discussion Girl cut off her friend by ghosting. Ex friend responded.. Who was in wrong?.

[FolkLover1989]

 

This is viral all over twitter and tiktok and people have different opinions 

 

Who do you support??

 

I am with first girl 

 

 

Her boyfriend for more context

 

 

 

[Leptine]

Unless it's some extreme case where you don't have other choice, I don't like the practice of 'ghosting', if you have a problem or issue with somebody, especially when it comes a friend, just confront them, no matter if you're in the right, a friend deserves to know.

[Dialamba]

1 minute ago, Leptine said:

Unless it's some extreme case where you don't have other choice, I don't like the practice of 'ghosting', if you have a problem or issue with somebody, especially when it comes a friend, just confront them, no matter if you're in the right, a friend deserves to know.

The 2nd girl is a huge gaslighter if I was the first girl and decided to confront her I’d have forgiven her  So I see why she decided to ghost her. 

[wehavetostan]

I see both sides, give us more details queens!

[glitch]

Ghosting friends is really weird sorry. If you've known someone for a long time and have an issue with something they've done then say it to their face.

[wehavetostan]

If this is really the hoodie the 2nd girl is guilty as hell

 

[Attitude]

The one on the right is a mess, but the one on the left is a mess for bringing it up a year later. Both sound exhausting, imagine being friends with them.

 

 

[Blade Runner]

Too long and too boring. Str8 drama is so Zzzzz. 

[Leptine]

7 minutes ago, Dialamba said:

The 2nd girl is a huge gaslighter if I was the first girl and decided to confront her I’d have forgiven her  So I see why she decided to ghost her. 

Still, it's not right cutting a friend without giving an explanation in my opinion and confront them unless something really serious-extreme happens which is not the case in here, even if you're right in the situation, you automatically pass to be in the wrong for doing that.

[Gorjesspazze9]

Girl on the left went my town higschooland my best friend works with one in the left and knows both of them. Crazy this went viral. Lol

[Mr. Blue_Shirt]

After she ditched her friend, now she's about to fight all the hordes of horny after the boyfriend reveal. I'm praying for the girl

 

[glitch]

9 minutes ago, wehavetostan said:

If this is really the hoodie the 2nd girl is guilty as hell

 

Does this mean the "brand" she was suddenly interested in was...nike??? 

[aesthetic bih]

None of them. Both have issues. 

[Illuminati]

"You shouldn't ghost your friends" ummm when the alternative is beating them up for trying to steal your man or having a verbal fight over it I'd say cutting them off is the most diplomatic solution. They probably also have mutual friends who don't want to pick sides

[jesus del rey]

Communication is really not that hard. Ghosting someone and after going to TikTok to run your mouth behind them is sooooo low. 

[HRHCOLLECTION]

I am not believing the second girl at all

[Archetype]

First of all, airing this stuff out on TikTok is pathetic.  Keep that **** to yourself.  Now everyone knows all three people because of the girlfriend.  Second of all, that hoodie is basic af and can be found in any store that sells Nike across the planet.  I don’t believe her at all when she says it’s super cute. 

[CBC]

2nd girl seems shady but you never ghost someone. 1st girl was insecure and lost a friendship over some random D

[tost1]

Who gives a s

[Mordecai]

I had a close friend who ghosted me (to this day I still don't know why) and let me tell you, that **** hurts because you don't get any closure. It's honestly one of the worst things that a friend has ever done to me. It's not that hard to be upfront about your feelings, and ghosting without a valid reason is a huge red flag.

[littlepotter]

Can't tell if girlie #2 is telling the truth or making excuses which is very easy to do

[G.U.Y]

The first girl should've brought all that up to her "friend" before running to post it on tiktok
Ghosting friends without hearing them out is immature and disgusting

[paper moon]

Ghosting is such a terrible thing to do. First girl is entitled to her feelings but she could’ve communicated her boundaries. Pop it in a text message if you are worried about confrontation. At least that gives the other party understanding, sense of closure and an opportunity for reflection.

[Both Sides Now]

Neither seem like they were ever good friends to each other. The first girl isn’t a “girl’s girl” either by airing the dirty laundry. 
 

I think the second girl will end up winning because that relationship isn’t lasting with so much paranoia and insecurity. 

[BionicWooHoo]

Wtf is “I’m known for keeping hoodies” like bffr.