Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 (edited) 17 minutes ago, JustLikeHoney said: Here. You making light of my comment. Have a nice day. How is this me making fun of your depression or saying you aren’t depressed? I’m saying it’s problematic for you to assert Angelica’s account is potentially false due to her depression. In what world is anything here a dig at your mental health? The reason why I used the word “upset” there was because I was talking about Angelica and I have no idea what her mental health diagnoses are. I have had my own battle with depression for years, I’m acutely aware of what a dig at someone’s depression looks like and that isn’t it. You’ve weaponized your mental illness as a way to shield yourself from criticism and as a way to further the idea that Angelica could be lying about something she already received an apology for. I made fun of your comment cause it was callous, and especially ridiculous given that it came at a time where Emma had already apologized. That is not the same thing as making fun of your depression or saying you aren’t depressed. Once again, I’ll refer you to the Amazon link. And I’ll be retaining my account on ATRL. Thank you. Any final rebuttals? @Lana Banana @Moloko Plus Edited September 20, 2023 by Rotunda 6 2
nostalgic Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 (edited) r/fauxmoi in shambles that they won't get a PR statement for them to pick apart and go Sigmund Freud over. Good for them handling this privately for the most part, though it's sad it took calling her out publicly for her to realize her behavior was clearly inappropriate and hurtful (if completely true). Edited September 20, 2023 by nostalgic
JustLikeHoney Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 8 minutes ago, Rotunda said: How is this me making fun of your depression or saying you aren’t depressed? I’m saying it’s problematic for you to assert Angelica’s account is potentially false due to her depression. In what world is anything here a dig at your mental health? The reason why I used the word “upset” there was because I was talking about Angelica and I have no idea what her mental health diagnoses are. I have had my own battle with depression for years, I’m acutely aware of what a dig at someone’s depression looks like and that isn’t it. You’ve weaponized your mental illness as a way to shield yourself from criticism and as a way to further the idea that Angelica could be lying about something she already received an apology for. I made fun of your comment cause it was callous, and especially ridiculous given that it came at a time where Emma had already apologized. That is not the same thing as making fun of your depression. Once again, I’ll refer you to the Amazon link. And I’ll be retaining my account on ATRL. Thank you. Any objections? @Lana Banana @Moloko Plus Girl, ok. I have been trying to end this conversation for a while. You keep writing paragraphs. Depression is hard and people face it differently. It has made me look for connections which I tried with Angelique. Weaponizing depression is the last thing I did or want. You are the one attacking everyone that doesn't agree with you. You have even lumped everyone together firing squad style, so you can attack us all at once. I can't believe you are so unaware of what you are doing. I still think everything about what Angelica is doing performative. Even though I don't believe she is lying. She literally just publicly announced a private conversation. 8
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 1 minute ago, JustLikeHoney said: Girl, ok. I have been trying to end this conversation for a while. You keep writing paragraphs. Depression is hard and people face it differently. It has made me look for connections which I tried with Angelique. Weaponizing depression is the last thing I did or want. You are the one attacking everyone that doesn't agree with you. You have even lumped everyone together firing squad style, so you can attack us all at once. I can't believe you are so unaware of what you are doing. I still think everything about what Angelica is doing performative. Even though I don't believe she is lying. She literally just publicly announced a private conversation. So did I make fun of your depression and say you weren’t depressed or not?
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 23 minutes ago, Rotunda said: How is this me making fun of your depression or saying you aren’t depressed? I’m saying it’s problematic for you to assert Angelica’s account is potentially false due to her depression. In what world is anything here a dig at your mental health? The reason why I used the word “upset” there was because I was talking about Angelica and I have no idea what her mental health diagnoses are. I have had my own battle with depression for years, I’m acutely aware of what a dig at someone’s depression looks like and that isn’t it. You’ve weaponized your mental illness as a way to shield yourself from criticism and as a way to further the idea that Angelica could be lying about something she already received an apology for. I made fun of your comment cause it was callous, and especially ridiculous given that it came at a time where Emma had already apologized. That is not the same thing as making fun of your depression or saying you aren’t depressed. Once again, I’ll refer you to the Amazon link. And I’ll be retaining my account on ATRL. Thank you. Any final rebuttals? @Lana Banana @Moloko Plus ??? You linked someone who claimed to deal with depression in this thread to an Amazon book. And you are tagging multiple people for your own “pleasure”. Girl… and I am 1000% sure no one even cares about your second paragraph diarrhoea. 2
Darkgalord Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 I feel like this thread should be locked. 1
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Lana Banana said: ??? You linked someone who claimed to deal with depression in this thread to an Amazon book. And you are tagging multiple people for your own “pleasure”. Girl… and I am 1000% sure no one even cares about your second paragraph diarrhoea. The Amazon book was about how to read, which you apparently are also struggling with. Did I make fun of their depression and say they weren’t depressed or not? Edited September 20, 2023 by Rotunda 4
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Rotunda said: So did I make fun of their depression and say they weren’t depressed or not? We read your question the first time. Yes you did and it’s sad that you don’t realize it and have been trying to defend yourself on multiple layers. Even the antagonist of this thread did better. 9
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Lana Banana said: We read your question the first time. Yes you did and it’s sad that you don’t realize it and have been trying to defend yourself on multiple layers. Even the antagonist of this thread did better. How did I do that? Show me the quote.
