mystery Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 How about you just don't and learn how to move on?
Robert Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 You can’t and it sounds like you need to focus on yourself before you enter any relationship.
Superbitch Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 5 hours ago, MoonGoodandHappy said: But he watch all my stories, each one of them, he respond me quickly... This is what makes me think maybe i have a chance. And 5 minutes ago he responded to me by message at 7am... Like... he has a boyfriend but he keep an eye on me.... This makes me really think i could get him back. Hunty. You are in denial. Let it go for your mental health. This sounds obsessive. I know it Can be hard but….
Infatuation_Junkie Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Just play hard to get. They all come running back eventually.
MadonnasBoyfriend Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Plant drugs in his car? Saw it on a Kate Winslet show but you need access to the evidence room
Oktober Knight Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 You need to accept AND respect that he is with someone else and you need to move on. Begging to meet him will just make things worse for you. You'll fall for him even more and get that much more upset that you can't have him back. I recommend cutting all ties and dating someone else. Don't put yourself through this torture.
BionicWooHoo Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 12 hours ago, Limitless said: You may or may not be kidding, but OP please PLEASE stay away from magic (especially as it pertains to emotional manipulation of others) nothing good can come of it. Wait why
Europe Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 Is there any chance they might be willing to have a threesome with you and eventually take you as a third?
theweekend Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 he's already move on and you should do the same. if you're meant to be together, may the time will come again in the right moment for it to happen which is not now.
AMIT Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 sis not again even IF y'all get together again at some other point in life, this isn't the way to be doing things for that to happen. He very much knows your ass and so knows you will keep following him if he gives you the slightest bit of attention, just like he's doing right now. You need to be STRONG and stop responding/talking to him. If you keep this **** going things WILL get ugly and you will not get what you want. Again, do yourself a favor and focus on yourself. but NOT you running back to your ex as soon as you broke up with that other guy you were dating (and seemingly obsessed with as well). not to mention the fact you kept reachigng out to your ex while you were IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Guest Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 2 hours ago, BionicWooHoo said: Wait why @BionicWooHooThat’s a story for a whole other time—dark magic isn’t to be toyed with; there are consequences beyond your imagination. Maybe I’ll make a post about my experience with a l*ve sp*ll in The Lounge, one day, but it’s unlikely 15 hours ago, Juanny said: Move on and have respect for yourself, no shade intended. I say this with all with complete empathy for you. Everything in life that you chase runs away, men especially. You’re expecting to ¨get your ex back" by acting like the only solution to your feeling of emptiness is a man who hasn’t shown you an ounce of respect or reciprocity. This is not only disrespectful and inhuman treatment toward yourself, but also a severely unattractive quality that is likely totally transparent not only to him but everyone else. Any and all the issues you’re experiencing can only be resolved by yourself. No man is going to come in and fix you or make you happy and a relationship is not the key to your happiness. Everyone in here has said it already but you seriously need to be staying single and resolve your deep-rooted issues that seem to be driving you to attach your self worth and goals onto another person in an unhealthy and unstable manner. @Juannynot you inadvertently describing my current situation (and reading me at the same time (as you should ) ). I really needed to see this so I could snap out of the infatuation and LOVE MYSELF. He’ll never want me the same way and ultimately it really is so unattractive to be so desperate. ESPECIALLY when they’ve made it clear (a few times) that they don’t see it for you like that. Thanks bb, you’ve helped out more than just OP with that post 5 hours ago, Oktober Knight said: You need to accept AND respect that he is with someone else and you need to move on. Begging to meet him will just make things worse for you. You'll fall for him even more and get that much more upset that you can't have him back. I recommend cutting all ties and dating someone else. Don't put yourself through this torture. @Oktober Knight the POWER that this post has. OP, listen to HIM! — Not all of ATRL agreeing for once 38 minutes ago, AMIT said: sis not again even IF y'all get together again at some other point in life, this isn't the way to be doing things for that to happen. He very much knows your ass and so knows you will keep following him if he gives you the slightest bit of attention, just like he's doing right now. You need to be STRONG and stop responding/talking to him. If you keep this **** going things WILL get ugly and you will not get what you want. Again, do yourself a favor and focus on yourself. but NOT you running back to your ex as soon as you broke up with that other guy you were dating (and seemingly obsessed with as well). not to mention the fact you kept reachigng out to your ex while you were IN A RELATIONSHIP. Nnnnn dhdhdhdhdhdh not us both following the saga religiously! @AMIT
AMIT Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 2 minutes ago, Limitless said: Nnnnn dhdhdhdhdhdh not us both following the saga religiously! @AMIT I mean I knew things were bad going off his previous thread, but this one just makes it seem even worse. Though I have to say I am glad @MoonGoodandHappyat least is open to share this stuff, and he followed our collective advice from the previous thread and broke up with that loser. That is commendable.
