Struggles with dating old men

[family.guy123]

Oh no! Not no emojis!!

[G.U.Y. Gaga]

29 minutes ago, dabunique said:

why is this such a problem?

 

asking since i'm 45 and i might end up with someone younger

A one word response is a sign that the conversation is over or that person really doesn’t want to talk to you anymore lol 

 

 

but I think for older people they don’t think of of it that way.

Edited December 20, 2022 by G.U.Y. Gaga

[dabunique]

Just now, G.U.Y. Gaga said:

A one word response is a sign that the conversation is over or that person really doesn’t want to talk to you anymore lol 

eeeek i text ditto alot but i would follow it with an emoji

[Guest]

[fauxtography]

1 hour ago, spree said:

I can’t believe people admit to wanting to call each other on the phone everyday.  

 A nightmare.

 

I get triggered when my bf even texts me "how was your day" with nothing to contribute - this aint a dating app and i dont have time for pointless convos

 

[dabunique]

i'd rather text than talk on da phone, unless it an answer i need quick or emergency

 

but i also don't write a huge synopsis in text either

 

7 minutes ago, G.U.Y. Gaga said:

 

but I think for older people they don’t think of of it that way.

if we gettin to kno someone thru text yeah one word answers r not it

 

but a  quick reply shouldn't trigger u if u dating

 

i'd be mad if u don't send me a text than saying same or ditto after i text u

[zasderfght]

Do you want the professor I shagged last year? I ran into the opposite problem with him: I made it very clear I wanted a no-strings-attached situation, and he strung me along, hoping I'd change my mind and date him. 

[G.U.Y. Gaga]

9 minutes ago, dabunique said:

i'd rather text than talk on da phone, unless it an answer i need quick or emergency

 

but i also don't write a huge synopsis in text either

 

if we gettin to kno someone thru text yeah one word answers r not it

 

but a  quick reply shouldn't trigger u if u dating

 

i'd be mad if u don't send me a text than saying same or ditto after i text u

True but when I’m spending money on a train to come see you and you just reply “ok” it hurts lol 

 

he’s def more of a talker though so I get it 

[G.U.Y. Gaga]

I’m an old person with FaceTime though 

 

the one 20 year I dated tried to FaceTime me all the time

[dabunique]

5 minutes ago, G.U.Y. Gaga said:

True but when I’m spending money on a train to come see you and you just reply “ok” it hurts lol 

 

he’s def more of a talker though so I get it 

totally understand

 

i don't kno how people my age group don't kno how to text

[Acetone]

12 minutes ago, G.U.Y. Gaga said:

I’m an old person with FaceTime though 

 

the one 20 year I dated tried to FaceTime me all the time

Omg I hate FaceTime and avoid it like the plague  I hate when people call me out of the blue with that bs. I don’t get how people can just sit there for hours on FaceTime calls. 

[Distantconstellation]

So it's ok for ya'll to date 40+ year olds but then when an 18 year old dates a 21 year old ya'll call the 21 year old a groomer???? Huh. Atrl is so full of sh1t. 

[HRH]

Don't date old men, predators don't deserve relatinoships

[Oktober Knight]

Seriously? All the daddies I date 50+ are chatty AF and have long funny texts all day long. Sorry you're finding all the boring dads boo

[Alldeezy]

Old men gross me out so can't relate 

[mokitsu]

8 hours ago, G.U.Y. Gaga said:

either a while wall of text in a single text message or a single word response with no punctuation or emojis ☠️

Literally came in here to say this but in my experience most have been the 2nd kind which is TERRIBLE for me

 

I could say like 30 different things they could pick up on to carry the convo and they'd just pick a single thing and write a vague response also randomly leaving on read/not replying IRL they're great communicators and interesting but getting through the days when I don't see them is excruciating

[PMKARDASHIAN]

I tried to date a daddy once but he was only using me to get back at his ex 

 

I prefer guys my age or younger and because this place and stan Twitter have rotted my brain, we communicate well through text and on the phone in general. 

[Josh]

1 hour ago, HRH said:

Don't date old men, predators don't deserve relatinoships

the OP is in his late 20's he's not an 18 year old. 

[HRH]

7 hours ago, Josh said:

the OP is in his late 20's he's not an 18 year old. 

Still disturbing and toxic. Ask yourself why these 50 year olds don't date other 50 year olds.

[A.R.L]

You're 26 sis, you'd better find someone no more than 36, u don't need fathers or grand fathers unless there's a deal between you or they have a big d and you're too horny not to take it. 

[Katamari]

On 12/20/2022 at 2:21 PM, Queen. said:

Date a woman 

[theweekend]

the money must be worth it. good luck.

[nick4bty]

Date someone your own ******* age.