Happylittlepunk Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 What are your thoughts? I ask a co-worker out sadly I didn’t go as I wanted but honestly it kinda made me not want to persue any co-workers again although ppl keep saying that using co-workers is a great way to meet ppl for dates irl then apps.
TROPICUM Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 No If you break up with them you'll literally ruin your work environment
Happylittlepunk Posted July 11, 2022 Author Posted July 11, 2022 1 minute ago, May said: why would anyone think this is a good idea I literally have a friend who also a nurse date 2 co-workers on separate years in all lol.
Happylittlepunk Posted July 11, 2022 Author Posted July 11, 2022 4 minutes ago, TROPICUM said: No If you break up with them you'll literally ruin your work environment Do you believe ppl can remain friends and co-exist peacefully in a work environment?
TROPICUM Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 Just now, Happylittlepunk said: Do you believe ppl can remain friends and co-exist peacefully in a work environment? No There'll always be that lil emotional sting
Happylittlepunk Posted July 11, 2022 Author Posted July 11, 2022 Guys honestly I feel like I ****** up my friendship with my co-worker we were close but they rejected me and friendzone me. I don’t mind being friendzone but I valued the friendship but I admit I honestly did have romantic feeling for this person. I feel like a ruined the friendship.
Happylittlepunk Posted July 11, 2022 Author Posted July 11, 2022 1 minute ago, TROPICUM said: No There'll always be that lil emotional sting Omg
TROPICUM Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 11 minutes ago, TROPICUM said: No If you break up with them you'll literally ruin your work environment Exhibit A: 3 minutes ago, Happylittlepunk said: Guys honestly I feel like I ****** up my friendship with my co-worker we were close but they rejected me and friendzone me. I don’t mind being friendzone but I valued the friendship but I admit I honestly did have romantic feeling for this person. I feel like a ruined the friendship.
Buddy Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 28 minutes ago, Happylittlepunk said: I literally have a friend who also a nurse date 2 co-workers on separate years in all lol. I don't mean to be rude, but nurses are the biggest hoes
sugarysunflower Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 No. . At least be from completely different departments or floors, otherwise it gets messy. Or wait until one of you leaves the company?
Bloodflowers. Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 Date them if your contract is up soon so you can leave if it doesn't work out
dream8ker Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 Worst idea ever there are 8 billion people in this earth, going for the 200 you will potentially have to deal with in an elevator or at the xerox machine is not a good way to spend a day.
T.O.A.D.S. Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 (edited) Don't **** where you eat, hun. Edited July 11, 2022 by T.O.A.D.S.
simplywohoo Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 I wouldn't pursue it directly but I also wouldn't rule something out just bc it's a colleague.
Boysdontcry Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 I went on a date with a co-worker about this time last year. He had just resigned from the job, and I'd been working with him for 3 months & we got on so well. And I could definitely feel some tension between us. So I decided to ask him out once he'd left, we had a great night, but I realised we weren't a match for each other & I never heard from him again.
Envy Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 I would advise against it, but if you must, just make sure to keep your personal and professional life separate. Also, consider the possibility if ever it will not work out and you break up, ensure that it will not be awkward for your colleagues.
ATRL Moderator wehavetostan Posted July 11, 2022 ATRL Moderator Posted July 11, 2022 It’s just messy. Like why bring that upon yourself
AdrianNicki Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 People are so overly dramatic in here. I've dated a co-worker once. We were together for 7 months. It didn't really work out. We still work in a same place, sometimes we even have to do certain projects together and we are able to co-exist without any tension between us. It really depens on what type of person you are. If you are able to seperate your job from your personal life, you are fine to date whoever you want.
Theshigo Washidu Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 Don't s**t where you eat. Unless one of you is no longer working at the work place, co-workers are off limits in order to save yourself from awkwardness or any unpleasant discussions.
May Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 1 hour ago, AdrianNicki said: People are so overly dramatic in here. I've dated a co-worker once. We were together for 7 months. It didn't really work out. We still work in a same place, sometimes we even have to do certain projects together and we are able to co-exist without any tension between us. It really depens on what type of person you are. If you are able to seperate your job from your personal life, you are fine to date whoever you want. no offence to OP but he doesn’t sound like the type of person who can separate his job from his personal life
brazil Posted July 11, 2022 Posted July 11, 2022 I think it depends. I have friends who are together after many years that met at work, although they don't work together anymore. I think if there is no risk of conflict of interest then you should go for it
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