discussion Have you ever been in a physical fight?

[Bacardo Royale]

I haven't since high school, but a guy I hooked up with (stole cash, clothes and a shitload of weed from me ) is gonna be at a new year's eve party. Come to find out he's stolen from several mutual friends too and even did some time in jail for theft. I can't promise I won't punch him in the mouth or worse when I catch him at the party, it would be worth it

 

[ugo]

Physical fight don’t do much yeah sure you’ll hurt him in the short term he will heal I guess. Psychological/strategical warfare is better. 

Edited December 8, 2022 by ugo

[MoonGoodandHappy]

Yes with the rooster of my aunt when i was very young. It was an horrible experience.

[EtherealCat]

no which is quite surprising 

[Bacardo Royale]

19 minutes ago, ugo said:

Physical fight don’t do much yeah sure you’ll hurt him in the short term he will heal I guess. Psychological/strategical warfare is better. 

You're right and I've been doing that too but the urge to fight him in person is too strong. I'm feeling bloodthirsty

 

[Guest]

Yes. 

[Afterglow]

40 minutes ago, ugo said:

Physical fight don’t do much yeah sure you’ll hurt him in the short term he will heal I guess. Psychological/strategical warfare is better. 

Not true it causes you yourself more psychological issues related to the incident and draws out a negative situation. 

 

OT yes I definitely have. I try not to because it brings out something in me that wants to fight to the death and I'm being honest. 

Edited December 8, 2022 by Afterglow

[Navy4Life]

Does really rough sex count? 

[cockatoo]

Not since I was a child. Adults getting into physical fights is very embarrassing behaviour 

[sugarysunflower]

Yes with my brother. 

[bliaz]

When I was about 12 years old I got into a fight with a neighbor, I don't remember why, but it was a fist fight. Shortly after that he and I had a sexual experience He is married now 

[ugo]

21 minutes ago, Afterglow said:

Not true it causes you yourself more psychological issues related to the incident and draws out a negative situation. 

 

OT yes I definitely have. I try not to because it brings out something in me that wants to fight to the death and I'm being honest. 

This is all not true getting in a physical fight could get the police involved and much more you could even get a police record or the person could press charge. 
 

[selena_lavigne]

I was punched and called a f*ggot by the president of the student council in HS nnn.

[PMKARDASHIAN]

The closest I got in school was a guys who’s gf left him for me (cuz he called me a *** and I told him watch me steal your *****, and I DID, but she whooped his ass when he tried to step to me , but she passed away a few years ago. RIP) 

 

My ex and I fist fought one time (my first and only real fight) and we ****** eachother up and stayed together for another 6 years 

 

[Devin]

Yes, plenty. 

[Hallad173]

Yeah, looking back I was an easy target for bullies up until I found my balls in Jr. High and started standing up for myself…….resulting in me being suspended from school multiple times for fighting 
 

Bright side, I always got the lesser sentence and my mom was never upset with me because I was never the one who initiated it. 

[LoveInStereo]

Unfortunately, more than 1. Nobody looks back at a fight & thinks 'I'm glad that happened', I wouldn't instigate **** tbh. It's annoying but be the bigger person. It brings out a part of yourself that you won't like, honestly

[JoeAg]

I got gaybashed a few months ago, see this thread for the full details

 

in terms of other fights... mostly with my brothers tbh. idk if i've ever been punched full on in the face (without my consent). this girl i knew kicked the sh*t out of me one day in high school, but then we became good friends after that lol

i've like sparred with people too, when i was in my muay thai era back in 2019

[RunUpDoneUp]

To the ones who were assaulted by musty homophobes, I'm very sorry that happened to y'all.

 

 

Unfortunately, yes. Only 2 though, one was when I was really small, I was told 7 and it was with a classmate who stole my juice. I only know of this because my parents love telling people how I whooped some child's ass over my juice in school. It's lore at this point.

 

The other was literally with my math teacher in high-school, mind you, corporal punishment was already outlawed and stuff but this man hit me because I didn't have my homework, needless to say as someone who has never been hit by my own parents a day in my life, I immediately reacted by punching him. We were SCRAPPING in that classroom. He was a grown ass man so he cut my ass but it wasn't one-sided so people thought I could fight but I was trying my best to stay alive frfr. I had a bleeding lip and swelling on my face and arm. My friends wanted to call my parents but that would've started a literal shutdown at that school, my family rolls DEEP. Extended relatives and people from my neighbourhood would've pulled up.

 

Dude got fired(rightfully so) and the school admin took my side since the teachers and students vouched for me. The whole situation was embarrassing, I'm never the kind who gets into situations like that and it was not a good memory for me. To this day my father still gets mad about that, he wanted to kill that man, I'm glad I didn't call him.

 

There's been moments where I've hit people who hit me and whatnot but they never escalated to full-blown fighting. So only those two are worth mentioning.

[katara]

Yes with my brother and cousins 

[Saddy]

Never but my sisters 

[KillaCham.]

I can fight. I swing them hands like a ceiling fan. I kick too!

[Pop Life]

There was a period in middle school where I got into fights on a weekly basis. The aggression was mostly one-sided (I was small and obviously gay, they were not) but after they shoved me down a flight of stairs all bets were off. Naturally, the school only did something once I started to fight back and that was to start suspending me. 

 

As an adult I got mugged and the guy hit me hard enough to break one of my teeth, but I didn't fight back.

Edited December 12, 2022 by Pop Life

[Cute]

yesss i was raised by world star hip hop

[Alldeezy]

no, i'd run away and cry