BrentB Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 So this is a part 2 of my thread on ghosting/being ghosted. So a hottie who ghosted you for filth months ago, is under a new profile. It kills you but he's in your top 3 all-time best hookups (UNDISPUTABLE & you shall DEAL). He taps first & you're looking like "Wait a damn minute. This profile pic looks familiar." Then before you can even grasp, you have 4 unread notifications followed by album recieved. You see the exact same face, exact same ass/D pics etc. Yup it's this loser again You're single. You're horny. Everyone else in your vicinity is NOT It (like it is 80% of the time, what's new )? He's hosting @ a hotel 2km away. You can try to pull a reverse uno card after you're both done, but he most-likely wouldn't care. What are you saying now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dessy Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 Sure I'd go for it. He was just a hookup Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mons†er Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 well this is a blessing. you have the ability to control the situation and take it for what it is and not get your feelings hurt. he's just a great hook up, not a husband. act accordingly and get your post n*t clarity and keep it moving. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mercurialworld Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 girl get that *****! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Slayne Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 if it bothers you that much just ignore him... if you proceed with the hookup remember that it's a hookup and not that serious. he doesn't care, so neither should you. have good sex and move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Big Bad Wolf Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 You seem exhausting. Leave that boy alone 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abel Minaj Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 Not to be all preachy but, this whole scenario, hookup culture, dating apps etc is so unnatural. There's no telling what the long term effects on society this is having. I was a grindr thot once upon a time so I'm not judging, do you, but this is not healthy in any way shape or form. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidnightsAtPeace Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 I'd sleep with him again, after all it's just a hookup and nothing serious, and if the sex is good then it's the only thing that matters. Though I usually think it's sometimes a good idea to have some self respect and ignore those who once ghosted you, but I this case, I'd go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gatito Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 if i were you and seeing how hard it hit you being ghosted the first time i'd just jack off eat pizza and fall asleep watching a movie 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zasderfght Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 (edited) I would not go through with this hookup, and here's why: 1. Even if the man is not your boyfriend, husband, or interested in dating you, clearly, you have some feelings towards him-- whether it's just infatuation, hormones, or legit feelings, and, clearly, this man cannot even communicate with you directly about having no-strings-attached sex. Clearly, his priorities lie elsewhere. And so do yours. 2. If your goal is just to hook up, there are TONS of men who I'm sure would do an FWB thing with you (if that's what you want; it sounds like you want a consistent F-Buddy). Please don't give this man all your power. It's your life, but personally, I'd look elsewhere. Don't swallow your pride (no pun intended). You're better than that. Edited September 25, 2023 by zasderfght 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolce Vita Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 it’s kinda your decision bc he ghosted u the first time, u have the option to do the same and ignore him or just sleep with him knowing nothing will happen afterwards Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TightBoochie Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 If it was a good hookup I would do it again. Sucks that he ghosted u but at least now u know what to expect. Hope ur hole gets a nice glazing sis. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pendulum Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 A past hookup who semi-ghosted me a while back saw me on the uni campus and waved at me. I showed him the finger. I felt so powerful. You should let it go. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AMIT Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 You're telling yourself it's just a hook up but you made 2 whole threads about him already. I went through something similar. I went for it again and it was great when it was going down but it did make me feel even worse after, which for me was whatever I guess, not like I can take it back anyway, but eh I don't think it's worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mylicious Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 touch grass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scenekiller Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 Hookup culture sounds so stupid and exhausting tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glitch Posted September 25, 2023 Share Posted September 25, 2023 I genuinely wonder how old some of you are 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DamianSolo Posted September 26, 2023 Share Posted September 26, 2023 If you ghost me, you can stay as a ghost. You're not going to use me like that, ignore me and then expect me to come when called. I have some sort of dignity, not giving people too many chances to play around with me like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lef Posted September 26, 2023 Share Posted September 26, 2023 (edited) 7 hours ago, Pendulum said: A past hookup who semi-ghosted me a while back saw me on the uni campus and waved at me. I showed him the finger. I felt so powerful. You should let it go. you were so real for this king! Edited September 26, 2023 by lef Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pendulum Posted September 26, 2023 Share Posted September 26, 2023 5 hours ago, lef said: you were so real for this king! thank you for your input Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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