Bacardo Royale Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Why are you a flop? What went wrong?
Illuminati Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 (edited) Everything Edited September 3, 2022 by Illuminati
XtianB Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Because I should have focused on math more and get a degree in like finances or something really profitable. Instead I chose film then a year later I switched to advertising. If I was better at math I could have passed the SATs with better scores and move to the US to make more money than I make in the UK
D.Va Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 I thought having BPD was a personality trait when I was younger so I kinda ****** a lot good moments "BeCAUsE I WAs In My DOWn PhAsE" whereas I could have just sucked it up a little and fully enjoy those moments. I would give everything to go back in time and slap the **** out of the little ungrateful ***** that I was. And then, as dumb as it sounds, I had appendicitis twice (couldn't have surgery the first time because the hospital I went to was overwhelmed by COVID) and it WRECKED my body. I lost a lot of weight, my IBS went off the rails, I lost hair and I developed pudendal neuralgia, which means I can't even sit down without feeling like needles are piercing through my pelvic floor. Stream Super Freaky Girl.
Into The Void Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 I am and am not a flop at the same thing
RainDreamer Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Being gay in the wrong country plus mental health issues, i never stood a chance but at least im figuring it out now
State of Grace. Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 mento illness + pandemic during the years I was supposed to thrive
Alldeezy Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Everything! I failed 1 week trail jobs, to the point i'm too old! and nobody will hire a person that hasn't kept a job longer then a month! so I won't ever get married! again I'm already at the age seeing all my friends enaged, kids, married! and me that can barely hold onto a relationship I'm Broke! At This point I'm just a waste of space! got nothing to live for, and is probably too late! plus never got my autism diagnose as a kid! so i gotta deal with being different to everyone else, a lot of people just judge! Covid also ruined my social skills so im to the point it's an effort to even go to the shops! however i'm hoping going away with my partner at the end of the month will help me get over my anxiety of the outside world. plus now my depression is so bad, I can't be bothered to do normal things, like get outta bed is hard, getting up to shower is hard! i've gotten fat (after being thin my whole life) and that has put a big effort into my depression, been to the gym once! just need to start and go again, but its hard to afford to go when membership is so much.
shookspeare Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 I'm not a flop from the outside looking in but I feel like I'm in my flop era because I'm in a PhD program that I've lost passion for I'm probably going to leave after this year or the next at the very latest and start making some money again. Also doesn't help that my school is kind of in the middle of nowhere, which makes it hard to date when you're gay. I'd leave right now but I'm sticking around for the free masters degree so I have something to show for the time I spent here
ATRL Moderator feelslikeadream Posted September 3, 2022 ATRL Moderator Posted September 3, 2022 August 31, 2013 Spoiler The day I joined ATRL.
terrorblade Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 43 minutes ago, Аshanti said: COVID-19 has ruined my life
GentleEarthquake Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Insecurity ruined the most important years of my life, it also didn't help that i was surrounded by the wrong kind of people and developed trust issues, that + various traumatic events during school and at my home. I'm at verge of being a social AND academic failure at uni but I'm barely surviving somehow.
Grumpy Cat Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 (edited) i always stumble upon incel pyschologists who want to convince me im a flop for running after academics and not having billion babies and nanny those for them as some housewife they blame it on- church and my mom...and feminism. feminism is a big one for them. LONG LIVE FEMINISM. MOM TAUGHT ME TO HAVE STANDARDS! (and to be aware of creepy straights) Edited September 3, 2022 by Grumpy Cat ***** error 503
Atlantis Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Definitely Body dysmorphia, don't know how and why I developed it but the bad days are like really bad, barely see myself as human, spending hours in front of the mirror and can't leave my house. Other days I feel very hot though so idk, probably not the only mental health issue I have. Well the uni starts in a month so I'm gonna give life another try
Grumpy Cat Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 8 minutes ago, Atlantis said: Definitely Body dysmorphia, don't know how and why I developed it but the bad days are like really bad, barely see myself as human, spending hours in front of the mirror and can't leave my house. Other days I feel very hot though so idk, probably not the only mental health issue I have. Well the uni starts in a month so I'm gonna give life another try getting rid of mirrors helped me with that. i even brush my hair and teeth by heart. better than wanting to give myself a lipo and and turn myself into donatella every time i see myself get rid of the mirrors and act like ur a model. works well for me.
Cloudy Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 Everything. I'd start with being born at all
Atlantis Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 (edited) 54 minutes ago, Grumpy Cat said: getting rid of mirrors helped me with that. i even brush my hair and teeth by heart. better than wanting to give myself a lipo and and turn myself into donatella every time i see myself get rid of the mirrors and act like ur a model. works well for me. I can def see that working for most of the people but the problem is I love looking at myself so I could never really get rid of them. I go from being cute af and looking like a model to a literal monster (to me at least, for both) in span of 2 days... Not sure what triggers those changes but it was BAD Edited September 3, 2022 by Atlantis
katara Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 4 hours ago, RainDreamer said: Being gay in the wrong country plus mental health issues, i never stood a chance but at least im figuring it out now Honestly it's being gay in general. I "succeeded" at finishing my studies and building up myself financially so I have a stable base to start a family for some years now but being gay I seem to be stuck in an endless loop of hook ups or short term flings like most of us gays with no prospect of a stable relationship that could lead to a marriage and having kids.
Raver Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 I focused on the wrong things at times Let certain situations or people shut me down to the point I didn’t want to do anything. You live and you learn tho COVID 19 gave my life a repeak. 2020 -> has been pretty good for me and I am back on track. Gotta stay focused
worldwide angel Posted September 3, 2022 Posted September 3, 2022 junior year in high school was a "POP EMERGENCY: Witness predicted to sell 1-" sized mess largely due to mental health issues gone unresolved
Bacardo Royale Posted September 3, 2022 Author Posted September 3, 2022 I would say I missed out on a lot of great opportunities cause of social anxiety And also I have a bunch of issues which aren't the norm so it's hard to get help for
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