discussion Can young straight guys take advantage of older gullible lonely gay men?

[Distantconstellation]

People love to talk about power dynamic here. So i was wondering, do u guys feel bad when young straight guys wallet rape older lonely gay men on onlyfans? They promise these old gays the moon the stars and the earth but in the end all they end up with is no money. 

[TROPICUM]

I mean, they're not forcing them to do anything. If they're gullible enough to give so much money away just for virtual pleasure then I don't know what to tell you. 

 

[Nano]

Onlyfans is so cringe. If you're gonna spend money on sex, why would you waste it on porn instead of getting escorts?

[MusicLoverDude]

Some guys get off on that though. 

 

I have a guy that I pay for stuff. Adult stuff. And he knows i'm the boss. But he also is very successful in the cash rape scene. 

 

It's up to the gay man themselves if they want to stop. Otherwise, let them be. 

 

I personally have several guys I turn to for adult stuff . these guys all respect me as I have to be in charge and direct them. Some have become good friends to me. I'd say I got lucky in that I met some great people that are cool with letting a guy control them. 

[satellites.™]

Trust me, older men dont have time for some idiot gay that cant hold an intelligent convo.

 

Theyd rather pay him to play and go on about their day tbh.

[TheCheshireCat]

Eh its mutually beneficial and equally exploitative.

If older gay men have disposable income and want to live in a fantasy land where they get to interact and receive exclusive spank bank material from men 10x hotter than them and half their age (if not more) then who are we to deny them that?

Also Its not like the young guys being gay would make it any better lol, these older gays have access to obviously gay content creators as well and they vote with their dollar.

[supertiffany]

12 minutes ago, Nano said:

Onlyfans is so cringe. If you're gonna spend money on sex, why would you waste it on porn instead of getting escorts?

yeah same price you can get the real sex instead of that video you can get for free 

[TheCheshireCat]

10 minutes ago, Nano said:

Onlyfans is so cringe. If you're gonna spend money on sex, why would you waste it on porn instead of getting escorts?

Because porn is fast, easy, safe and requires very little of them.

Getting an escort could be a potentially humiliating or dangerous experience, not to mention potentially illegal.

[Power love]

21 minutes ago, TROPICUM said:

I mean, they're not forcing them to do anything. If they're gullible enough to give so much money away just for virtual pleasure then I don't know what to tell you. 

 

 

4 minutes ago, TheCheshireCat said:

Getting an escort could be a potentially humiliating or dangerous experience

Not the lies 

[TheCheshireCat]

5 minutes ago, Power love said:

Not the lies 

LOL what 

[Alldeezy]

straight guys won't do that!   

[Happylittlepunk]

Girl we live in a world where people literally pay online in only fans to fart in a jar and send the video tape of them doing it. It’s full of nothing but kinks in that app. Don’t feel bad if older men are paying young guys for escorting or for watching kinks virtually. 

[L.B GAGA]

Straight??? Where ?? 

Straight men would opt for older women only.

Those men are either bi or gay.

 

To answer op, its best those older men go for the self accepting kind of escorts. They are more professional and kind. 

 

The other kind have been known to kill older guys or end up being crude and not  worth the dollars. 

Edited July 6, 2022 by L.B GAGA

[GraceRandolph]

Findom is not inherently exploitative. If older gays have the money to blow on hot straight guys then let them. Why are we demonizing the straight guys here? There are bigger issues to focus on. 

[GraceRandolph]

51 minutes ago, Distantconstellation said:

People love to talk about power dynamic here. So i was wondering, do u guys feel bad when young straight guys wallet rape older lonely gay men on onlyfans? They promise these old gays the moon the stars and the earth but in the end all they end up with is no money. 

 

41 minutes ago, MusicLoverDude said:

Some guys get off on that though. 

 

I have a guy that I pay for stuff. Adult stuff. And he knows i'm the boss. But he also is very successful in the cash rape scene. 

 

It's up to the gay man themselves if they want to stop. Otherwise, let them be. 

 

I personally have several guys I turn to for adult stuff . these guys all respect me as I have to be in charge and direct them. Some have become good friends to me. I'd say I got lucky in that I met some great people that are cool with letting a guy control them. 

Can you guys not call consensual money transfer “r*pe” please? 

[Mohit]

the older gay men today are much more smart.. gone are the days when they would pay 5000 dollars for a night of their life with a cute twink.. now they barely pay 20 dollars. 

[Distantconstellation]

5 minutes ago, Mohit said:

the older gay men today are much more smart.. gone are the days when they would pay 5000 dollars for a night of their life with a cute twink.. now they barely pay 20 dollars. 

I think if anything the power has gone back to the young guy with an onlyfans because they can do stuff from the safety of their homes without having to meet these old dudes in person. 

[GraceRandolph]

7 minutes ago, Distantconstellation said:

I think if anything the power has gone back to the young guy with an onlyfans because they can do stuff from the safety of their homes without having to meet these old dudes in person. 

Dudes don’t even have to post much. Some guys make thousands off of finsubs just by posting shirtless pics every now and then. 

[Femalien]

Old gay money is meant to be burned anyway as it's not robbing it from any next of kin, obviously. That's why these old nelly queens blow their money on art and home decor and **** and their dough usually goes to bourgie charities when they croack

[ConceptD]

Of course they can but I feel it’s on a mutually beneficial level. 

[Bloodflowers.]

You do know that you can cancel your subscribtion at any time? 

[Illuminati]

Findom terminology always has me cringing so bad But yeah, if they sign up for it they can also quit anytime they want I assume. Unless there's blackmail involved, which I don't condone

Edited July 6, 2022 by Illuminati

[RideOrDie]

3 hours ago, Allday said:

straight guys won't do that!   

 

2 hours ago, L.B GAGA said:

Straight??? Where ?? 

Straight men would opt for older women only.

Those men are either bi or gay.

 

To answer op, its best those older men go for the self accepting kind of escorts. They are more professional and kind. 

 

The other kind have been known to kill older guys or end up being crude and not  worth the dollars. 

i was in the findom scene for a while

there are absolutely straight guys there  they wouldn't show more than their body or feet and i'm sure like some of them are def homophobic, a lot of eastern european and uk guys, some married to women i'm sure 

anyways i was an 18-19 year old hairy cubby mediterranean guy, as homo as it gets, fake confidence and i made like around 3-5k in amazon gift cards, other subscriptions etc. over 3 months of summer  so you can imagine how much those tattooed muscled straight married european guys make who are just chain smoking cigs (no pun intended) with their feet up on the desk in a dirty bedroom, they make like $500 in 10 mins after turning on their cam 

[L.B GAGA]

14 minutes ago, RideOrDie said:

 

i was in the findom scene for a while

there are absolutely straight guys there  they wouldn't show more than their body or feet and i'm sure like some of them are def homophobic, a lot of eastern european and uk guys, some married to women i'm sure 

anyways i was an 18-19 year old hairy cubby mediterranean guy, as homo as it gets, fake confidence and i made like around 3-5k in amazon gift cards, other subscriptions etc. over 3 months of summer  so you can imagine how much those tattooed muscled straight married european guys make who are just chain smoking cigs (no pun intended) with their feet up on the desk in a dirty bedroom, they make like $500 in 10 mins after turning on their cam 

I was thinking more physical in contact escort and not online stripping behind a glass cage voyeur. 

[RideOrDie]

12 minutes ago, L.B GAGA said:

I was thinking more physical in contact escort and not online stripping behind a glass cage voyeur. 

well the op is saying wallet rape so im sure they were talking about like findom but fairs