Bottoms: Would you be turned off if your top talked to you about pop girls?

[Nano]

Be honest.

Edited January 3, 2023 by Nano

[brenda-walsh]

well im vers, but no, it would actually turn me on ngl 

[Signs]

Well I’m vers, doesn’t feel natural to let a guy more feminine than me top me, would be more put off (as a bottom) if they were really into drag race for example.

 

I guess there’s something off putting about them very strongly identifying with a women/femininity when you want them to **** you.

[ontherocks]

Why even talking before sex?

[shookspeare]

absolutely  talk to me about something hot like literature or politics 

[Guest]

Yes because then I would know my mans a fudge packer

[LazzyGrant]

No I will marry him!!

[Dolce Vita]

not really. my bf is a music head and is into the main alt girls, it’s cute 

[Mikeymoonshine]

I'm vers but feminine tops are great and I think it's weird for gay people into pop music to judge other gay people for being into pop music. I'd love a partner with the same interests as me. 

[Peroxide]

Ya’ll are never finding husbands. Lord.

[PMKARDASHIAN]

I’m a top and I talk about pop girls to my bf who couldn’t give a **** less, who’s a bottom and tries to talk to me about cars and I’m just like 

Edited January 3, 2023 by PMKARDASHIAN

[harwee]

whatever works for him

 

[fentypark]

please bffr 

[L.B GAGA]

Are you for real you are that shallow. Policing sexual roles and personalities

[youreyesgocold]

It’s bad enough masc straight men aren’t “allowed” to like anything remotely feminine, but now the queer masc ones can’t either??? Ffs 

[JoeAg]

it’s 2023 can people just… retire being strict tops or strict bottoms idk. or at least retire the harmful dichotomy that one has to be traditionally feminine and the other traditionally masculine. idk i’m vers and bi so maybe i’m just built a bit different but i just don’t get it

[Da Vinci]

If it's just the music why not?

 

If it's charts or personas or pointless gossip then it's a turn off, I don't wanna hear those things irl, they are strictly for isolated online spaces just to kill some time

[PoisonedIvy]

Is this a serious question….??? 

[JohnWayneHolland]

Yes, i want my man to like manly things, manly music!!! If I wanted to have sex with someone that listens to Katy Perry or Taylor Swift i would have sex with a girl 

[~Start The Music]

No  what kinda high school bs is that

[M.R.]

There is nothing wrong with having a partner with the same interests as me. Actually that would be a plus for me.

[CrimsonX]

BFFR!

[Dystopian]

some of you are really turned off by someone having something in common with you 

 

 

[brooklyndaddy]

Seek help 

[XtianB]

yeah... i don't even like talking about pop girls with my friends let alone a man