Before Today Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 1. If you have, why? 2. If you have cheated, what did your partner do to/about you? 3. Do you think it's impossible to NEVER cheat ONCE during your entire love life? 4. Would you forgive your partner after cheating on you? Why or why not? Ok so we all know cheating is wrong, even the cheaters know it, so save the shaming/attacks. This isn't to justify/excuse cheating. But I just wanna know if you have cheated, what's your reason?
mercurialworld Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) I didn't. Although I have been cheated on in the past and it isn't fun I did not forgive him, I have self-worth and I am not going to allow someone to disrespect me like that. Edited August 2, 2022 by mercurialworld
Blade Runner Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) I was young and I wasn't really in love, so I didn't think so much about it. It was a kink for me. A sh+tty thing to do and I regret it now. Edited August 2, 2022 by Blade Runner
shinyshimmery Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 1. If you have, why? no, why be in a relationship where there's no love? plus, if I were ever to think about cheating I would have the decency of breaking up with my current partner on the basis that things simply aren't working out. 2. If you have cheated, what did your partner do to/about you? not applicable 3. Do you think it's impossible to NEVER cheat ONCE during your entire love life? no, I guess some people lack the mental maturity to be completely faithful to one person... but in that case you shouldn't be in a relationship. We are all human with feelings and insecurities, treat others the way you want to be treated is what I always say. 4. Would you forgive your partner after cheating on you? Why or why not? no, I have too much pride for that. Plus, everything I have in my life... I have worked hard for. So no, I would never forgive a cheater because it's way deeper than a heartbreak... it's about allowing the person you once trusted and gave everything to, to completely degrade you and destroy your self worth. I determine my worth, and at the end of the day... cheaters are trash, and trash should be thrown out.
Alldeezy Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 hmm once, but he was abusive and stopped talking so I thought we were over so I went on dates and started seeing this other guy, he then called me halfway through telling me to come over (so we were still a thing) so i ended up breaking it off and got with the guy i was seeing the same day xD that year I had 3 bfs and not one moment being single. But yeah cant really cheat, however if a guy who is hotter then my bf, and lived closer sure I would (since nobody is as cute as my bf except Denis & Allday so we all know that's never gonna happen) my bf neglects me but i still can never cheat on him. so my bf almost broke up with me this year, we were kinda on a break, guys never give me a 2nd chance since my BPD breakdowns can be intense (ive improved it tho) so I went and jacked off my friend (no sex bc I still have no feeling on having sex with anyone but my bf) but i dunno if that is cheating or a break thing.
Dolce Vita Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 3. Do you think it's impossible to NEVER cheat ONCE during your entire love life? no but i think many people aren’t meant to have a monogamous relationship style and they should be honest about that before getting into relationships. i know couples who are open for that reason and it seems to work for them 4. Would you forgive your partner after cheating on you? Why or why not? probably im the type of person that would try to work things out if there’s a situation like that in my relationship. however if it’s repeated instances, i can still forgive him in order to be at peace mentally but i would have to leave the relationship too. holding onto resentment is pointless especially if you won’t get any closure from the other person
Meev Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 1. My ex was ******* someone else, then came clean and insisted on an open relationship. So I figured I might as well cheat. We broke up after he found out. 2. Broke up lol. It was never going to last. 3. It is definitely possible not to cheat, and honestly, do not be with someone with a history of cheating. You will not be able to change them. 4. No, you can never trust a cheater agin. And cheat before breaking up to let them know how shitty it feels.
BOOMBAYAH Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 I think people need to be honest with themselves when entering a monogamous relationship. In my eyes, if you agree to be a boyfriend/girlfriend (since it takes a while to even get there) you are agreeing to curating a life with this person. Some people enter these monogamous relationships with no intention of wanting to stay together forever and building a life together and I think it is stupid and mean for you to do that. If you are in a place in your life where you don’t want to be sexually/emotionally tied down, or maybe you just don’t agree with monogamy, that is fine, but don’t lie to someone else and sell them that dream, find someone else who is actually compatible with the sort of relationship you want.
WhateverYouWant Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) Started dating a guy at 18 and 7 years later we both cheated and felt fomo and broke up. 2 years later we got back together after we both felt we got what we needed from being single and now we’re still together. The reason I forgave him was because I did the same thing and was feeling the same way. We both were trying to find ourselves and being in a committed relationship from such a young age that was hard to do. Edited August 2, 2022 by WhateverYouWant
Hurem Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 5 minutes ago, Jude said: People are still making a big deal of cheating in 2022? Cheaters are the scumbags of the planet. And so are the people trying to normalize cheating.
Hurem Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 4 minutes ago, Jude said: According to who? Oh, wimps. According to people who are not sociopaths, I guess.
Khal Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) 14 minutes ago, Jude said: People are still making a big deal of cheating in 2022? Y'all try waay too hard to be edgy and get reactions Edited August 2, 2022 by Khal
Jude Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) 13 minutes ago, Juanny said: What the hell, it is a big deal if you’re in a committed relationship with someone. This isn’t a one time fling or some Grindr orgy, it’s way more meaningful than that. some people actually love someone else and put lots of emotional investment to see them grow and give a lifetime of friendship and partnership to them. But you wouldn’t know anything about that to make a completely ignorant comment like this, hopefully you never get cheated on to know how painful that is. Huh? Been there and didn't get what's painful about it lol. I guess most ppl are just emotionally weak. 11 minutes ago, Juanny said: About Me Just a sweet, funny and caring person. go somewhere. You’re trash for saying it’s okay to hurt another person and treat them like they’re disposable because you’re feeling horny one day. Yes I am and that's why my partner loves me. And excuse me but you don't have any authority to tell me what's morally wrong or right. 9 minutes ago, Khal said: Y'all try waay too hard to be edgy and get reactions What's edgy about my post? It's already 2022 ffs. I didn't know this place is full of nuns. Edited August 2, 2022 by Jude
Rainbows Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 What the **** are the responses in this thread. Cheating is like one of the worst things you could do to anyone… y’all need to work thru some **** if u think cheating on your partner is normal, ur a big weirdo it’s giving s*x addiction and unresolved trauma
Jude Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 Hiding that post coz apparently a lot of people in here are traumatized by cheating. Sorry for being insensitive but my belief regarding cheating remains.
Nano Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 Cheating is a valid kink. Sharing is hotter, though.
Marges9 Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 (edited) 1. He wasn't able to give me what I craved & desired. (We talked about it though & it's going well now, though he still doesn't likes some stuff which is totally fine for me at this time) 2. He pulled the reverse card on me. 3. Yes. 4. Yes. (I'd have no right to not forgive him) plus we are in an open relationship now and ngl it's quite hot if you ask me. Edited August 2, 2022 by Marges9
Hot Volcano Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 54 minutes ago, Hurem said: Cheaters are the scumbags of the planet. And so are the people trying to normalize cheating. I specifically remember you saying in the Gaga base a while ago that you slept with a married man
Hurem Posted August 2, 2022 Posted August 2, 2022 21 minutes ago, Hot Volcano said: I specifically remember you saying in the Gaga base a while ago that you slept with a married man It wasn’t cheating considering they’re open, nice try though! Plus, like you said it was “a while ago”, you live and you learn. I would never sleep with a married man nowadays. Hell, I wouldn’t even sleep with anyone that’s in an open relationship.
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