Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 I’ve been going back and forth on if i have one up or not. Part of me feels weird that anyone i know or a weirdo could potentially recognize me in public on those apps with my face up but also hate when people ask for a face pic and then stop answering etc What does ATRL think?
Sheep Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Pretty much everywhere but Sniffies. If somebody recognizes me that's their problem, I'm just living my best life. 1
Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Author Posted October 29, 2023 1 minute ago, Sheep said: Pretty much everywhere but Sniffies. If somebody recognizes me that's their problem, I'm just living my best life. Sniffles is a whole different beast but i only have 2 people in particular from work honestly that i would be pretty mortified if they saw my 3/4th nude body on the app but maybe they’d be interested 1
Nightingale Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Yeah. I block people I know in real life. I live in the suburbs so haven’t really run into that many weirdos who recognize me from the app It’s also just easier because then everyone messages you first and there’s no awkward sending face pic and then ghosting because they’re not into your face. 4
jesus del rey Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 No, I don't want weirdos to recognize me in public. When I had Grindr, I had a pic of my torso and v-lines. 1
Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Author Posted October 29, 2023 5 minutes ago, Nightingale said: Yeah. I block people I know in real life. I live in the suburbs so haven’t really run into that many weirdos who recognize me from the app It’s also just easier because then everyone messages you first and there’s no awkward sending face pic and then ghosting because they’re not into your face. Yeah this is the main reason i usually stick with a face pic as it doesn’t happen all the time but when it does it sometimes stings 2 minutes ago, jesus del rey said: No, I don't want weirdos to recognize me in public. When I had Grindr, I had a pic of my torso and v-lines. This is what my profile picture currently is
Sir Galahad Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Yes, it saves time and I have no problem it being up there. 1
Donquizote Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Yes. Even if I don't have it, someone else will use my face pic anyway. I caught five users so far using my face pic on grindr That's why I told my grindr hook up to straight away text me on instagram if they saw me at somewhere far from my place. 1
Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Author Posted October 29, 2023 1 minute ago, Donquizote said: Yes. Even if I don't have it, someone else will use my face pic anyway. I caught five users so far using my face pic on grindr That's why I told my grindr hook up to straight away text me on instagram if they saw me at somewhere far from my place. This would simultaneously creep me out and flatter me at the same time
Uncatena Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 yes and i don’t even bother with anyone who doesn’t. 2
Donquizote Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Just now, Twilish said: This would simultaneously creep me out and flatter me at the same time Yes, it felt creepy that sometime grindr user would text me and said that we had chatted before and called me with different name
Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Author Posted October 29, 2023 5 minutes ago, Donquizote said: Yes, it felt creepy that sometime grindr user would text me and said that we had chatted before and called me with different name I always imagine what their end goal is. Do you really need attention that bad that you’ll just fake being another random person? As i say this i remember they have a whole TV show about this so it’s obviously a common occurrence.
Power love Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Unfamiliar with theses apps. I know it’s for the gays but are they dating apps?
LadyDiana Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 2 minutes ago, Twilish said: I always imagine what their end goal is. Do you really need attention that bad that you’ll just fake being another random person? As i say this i remember they have a whole TV show about this so it’s obviously a common occurrence. There are way too many users who get off jerking off while chatting/exchanging pictures. I usually say after like 5 messages if we should meet. Two face pics, one dic pic/naked body should be enough. If they keep asking for more I just block them. None of thise that chatted with me for like hours actually met with me. Yup I use my face pic but will reconsider it now that I hear those can actually be stolen and reused
CBC Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 I used to but I had to stop because people kept spamming me asking me if I was really Manu Rios
Mornings Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 I do. Have never even hooked up with a guy from Grindr but I kinda like the attention 1
PMKARDASHIAN Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 Yes and after the blank or torso profiles send face pics, I realize why they don’t 1
Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Author Posted October 29, 2023 9 minutes ago, PMKARDASHIAN said: Yes and after the blank or torso profiles send face pics, I realize why they don’t That’s when I’m all of a sudden “busy” 4 minutes ago, Queen of Wembley said: Yes. Pretty privilege I guess. if you got it, flaunt it.
Tropez Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 42 minutes ago, Power love said: Unfamiliar with theses apps. I know it’s for the gays but are they dating apps? No. It’s an online bible study app. You can also communicate with like minded Christian’s 4
Twilish Posted October 29, 2023 Author Posted October 29, 2023 42 minutes ago, Power love said: Unfamiliar with theses apps. I know it’s for the gays but are they dating apps? Yes but less of a dating app and more of a “hook up” app for the majority I’d say.
BrokenMachine Posted October 29, 2023 Posted October 29, 2023 (edited) No, I'm not a pychopath Spoiler I can deal when people stop answering if I send face pic, it's up to them, not me Edited October 29, 2023 by BrokenMachine
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