discussion I gave a note to a guy i have a crush on at a restaurant and he said he has a gf

[Daddy]

1 hour ago, MoonGoodandHappy said:

I'm just a pisces sorry 

Our struggle, sis...  

 

But good for you that you did it. Hope it works out for you. If not, there's always a next time  

[MoonGoodandHappy]

21 minutes ago, EtherealCat said:

hope hes gay for you 

 

21 minutes ago, Gwendolyn said:

Good on you for the courage! If he rejects you, respect it. but keep us updated, we may get the 1st ATRL wedding soon 

 

17 minutes ago, Daddy said:

Our struggle, sis...  

 

But good for you that you did it. Hope it works out for you. If not, there's always a next time  

Thank you so much 

[Delirious]

Gl sis rooting for you. 

[Miracle]

They are working. Maybe you could go ask him right after a shift finishes so it's technically not in a work environment. And also you could try like oh I like your vibe can we share instagrams? instead of opnely flirting with a worker

 

[Outlaws]

May I ask, how old are you, dear?

 

'cause... yeah

 

[KBax]

Is he even gay? He is just doing his job so I mean if he smiles and asks for your order that's... pretty normal. But good luck, hopefully you hear from him. Even if you don't, good job for facing your fears and giving him your number. 

[MoonGoodandHappy]

38 minutes ago, Outlaws said:

May I ask, how old are you, dear?

 

'cause... yeah

 

Theres an age to search for love ?

[aesthetic bih]

Wow, I wouldn't even have the courage.

 

Just keep it cool sis! Don't overthink (i know it's hard but, try!)

 

Don't expect they'll like you back, but if they do, then that would be amazing!

[Zeferino]

Perched, rooting for you 

[kweenofxanax]

Oh wow I'm so excited for you! Good luck.
 

Hopefully it turns out well. If not, then you can have the closure of saying you gave it a try! 

[MoonGoodandHappy]

So... it's been 4 days and he didnt texted me... Not even a simple "i'm not interested"... i'm really sad about it... I'm like "maybe he just lost the note" which is possible because it's a very little piece of paper... but maybe not... The hardest will be to go to this restaurant again and see him.... it will be so awkward after that. 

[katara]

Um do you even know if he is gay? Yall seem to forget that gay men are only like 5% and str8 men are the remaining 95% 

[EtherealCat]

hold your head up it was brave to take the chance and you would have regretted more if you didnt at least try

[lawmak]

11 minutes ago, EtherealCat said:

hold your head up it was brave to take the chance and you would have regretted more if you didnt at least try

This. You(OP)'ve been very brave and even if he didn't text you you're still alive and safe and got a lot more opportunities ahead.

 

Give it some time..this is a growing experience - you've done the right thing facing your fears and taking a risk - the more you do this the less anxiety you will have for this kind of situations!

[arceus]

this should classify as harrasment 

 

i hate when people do this 

[Sergi91]

On 6/10/2023 at 6:46 AM, Delirious said:

Well to be honest you should just leave him alone.

 

Workers are just being nice to you because they're paid for it. I don't think they want to be asked any questions esp not getting hit on.

Literally this. It’s like an episode of South Park. 

 

[Gwendolyn]

Not the rejection.. at least you tried?

 

Do you know why?

Edited June 18, 2023 by Gwendolyn

[MonsterJohn]

Well at least you don't have to regret not to try

 

There is always a next time

[MoonGoodandHappy]

1 hour ago, deal dough said:

so what is the truth.gif

??? If he didnt texted me, i guess i got rejected no ?!?

[MoonGoodandHappy]

6 hours ago, arceus said:

this should classify as harrasment 

 

i hate when people do this 

[Breathe On Moi]

now look what you did, you can’t even go eat a sandwich now 

[Sazare]

2 hours ago, deal dough said:

so what is the truth.gif

I mean. I think four days is enough time.

[Bentley]

He’s gonna spin in your entree next time. But good for you, it couldn’t be me! 

Edited June 19, 2023 by Bentley

[Sazare]

6 hours ago, arceus said:

this should classify as harrasment 

 

i hate when people do this 

I think doing this once is innocuous. If someone thinks they have real chemistry with their server, leaving their number after they’ve paid is a pretty harmless way of going about it as long as they don’t keep bothering the person once it’s become obvious the interest isn’t reciprocated.

[Katamari]

Op I think you’ll have to leave town now