discussion im talking w someone, but im traveling rn and i want to go to a sauna. should i?

[Mordecai]

If you haven't had the conversation about seeing each other exclusively, then you're not committed and free to do whatever you like.

 

But the fact that you needed to ask yourself this question in the first place is sort of an answer in itself

[Janet]

Love saunas. X

[simplywohoo]

35 minutes ago, Badgalbriel said:

How would you feel about him going to a sauna? 

That's the most important question rn

 

 

Personally I wouldn't want it and it'd be over for me if I found out the other person did it.

[CBC]

idk i think it's hot

[Shelter]

Let us know how the sauna goes.  

[JawBreaker]

Is something wrong with me why dont I have the urge to go cruising or go to saunas? 

 

OT: Yes go 

[Oktober Knight]

Do it now before it's too late. You're not official yet so no harm is being done. Get it out of your system now before you both become a couple. 

[Raphy23]

Depends for how much you care for and how much your into the guy you're currently talking too.

[Last Boy on Earth]

Imagine letting your body be owned by one single person, single or not

 

[Last Boy on Earth]

1 hour ago, JawBreaker said:

Is something wrong with me why dont I have the urge to go cruising or go to saunas? 

 

OT: Yes go 

There’s a lot of gays who do not go to saunas or cruising, you’re not special, quit the dramatics 

[Pheromosa]

After your iPhone thread I know you will make the wrong choice anyway 

[jezebelvictoria]

I wouldn’t want to be with someone who’s okay with being with prostitutes. So you should definitely tell him to see if he’s okay with that. Especially considering how easy it is to catch diseases from those types of places. I’d be disgusted. 

[Zaram]

Please stay away from that poor guy.

He deserves better.

 

[#Beautiful]

2 hours ago, Digitalism said:

So a red flag for you is using android but  going into a sauna is ok ?

 

[Alongoria13]

If it's not official I don't see the issue

Normally when you can't get someone out of your head you somewhat become a bit reserved sexual wise, you're not in there by the looks of it.

Edited November 17, 2023 by Alongoria13

[Last Boy on Earth]

25 minutes ago, jezebelvictoria said:

I wouldn’t want to be with someone who’s okay with being with prostitutes. So you should definitely tell him to see if he’s okay with that. Especially considering how easy it is to catch diseases from those types of places. I’d be disgusted. 

Can you explain the correlation between a sauna and prostitutes? Having been in saunas all over Europe, this is news to me 

Edited November 17, 2023 by Last Boy on Earth

[Venice B]

3 hours ago, Khal said:

Christ, that poor person. Imagine being on the verge of entering into a relationship with a dummy that trolls about iOS v Android on the internet, and having to potentially deal with that for years or the rest of your life.

For real though THIS is a real red flag 

[MonsterTown]

i mean desperation isn't cute like you really need to go saunas? while you talking to a cute guy...
would be better if you actually confront him and actually ask him out or whatever. soo you don't have to ask this kind of question...ask him out if he doesn't want anything then go to saunas at least you tried.
looks like he is kinda special to you otherwise you would not ask this...anyway have fun but its better if you sort out all this step by step, don't trust the geis over here saying "doing it before its late" like.. next time you will cheat or having trusts issues bc you can't control your bussy/weenie desperation.

[fememeist]

4 hours ago, Khal said:

Christ, that poor person. Imagine being on the verge of entering into a relationship with a dummy that trolls about iOS v Android on the internet, and having to potentially deal with that for years or the rest of your life.

Oop! Humble it a bit 

[Bussea]

ghost him after you go to the sauna.

 

he deserves better. you sound insufferable tbh. hope that helps!