discussion im talking w someone, but im traveling rn and i want to go to a sauna. should i?

[Asscatchem]

ive been talking to this one cute guy sporadically for weeks but we havent done anything yet as im still assessing if he really liked me and i think hes just given me enough clues that hes interested a few days ago. were not official yet, but im traveling right now and i have this urge to go to a sauna. would you judge me? 

Edited November 17, 2023 by Asscatchem

[RideOrDie]

would it bother you if he did it? 

good luck and have fun! 

[Asscatchem]

Just now, RideOrDie said:

would it bother you if he did it? 

good luck and have fun! 

i mean i wanted him to move faster before it got to this point tbh

[glitch]

Boo you wh0re

Edited November 17, 2023 by glitch

[Lana Banana]

If you haven’t made it official then you shouldn’t feel bad about having some fun in the meantime. 

[Asscatchem]

Just now, glitch said:

Boo you wh0re

[Badgalbriel]

Is this what an iPhone user would do? 

[GraceRandolph]

Wouldn’t it be more helpful to ask him rather than random ATRLers?

[yourcloud]

If he uses Whatsapp, he deserves it. 

[Illuminati]

If you wouldn't be ashamed to tell him about it then go for it

[Asscatchem]

1 minute ago, Badgalbriel said:

Is this what an iPhone user would do? 

yes and the cute guy im talking to has an android so dont come for me. like i said red flag =/= dealbreaker

[kataraqueen]

just imagine him doing it to you and see if you feel neutral / positive w/ it (and be honest and truly imaginative)

 

if it is, then you should absolutely do it. I don't think there's anything wrong with it and I think it's cool, but you should always make sure that what you're bringing to a relationship is that what you expect of them.

[Asscatchem]

1 minute ago, Illuminati said:

If you wouldn't be ashamed to tell him about it then go for it

but are we at that point yet? were not official. but honestly i would feel ashamed telling him so i probably shouldnt, but im still young

[Badgalbriel]

1 minute ago, Asscatchem said:

yes and the cute guy im talking to has an android so dont come for me. like i said red flag =/= dealbreaker

Seems like the red flag is the iPhone user this time

JK, you go and have fun, sis. You're not committed to him. Go and have your fun. Remember to wear a condom 

 

[Badgalbriel]

Just now, Asscatchem said:

but are we at that point yet? were not official. but honestly i would feel ashamed telling him so i probably shouldnt, but im still young

How would you feel about him going to a sauna? 

[kataraqueen]

2 minutes ago, Asscatchem said:

yes and the cute guy im talking to has an android so dont come for me. like i said red flag =/= dealbreaker

 

1 minute ago, kataraqueen said:

just imagine him doing it to you and see if you feel neutral / positive w/ it (and be honest and truly imaginative)

 

if it is, then you should absolutely do it. I don't think there's anything wrong with it and I think it's cool, but you should always make sure that what you're bringing to a relationship is that what you expect of them.

well there you have your answer on whether he'd go to a sauna. Androids aren't waterproof so the answer's no :/

[Illuminati]

1 minute ago, Asscatchem said:

but are we at that point yet? were not official. but honestly i would feel ashamed telling him so i probably shouldnt, but im still young

You're not "at that point yet" but if you feel like you're doing something wrong then you already know you shouldn't

[Dante Silva]

It’s just lust. I’d go and would not tell anyone, which is the point of such venues.

[Khal]

Christ, that poor person. Imagine being on the verge of entering into a relationship with a dummy that trolls about iOS v Android on the internet, and having to potentially deal with that for years or the rest of your life.

[Attitude]

do it

 

[kataraqueen]

What ever choice you make, make sure the only reason you're making it is your own conscience and nothing else xo

[dumbsparce]

If you have the urge then it's already an "oopsie" so you might as well go do it all the way bc it's sauna this time, it could be a sex dungeon the next. You get the gist.

(you don't have to tell him though)

[Raptus]

No one should suffer through your company. Stay home and never speak to anyone, world will be better.  

[Digitalism]

So a red flag for you is using android but  going into a sauna is ok ?

 

[HRHCOLLECTION]

I wouldn’t judge you for “cheating”, but for going to a sauna in the first place.

 

nonetheless until you’re official, you’re free to date other people