bocelli Posted June 14, 2022 Posted June 14, 2022 (edited) For those that use Tinder/Bumble/Grindr etc., whats a big turn-off for you? To me, grown ass men with rainbow hair or duckface in profile pictures trying to look "cute" is just so... Also not too sound shallow but blonde hair is unattractive to me. The biggest offender is receeding hairline. Men in my country are generally fugly so I get to swipe right on 1 in 50 men which is why I rarely get matches. I hate it here!! I dont mind low income or short guys which is something a lot of people cang get behind. Edited June 14, 2022 by bocelli
sugarysunflower Posted June 14, 2022 Posted June 14, 2022 People like you. You come across as a condescending PoS. One of the worst offenders out there on the apps acting like you're all high and mighty. The irony. If you're not, then perhaps you should rethink how to communicate your thoughts.
GentleEarthquake Posted June 14, 2022 Posted June 14, 2022 when they have a long list of things they want when they won't talk to you if you don't send them a picture of yourself first straight
Just a Gay on ATRL Posted June 14, 2022 Posted June 14, 2022 Tbh when they have more than one pic to show off their hot, chiseled body. It comes off as very superficial and in my experience, these guys have the most empty personalities and rely on that body to make up their entire persona in the gay community. I’m lowkey also just not attracted to the chiseled six pack look. Pass for me.
Topaz Posted June 15, 2022 Posted June 15, 2022 1 hour ago, MusicTalker said: Tbh when they have more than one pic to show off their hot, chiseled body. It comes off as very superficial and in my experience, these guys have the most empty personalities and rely on that body to make up their entire persona in the gay community. I’m lowkey also just not attracted to the chiseled six pack look. Pass for me. I felt the same way. Ik im chonky, but I was like if you're mostly in underwear or thirst trap pics it gets kinda repetitive. OP: When their first pic is them with a kid/hella friends and i'm confused if they're a parent or which one of the friends they are.
Goaty Posted June 15, 2022 Posted June 15, 2022 Pretty much any negativity whatsoever in the bio just the other day I saw a guy with "god I hate living here, I can't wait to move away from all the damn flakes and fakes." of all the ways to make a first impression, and you choose to complain about something
Ice Cream Skies Posted June 15, 2022 Posted June 15, 2022 (edited) Open/poly/ENM, don't know their gender, dyed hair, if their bio is 100% political, "I'm not on here much, follow me on IG", any OnlyFans links, "send the first msg!", freshly divorced/out of a LTR, "dating me is like a rollercoaster", "here for a good time, not for a long time", etc. Edited June 15, 2022 by Ice Cream Skies
UnusualBoy Posted June 15, 2022 Posted June 15, 2022 Guys where all their pictures are shirtless like you can tell how self-absorb that person is and they probably have horrible personality, These gays with their no fem/no ugly bios, you can tell they're garbage by just writing that Mostly those.
Alldeezy Posted June 15, 2022 Posted June 15, 2022 Edit* left is like not like? Pretty much 90% of tinder.. if he doesn't have nice hair it's a compete no. Especially when they got facial hair.
byzantium Posted June 15, 2022 Posted June 15, 2022 When the person only has photos of them with other people. If you are going to make me work to figure out who you are, I am just going to swipe left.
John Slayne Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 22 hours ago, Goaty said: Pretty much any negativity whatsoever in the bio just the other day I saw a guy with "god I hate living here, I can't wait to move away from all the damn flakes and fakes." of all the ways to make a first impression, and you choose to complain about something this is a big one i also hate when they have their more attractive friend(s) in their pics, like why would you set yourself up like that? now i just want to talk to your friend and not you
Tropez Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 10 hours ago, byzantium said: When the person only has photos of them with other people. If you are going to make me work to figure out who you are, I am just going to swipe left. It’s ALWAYS the ugliest person in the photo. One time I a guy did this. But he was hiding in the back like a little gremlin. The others were very attractive people. The very last photo was him alone and I gasped.
Topaz Posted June 16, 2022 Posted June 16, 2022 On 6/14/2022 at 6:23 PM, hurricane326 said: If that's you in your avi you look absolutely gorgeous! Oh wow thank you I really appreciate that
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