discussion Do You Pursue Men Who Play "hard to get"?

[Europe]

Or is that irritating and you don't bother texting/phoning him back?

[Tropez]

No. There’s plenty of guys out there. On to the next one. 

[Oxy]

No, even if I wanted to I don’t have a good approach cause of how I’m put off by their act. 

[Bhabylon]

Nah it's a turn off. I don't entertain immaturity like that. 

[Into The Void]

I don't have time for games

[Sweet Sexy Savage]

I don’t by principle but this guy I’m currently talking to forces me to text him first and he doesn’t serve the same energy so

[Europe]

5 minutes ago, Sweet Sexy Savage said:

I don’t by principle but this guy I’m currently talking to forces me to text him first and he doesn’t serve the same energy so

How does that work, did he let you know that he is never going to initiate contact so you have to?

[BOOMBAYAH]

Anyone who plays hard to get over the age of 21 is a loser. 

[BOOMBAYAH]

3 minutes ago, AbeHicks said:

How does that work, did he let you know that he is never going to initiate contact so you have to?

I don’t know why this made me laugh 

[karron0624]

4 minutes ago, BOOMBAYAH said:

Anyone who plays hard to get over the age of 21 is a loser. 

This

[TaylorNation]

i don’t pursue any men, currently in my flop era and I want them as far away from me as possible 

[M.R.]

10 minutes ago, BOOMBAYAH said:

Anyone who plays hard to get over the age of 21 is a loser. 

I agree.

[Bacardo Royale]

I don't chase anyone no matter how hot you are cause I refuse to look desperate

 

If you take 2 days to respond I'll take 4 days to respond

 

If you never respond, I'll let the conversation die. 

[Rev8]

No

reeeallyy turns me off

even if they were super cool

 

like..even if they just say that that's the way they are (after u've confirmed they have an interest for u back)

im not gonna run after your bum ass

 

I did it once and it was a real pain

[liver]

I pursue women and yeah, I tend to do that although I know I shouldn't 

[Illuminati]

I don't pursue them because I'm hard to want

[Sweet Sexy Savage]

1 hour ago, AbeHicks said:

How does that work, did he let you know that he is never going to initiate contact so you have to?

No, it’s an observation from our first week of talking I made. I would say good morning and follow up with him on his day, but whenever I just don’t say anything, he doesn’t text or ask me how I’m doing(we had our first date last week and we’re having a second date tomorrow). 

[magazine]

I don't pursue men, period! 

[John Slayne]

hard to get is hard to want, so no

[XtianB]

I don’t chase I attract, purr

[CottageHore]

I don’t pursue anybody. They pursue me and if they don’t, I’m single. I just don’t have an incessant desire to be in a relationship. I used to, back when I was super insecure. So if someone is playing hard to get, especially if I know it’s intentional and used as a game, they’re playing themselves because I won’t engage. Nobody is that special 

[Before Today]

Never. I refuse to feed their ego, yikes.

[Happylittlepunk]

No not anymore I learned the hard way. It’s just not worth the time. 

[Alldeezy]

I don't chase guys! most guys I've dated got me!  and i've very picky! 

 

 

however my own bf plays hard to get now, and we been together for almost 2 years  but thats both our prides, egos and bpd getting in the way

[Oktober Knight]

I never chased anyone, such a turn off.