Guest Posted February 8, 2023 Posted February 8, 2023 19 minutes ago, AMIT said: I mean I knew things were bad going off his previous thread, but this one just makes it seem even worse. Though I have to say I am glad @MoonGoodandHappyat least is open to share this stuff, and he followed our collective advice from the previous thread and broke up with that loser. That is commendable. It is definitely commendable but we need for our good sis to find a healthier distraction. @MoonGoodandHappy do you have any hobbies to keep you busy?
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 3 minutes ago, Juanny said: You can even get a good d**k and at the end of the day all you did was s*** a guy off and for what if he’s not coming back to play tomorrow and the next day because he’s thinking ‘honestly he really was just a hole lmao’. HELP
Ice Cream Skies Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 (edited) The only way to make them want you back is to act like you don't care anymore and stop giving them attention. Bonus points if you unfollow them and make all your accounts private so they can't follow you. It will either make him squirm and think about you more, or you'll both move on without being triggered. Regardless, there's nothing a man hates more than being ignored or paid dust. It's weird, but cutting ties is the only way to spark a fresh reconnection. Edited February 9, 2023 by Ice Cream Skies
RunUpDoneUp Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 You are not in love with him, you're just emotionally unwell, lol. You refuse to move on and get yourself in order, this is perfectly natural for people who don't have healthy self esteem. When someone tells you "no" in a nice way ie "I'm seeing someone" a reasonable person says "oh, okay. Nevermind." Please consider seeing someone and talking out your feelings(hint: this person is not an ex and is a licensed professional.)
JoAddams Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 Cuz if he liked it then he should have put a ring on it
MoonGoodandHappy Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 13 hours ago, AMIT said: sis not again even IF y'all get together again at some other point in life, this isn't the way to be doing things for that to happen. He very much knows your ass and so knows you will keep following him if he gives you the slightest bit of attention, just like he's doing right now. You need to be STRONG and stop responding/talking to him. If you keep this **** going things WILL get ugly and you will not get what you want. Again, do yourself a favor and focus on yourself. but NOT you running back to your ex as soon as you broke up with that other guy you were dating (and seemingly obsessed with as well). not to mention the fact you kept reachigng out to your ex while you were IN A RELATIONSHIP. I know... to be honest i feel lonely af and it's hard. It's just that... when i post a story 1 minute later my ex watch it. I just posted another one 10 minutes ago and 1 minute later he watched it... It give me so much hope. But i think you're right i should stop talking to him.... I completely broke up with my recent ex boyfriend and feel nothing for him now... But it's just that feeling of deep loneliness who makes me want to get my ex back. Thank you for your message.
MoonGoodandHappy Posted February 9, 2023 Author Posted February 9, 2023 12 hours ago, Limitless said: It is definitely commendable but we need for our good sis to find a healthier distraction. @MoonGoodandHappy do you have any hobbies to keep you busy? I mean my job keep me busy. I work very hard and i love writing stories on my computer... But i just hate this feeling of loneliness. So i always try to get another boyfriend when i'm alone.
A.R.L Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 If he loved so much, yes, I'd understand ur love frustrations, which is fine, but the fact that he's with someone else and at the same time somehow he's giving u hints, I would tell you to be careful.
Guest Posted February 9, 2023 Posted February 9, 2023 8 hours ago, MoonGoodandHappy said: I mean my job keep me busy. I work very hard and i love writing stories on my computer... But i just hate this feeling of loneliness. So i always try to get another boyfriend when i'm alone. I can understand this to an extent but that’s a void only you can fill. Looking for someone else to do that for you will only send you in a continual downward spiral 14 hours ago, RunUpDoneUp said: You are not in love with him, you're just emotionally unwell, lol. You refuse to move on and get yourself in order, this is perfectly natural for people who don't have healthy self esteem. When someone tells you "no" in a nice way ie "I'm seeing someone" a reasonable person says "oh, okay. Nevermind." Please consider seeing someone and talking out your feelings(hint: this person is not an ex and is a licensed professional.) ddddd The good sis @RunUpDoneUp may be blunt in their delivery but this is solid advice.
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