imabadkid Posted January 15, 2023 Posted January 15, 2023 I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as you have boundaries and standards. I don't mess with married men or guys with girlfriends. Gayz who get off on hooking up with married men need to seek help.
Johnny Jacobs Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 Most gays love masculine guys and people in general want what they can't have.. Simple as that
Alldeezy Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 I don't know why, straight men are assholes!
highwind44029 Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 15 hours ago, Goaty said: This answer makes far more sense to me than explanations centered around internalized homophobia or an obsession with masculinity. Right. Some people really just took the opportunity to project and lash out about their own issues.
Яeo. Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 (edited) Because subconsciously their distance from the gay party scene / drugs / sex culture make them seem more “healthy” and stable which has proven to be main attraction for humans since inception methinks the party scene is often seen as toxic and draining which when you see a guy that is conventionally attractive yet isnt involve it just connects with the healthier part of your brain thats looking for peace Edited January 16, 2023 by Яeo.
spree Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 8 hours ago, Allday said: I don't know why, straight men are assholes! makes them even more hot.
Kassi Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 I’m gonna say it and don’t fight me because I know you girls like to tussle… ….but it’s because they aren’t f******. More specifically, they ooze masculinity, which, for as much as woke gays will try to deny, is a major turn on for a lot of gay men. That’s not to say femme gays aren’t IT for some folks, everyone has a place, so please don’t mischaracterize me. But umm, yeah, prototypical masculine presentation is what gets a lot of women and gays going
swissman Posted January 16, 2023 Posted January 16, 2023 The answer is simple. Since most of us gays were kids, we have been exposed to images of "masculine" straight men presented as the ideal through film, tv, magazines, media, books, etc. And before mass media, this was the case culturally as well. It was just enforced and conditioned in other ways. This aligns to the larger societal/cultural idea that the pinnacle of society is the male, and that specifically within that category, those that most fit the ideas of what makes a good man in any given time (this does change) is what men should strive for, and others should appreciate. Even today with a lot more focus on gay rights and pride and all that, we still mainly see teen heartthrobs that are straight, the biggest actors/sex symbols are straight men and only the gays who read as straight get the same kind of attention and notoriety. In this way, gays can often be self-hating, or at least what they "prefer" sidelines people like themselves because of the constant conditioning received that straight men are "real men". Even if we can understand this, it can be hard for many to get past this social conditioning.
Distantconstellation Posted January 16, 2023 Author Posted January 16, 2023 6 hours ago, Яeo. said: Because subconsciously their distance from the gay party scene / drugs / sex culture make them seem more “healthy” and stable which has proven to be main attraction for humans since inception methinks the party scene is often seen as toxic and draining which when you see a guy that is conventionally attractive yet isnt involve it just connects with the healthier part of your brain thats looking for peace Or maybe the answer is not that deep and they are just hotter most of the time and the chase is fun and they are unattainable. It's a challenge, this is why james charles wants a straight man, it's the challenge. He wants to prove that It is possible to hook up with a str8 guy if u offer them money
If U Seek Amy Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 It basically comes down to higher perception of masculinity and wanting what you can't have for most. End thread.
SoExcited19 Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 (edited) Their masculinity. Also with straight guys for some reason when I hook up with them (which has been over 150 of them) I don’t really tend to be thinking of checking for stds or whatever cause they’re not as wild since girls are obviously not going around at least as much as gay guys are. Also the way they feel themselves and just sexiness overall. They’re not sassy or any of that other feminine stuff gay guys tend to be (even the masculine gay ones still have feminine traits) Edited January 17, 2023 by SoExcited19
SoExcited19 Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 8 hours ago, Distantconstellation said: Or maybe the answer is not that deep and they are just hotter most of the time and the chase is fun and they are unattainable. It's a challenge, this is why james charles wants a straight man, it's the challenge. He wants to prove that It is possible to hook up with a str8 guy if u offer them money Unattainable? Lol for you. I’ve been with over 150 straight guys EASILY so speak for yourself lol.
SoExcited19 Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 23 hours ago, Allday said: I don't know why, straight men are assholes! That’s the hot part. I’ve met so many straight guys I’ve gone and just told them to let me suck their dick in public places like straight clubs or random places and they’re just like “let’s go” and after I suck them up they literally just put their pants up quick and leave with a quick thanks and bye lol… Some don’t even say bye 😂 and I love it lol.
SoExcited19 Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 8:00 AM, byzantium said: I mean…I like men. Straight guys are also men. I would never try to be with one sexually but I don’t mind looking at them. Why not? Straight men are so hot to hook up with.
nadiamendell Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 Because we are gay so we like men? Whether it be gay men or straight men... we like men? It's not that difficult.
Anye Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 3:26 PM, Sergi91 said: Because gay men are attracted to masculinity On 1/9/2023 at 3:29 PM, Marco_g2 said: Because just like girls they want what they cant have These. Plus, idk anywhere else but in my city the straights are much hotter.
zasderfght Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 14 hours ago, SoExcited19 said: Unattainable? Lol for you. I’ve been with over 150 straight guys EASILY so speak for yourself lol. Are we supposed to be impressed? Let alone that you hook up with guys that don't have basic human decency/manners? Hey, hook up/like whoever you like, but I don't think it's feminine or shameful to hook up with men that can at least utter a "thank you" and act like you exist.
SoExcited19 Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 (edited) 2 hours ago, zasderfght said: Are we supposed to be impressed? Let alone that you hook up with guys that don't have basic human decency/manners? Hey, hook up/like whoever you like, but I don't think it's feminine or shameful to hook up with men that can at least utter a "thank you" and act like you exist. Lol their personality turns me on though. Some really are such douchebags that they don’t even say thanks or bye. They just put their pants up and leave 😍 some just give a head up kinda like saying “cool” and leave right after. Ughhhh love them 😍 Edited January 17, 2023 by SoExcited19
Cheers Posted January 17, 2023 Posted January 17, 2023 16 hours ago, SoExcited19 said: Their masculinity. Also with straight guys for some reason when I hook up with them (which has been over 150 of them) I don’t really tend to be thinking of checking for stds or whatever cause they’re not as wild since girls are obviously not going around at least as much as gay guys are. Also the way they feel themselves and just sexiness overall. They’re not sassy or any of that other feminine stuff gay guys tend to be (even the masculine gay ones still have feminine traits) 16 hours ago, SoExcited19 said: Unattainable? Lol for you. I’ve been with over 150 straight guys EASILY so speak for yourself lol. 25 minutes ago, SoExcited19 said: Lol their personality turns me on though. Some really are such douchebags that they don’t even say thanks or bye. They just put their pants up and leave 😍 some just give a head up kinda like saying “cool” and leave right after. Ughhhh love them 😍
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