PennywiseTheClown Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 Sexual orientation doesn't play a part in attractiveness. If I'm into a guy then I'm into him, wether he's straight or gay. Of course the chances you'll end up in bed with a straight guy are non existent, but I think that's where the charm comes from. I once got to blow a straight friend and I remember how "special" it felt to do that ( ) But let's not pretend this is a gay only thing, straight guys go just as wild when two straight girls kiss eachother etc
Bloodflowers. Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 Because you need a real man to f u up sometimes, that's why we stan Ultraviolence song by Lana Del Rey and Hit So Hard by Hole. Toxic cravings!
monster_enriquer Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 2 minutes ago, Bloodflowers. said: Because you need a real man to f u up sometimes, that's why we stan Ultraviolence song by Lana Del Rey and Hit So Hard by Hole. Toxic cravings!
PopKills Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 3 hours ago, Dephira said: People here equating "straight" with "masculine" yikes Ikr? It’s giving a former friend of mine saying Asians have a higher transgender rate because the men are more “feminine” type of stupidity.
ImsoLOUD Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 Equating “straight” men with “real men” in 2023
Into The Void Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 (edited) Some of the answers in here, as a gay men I dont have the need to be accepted by str8 men OT: You're attracted to what you're attracted to it isn't that deep Edited January 9, 2023 by Insanity
byzantium Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 (edited) I mean…I like men. Straight guys are also men. I would never try to be with one sexually but I don’t mind looking at them. Edited January 9, 2023 by byzantium
bjorn Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 Ask James Charles I’m sure he knows all about the psychology behind it
jomarr Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 Gay people are attracted to attractive masculine men regardless of their sexual orientation.
RunUpDoneUp Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 The homos are attracted to men. The heteros are also men, so the attraction is normal. The problem comes when the homos don't take reality into account and actively support the heteros who are vocally against them to sate their fantasy that is pushed by teen rom coms to male attracted people from the time they can even observe media. It's partly media influence but largely active choice in adulthood. Note, being attracted is not the bad part, once again being attracted is fine. It's even worse now as straight men have decided to brandish homos as groomers and therefore abusers for their very attraction and we have gay men supporting these harmful talking points by defending conservatives and their envoys by insinuating that gay men are inherently deviant due to the hypersexuality present in the visible parts of the community(kink at pride discourse) to now the creative part, namely in drag events.
imabadkid Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 10 hours ago, Sergi91 said: Because gay men are attracted to masculinity yep. And I tend to like v dominant guys and a lot of the guys I end up hooking up with or messing around with tend to be guys who lean str8 or bi-curious… there’s nothing with gay guys tho I just like guys who are super dominant and have a certain kind of masculinity I guess.
imabadkid Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 10 hours ago, Josh said: Cause they aren't flaming queens. This thread is a mess
terrorblade Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 they're masc in a different way I can't explain it
Pop Life Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 (edited) Obsessing over someone who doesn't want you provides the dopamine hit that comes with the thrill of the chase but without any of the risk. You already know it's never going to work so you only ever get as hurt as you (subconsciously) wanted to be. There's also usually some desire for validation. Edited January 9, 2023 by Pop Life
cockatoo Posted January 9, 2023 Posted January 9, 2023 14 hours ago, Dephira said: They lack self-worth and need validation from straight (or self-proclaimed "straight" guys). It's quite sad to see honestly Yep, these people will never really find someone to make them happy. I feel like every gay guy's first crush is probably a straight man but some get over it quicker than others. It's also so funny to me when people are like "I love straight men" when they mean they like masculine muscular men. Most straight men don't look like that
Technicolor Posted January 10, 2023 Posted January 10, 2023 Some want what they can't have. The forbidden fruit is the most tempting
Digitalism Posted January 14, 2023 Posted January 14, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 4:26 AM, Sergi91 said: Because gay men are attracted to masculinity On 1/9/2023 at 4:30 AM, Otter said: this plus the fact that they are 95% of the men on the planet, so technically the vast majority of hot Men are straight This I just like whoever I like. I don't know if they are straight or gay when I met them
Digitalism Posted January 14, 2023 Posted January 14, 2023 Also are we acting like straight men aren't attracted to lesbians? This is not a gay thing
Pikachoo Posted January 14, 2023 Posted January 14, 2023 I feel like when gay guys talk about 'straight guys' they mean someone like this when in reality 'straight' can mean literally any man who is attracted to women
Oktober Knight Posted January 14, 2023 Posted January 14, 2023 Because it's fun trying to get get a piece of the forbidden tree. They either shove you away or let you explore them.
dumbsparce Posted January 14, 2023 Posted January 14, 2023 My inner turmoil revolves around whether I like them more than I want to be them.
spree Posted January 14, 2023 Posted January 14, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 2:32 AM, sourtwink said: gay men can be masculine too. also, being attracted to men ≠ being attracted to masculine men. many queer men, especially tops, are attracted to femininity. myself included. anyways, it’s because there are a lot of self hating gays with internalised homophobia who would rather be with someone who wants to **** them in secret but not actually be with them than an actual out gay person who would actually want to be with them. also, they are borderline s*xual predators who actively seek to coerce straight men into sleeping with them which makes the gay community look bad. no true masculine gay man would ever use the word "queer" in any context in their vocabulary.
Goaty Posted January 15, 2023 Posted January 15, 2023 On 1/9/2023 at 12:30 AM, Otter said: this plus the fact that they are 95% of the men on the planet, so technically the vast majority of hot Men are straight This answer makes far more sense to me than explanations centered around internalized homophobia or an obsession with masculinity.
Tropez Posted January 15, 2023 Posted January 15, 2023 There’s way, way more straight men than gay men. Way more options for what you are attracted to. You can pick a guy you find attractive off the street and he’ll likely be straight.
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