After how long did your relationship start to have problems?

[Littlejfrey]

Were there problems from the get go?

After a few days, weeks, months, years? 

Or you have never experienced problems on your relationship? 

 

with details 

 

 

[Devin]

About 10 months. (still together 4+ years)
 

I think everyone experiences “problems” once that honeymoon phase is over and imperfections start showing. Its a matter of compromising. 

[PrettyHurts]

A few weeks 

 

But we’re together almost 2 years and pretty stable at this point 

[Henry Torres]

You just have to have some knowledge how to deal w/ relationship problems and you will be fine 

It's psychology 

 

[Oktober Knight]

The 7 year itch is definitely a real thing. 

 

I'm struggling to keep my marriage together at the moment. 

[cOe]

Before they even begin lol

[thatsmydemi]

3 months after we made it official. We broke up 6 months later because it became a nightmare. 

Edited January 8, 2023 by thatsmydemi

[original_lifeline]

5 seconds 

[doonerr]

They are usually dead on arrival

[Tusk]

29 minutes ago, Oktober Knight said:

The 7 year itch is definitely a real thing. 

 

I'm struggling to keep my marriage together at the moment. 

Be Happy, not complacent.

 

Some relationships are not meant to be “forever”.  It’s okay for a love to have a time limit.

 

I don’t know your situation but go with your gut. 

[.Odyssey.]

57 minutes ago, Oktober Knight said:

The 7 year itch is definitely a real thing. 

 

I'm struggling to keep my marriage together at the moment. 

Aw sorry bb  Hope things improve for you soon...

[Devin]

1 hour ago, Oktober Knight said:

The 7 year itch is definitely a real thing. 

 

I'm struggling to keep my marriage together at the moment. 

Idk y’all situation but hope things get better. 

[Chiidish]

1 hour ago, Devin said:

 

I think everyone experiences “problems” once that honeymoon phase is over and imperfections start showing. Its a matter of compromising. 

 

[CBC]

Usually once the std symptoms start showing 

[infrared]

43 minutes ago, CBC said:

Usually once the std symptoms start showing 

[Lana Banana]

No problems. 4+ years and going strong ¯\(ツ)/¯ 

[Saddy]

1 hour ago, CBC said:

Usually once the std symptoms start showing 

[Guest]

3 hours ago, Oktober Knight said:

The 7 year itch is definitely a real thing. 

 

I'm struggling to keep my marriage together at the moment. 

You’re also going through a lot with family right now and after he was acting weird and stuff for the brief period of time, that put alot of stress on you and you pushed for counseling which is good… Ultimately, though, it seems like you’re putting in more effort than him to keep things together right now and that isn’t fair imo. 
 

OT: I would say after we moved in together, so about…7 months?

[Guest]

1 hour ago, CBC said:

Usually once the std symptoms start showing 

[Smarticle]

1 hour ago, CBC said:

Usually once the std symptoms start showing 

How many STDs u got

[CBC]

1 minute ago, Smarticle said:

How many STDs u got

0

[Cain]

Looking back there had always been certain things that just weren’t quite right, but I would say after 1.5-2 years

[Alldeezy]

I have bpd so problems always happen once I start to fall so normally 3 months in. But it's there in the wrong too since they sorta treated me like crap from the start aswell.

 

Im 31 single and will never be happily married because of bpd. Really is no cure. 

[spree]

9 hours ago, Limitless said:

You’re also going through a lot with family right now and after he was acting weird and stuff for the brief period of time, that put alot of stress on you and you pushed for counseling which is good… Ultimately, though, it seems like you’re putting in more effort than him to keep things together right now and that isn’t fair imo. 
 

OT: I would say after we moved in together, so about…7 months?

what happened after you moved in?

[Guest]

10 hours ago, Smarticle said:

How many STDs u got

How many do you have sistren? 

 

52 minutes ago, spree said:

what happened after you moved in?

long story