

[Asscatchem]

On 11/22/2023 at 5:09 PM, glitch said:

Ghosting friends is really weird sorry. If you've known someone for a long time and have an issue with something they've done then say it to their face.

or maybe the ghosted can ask themselves why the ghoster feels uncomfortable confronting them honestly

[scenekiller]

Imagine having no life and caring about this nonsense

[Sergi91]

The first girl is so insecure and annoying for making this public a year later. 
 

 

Team second girly 

[watermelonshake]

Both seem awful tbh. But you still shouldn't ghost friends, it's lame. Most people aren't going to physically assault you for saying hey you did something that isn't cool. 

I had a good friend from uni randomly stop talking to me, I still don't know why to this day. She got a bf in another city and then basically started answering me more and more infrequently until she stopped all together. Would love to know what I did!  

[BionicWooHoo]

On 11/22/2023 at 12:28 PM, What_A_Mess said:

All of this embarrassing drama for THAT?!! 

He’s hot

i would be an Asian mans ***** for him 

[DamianSolo]

On the topic of ghosting, itself, I don't respect people who ghost. Stay gone. It just says a lot about who they are as a person, being unable to effectively and honestly communicate and express how they feel and, I feel, ultimately lacking integrity.

 

The only time I feel like it would be acceptable is if the friendship/relationship was toxic or was, otherwise, filled with negativity—or something else along those lines. But if the friendship/relationship was solid, there were no issues or problems and both people communicated regularly and had a good time, to ghost is just a stupid thing to do. Like, I question the mental capacity of anyone who ghosts someone in that type of situation.