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 7 minutes ago, Rotunda said: How did I do that? Show me the quote. The only quote I will provide you is my own: “You’re an idiot.” 10
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Lana Banana said: The only quote I will provide you is my own: “You’re an idiot.” I appreciate the confirmation that I have never said that user’s depression wasn’t real, nor did I make light of it. Thank you . Ironic that the only false allegations in this thread came from you and that user, and not from Angelica.
ATRL Moderator MissedTheTrain Posted September 20, 2023 ATRL Moderator Posted September 20, 2023 Wow, that's incredibly disappointing. Good to hear she apologized (and the fact that she did it on the phone in private instead of a generic PR public statement makes me think it's genuine). Hopefully she learns from this and does better. 3
Dystopian Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Some people really think she's doing this to sabotage the latest AHS season as if the last 6 seasons haven't bombed
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, Rotunda said: Show me where I said you were lying about your depression. Once you think you’ve located where I did that, buy this: https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Read-Activity-Book-Lessons/dp/1939754526/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=1NYBSAPJONE43&keywords=learn+to+read&qid=1695247029&sprefix=learn+to+reas%2Caps%2C77&sr=8-4 After you have bought and mastered the link above, then you can try to explain to me how you thinking she’s being performative is relevant to my question why if she was faking something out of anger towards Ryan Murphy, she wouldn’t further implicate him in this squabble with Emma. You're using an accusatory tone here. You are accusing the other person of their struggles and implying the person is lying. It's a serious and a sensitive matter. It can be hurtful or offensive. You're invalidating the other person's feelings by dismissing their feelings and experiences as "performative" with an implication that the other person is over-exaggerating. You are also replying in a derogatory manner by mocking which provides an implication of a personal attack - OFFENSIVE. You are taking a sarcastic and a condescending tone throughout this whole thread by invalidating other posters whilst using derogatory language and you are escalating this conversation into dumb exchanges which apparently you feed on. Any other questions? Don't play me brand new, "babe". Edited September 20, 2023 by Lana Banana 2 8
JustLikeHoney Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 14 minutes ago, Rotunda said: So did I make fun of your depression and say you weren’t depressed or not? Girl what? Yes you did. I quoted it. Oh Lord. I was trying to be nice because you said you had you're own battle with depression, but here we are again. Explaining your bad joke, doesn't make it any less bad. At least Emma apologized for hers. https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Read-Activity-Book-Lessons/dp/1939754526/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=1NYBSAPJONE43&keywords=learn+to+read&qid=1695247029&sprefix=learn+to+reas%2Caps%2C77&sr=8-4
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Lana Banana said: You're using an accusatory tone here. You are accusing the other person of their struggles and implying the person is lying. It's a serious and a sensitive matter. It can be hurtful or offensive. You're invalidating the other person's feelings by dismissing the other person's feelings and experiences as "performative" with an implication that the other person is over-exaggerating. You are also replying in a derogatory manner by mocking which provides an implication of personal attack - OFFENSIVE. You are taking a sarcastic and a condescending tone throughout this whole thread by invalidating other posters whilst using derogatory language and you are escalating this conversation into dumb exchanges which apparently you feed on. Any other questions? Show me where any of that is me telling them their depression isn’t real or making fun of their depression? I accused them of lying about me making fun of their depression because they were lying….about me…not about depression I wasn’t being nice to them, sure I never was trying to be nice to y’all. I never said any or implied Honey was being performative. I said they were wrong. Honey was the one calling Angelica performative.
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Rotunda said: Show me where any of that is me telling them their depression isn’t real or making fun of their depression? I accused them of lying about me making fun of their depression because they were lying….about me…not about depression I wasn’t being nice to them, sure I never was trying to be nice to y’all. I never said any or implied Honey was being performative. I said they were wrong. Honey was the one calling Angelica performative. I quoted the exact quote. [insert Amazon link here to a book on "HOW TO READ"]
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 3 minutes ago, JustLikeHoney said: Girl what? Yes you did. I quoted it. Oh Lord. I was trying to be nice because you said you had you're own battle with depression, but here we are again. Explaining your bad joke, doesn't make it any less bad. At least Emma apologized for hers. https://www.amazon.com/Learn-Read-Activity-Book-Lessons/dp/1939754526/ref=mp_s_a_1_4?crid=1NYBSAPJONE43&keywords=learn+to+read&qid=1695247029&sprefix=learn+to+reas%2Caps%2C77&sr=8-4 I already explained to you that my post had nothing to do with your depression and everything to do with you falsely implying Angelica’s struggles would make her provide false details about events. You have yet to outline a post where I said your depression wasn’t real or that your depression is a joke or shouldn’t be taken seriously. You and Lana can keep trying until you get blue in the face, but all y’all have are reaches. 3
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 (edited) 1 minute ago, Lana Banana said: I quoted the exact quote. [insert Amazon link here to a book on "HOW TO READ"] This post literally contains nothing where I say their depression isn’t real or a joke… I told them to learn how to read because they falsely inferred my post was a dig at their depression. Edited September 20, 2023 by Rotunda 1
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 1 minute ago, Rotunda said: This post literally contains nothing where I say their depression isn’t real or a joke… 9
Lana Banana Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Shimenawa said: Roisin Murphy, Emma Roberts... sad What does Roisin Murphy have to do with this?
Rotunda Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 In fact @Lana Banana @JustLikeHoney report my post for making light of Honey’s depression, and I’ll let you know if the mods say I made fun of your depression. How does that sound? Is that a good compromise? 1
Shimenawa Posted September 20, 2023 Posted September 20, 2023 Just now, Lana Banana said: What does Roisin Murphy have to do with this? Both gay icons that were secretly transphobic and have been exposed recently
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