discussion “Straight” White Man Tells Us That Black Men Would Be His Preference If He Were Gay.

[Europe]

9 hours ago, GoodGuyGoneGhetto said:

This is true. I live in London, and the attention I receive on Grindr is okay for the particular area I live in, nothing too special.

I was in Instanbul last month for five days, on a work retreat, and my account was absolutely flooded with views/messages. It was crazy. 
 

I’m sure it’ll be the same when I’m in Scotland next week too. 

 

Isn't it also because you are new in an area? Like when I go to a different part of the country I get a lot more attention simply because of the "fresh meat" effect.

[GoodGuyGoneGhetto]

14 hours ago, AbeHicks said:

Isn't it also because you are new in an area? Like when I go to a different part of the country I get a lot more attention simply because of the "fresh meat" effect.

This is true.

 

I’ve received a lot of attention when I’ve left London and gone to Manchester or Liverpool for example. I’m Black, and it’s even worst if I’m in one of the more rural counties in the U.K; my page is inundated with White men messaging me saying words to the effect of “OMG! You’re new. Please can we meet. That skin is gorgeous”. .

 

Do I honestly feel fetishised? Sometimes. Not always. It depends on how I’m messaged. 
 

I definitely felt fetishised in Turkey though. They all either wanted my BBC or BBA. 

Edited May 16, 2022 by GoodGuyGoneGhetto

[John Slayne]

aurkay

[Mirtilo]

I was expecting an actual man, not a teenager

[Jynx672]

17 hours ago, GoodGuyGoneGhetto said:

This is true. I live in London, and the attention I receive on Grindr is okay for the particular area I live in, nothing too special.

I was in Instanbul last month for five days, on a work retreat, and my account was absolutely flooded with views/messages. It was crazy. 
 

I’m sure it’ll be the same when I’m in Scotland next week too. 

 

Isn't Grindr blocked in Turkey? Or did you use a VPN? Either way I might have new destination in mind for my next holiday.

[GoodGuyGoneGhetto]

7 minutes ago, Jynx672 said:

Isn't Grindr blocked in Turkey? Or did you use a VPN? Either way I might have new destination in mind for my next holiday.

I accessed Grindr normally whilst in Turkey, no VPN needed. 

 

I’m assuming Turkey is one of the few countries within the the Middle East/West Asia region where it’s allowed. That’s probably due to it being a transcontinental country though and having close proximity to Europe. 
 

Either way, I liked the attention, minus the fetishist comments. I was able to meet one person only though and it was literally a two minute, premature, experience (on his part). 

Edited May 16, 2022 by GoodGuyGoneGhetto

[Jynx672]

1 hour ago, GoodGuyGoneGhetto said:

I accessed Grindr normally whilst in Turkey, no VPN needed. 

 

I’m assuming Turkey is one of the few countries within the the Middle East/West Asia region where it’s allowed. That’s probably due to it being a transcontinental country though and having close proximity to Europe. 
 

Either way, I liked the attention, minus the fetishist comments. I was able to meet one person only though and it was literally a two minute, premature, experience (on his part). 

How was the top/bottom split? Where I live Arab/Turkish guys rarely show interest in me because they're all tops and all they want to do is f*ck.

[Protocol]

As straight as a rainbow

 

[GoodGuyGoneGhetto]

5 hours ago, Jynx672 said:

How was the top/bottom split? Where I live Arab/Turkish guys rarely show interest in me because they're all tops and all they want to do is f*ck.

The majority of messages I received were from tops - only a few were bottoms. That said, even the tops wanted to see my D alongside my A. 
 

Also, I thought it was just me. Where I live, almost every Arab or Middle-Eastern man I come across is a top and they’re only interested in f*cking or getting a BJ. 
 

When they do f*ck, they only last a few minutes anyway. 

 

I love it though. 

Edited May 16, 2022 by GoodGuyGoneGhetto

[Jude]

Inch resting

[RunUpDoneUp]

It's amazingly easy for young white men to be trolls, since everyone expects nothing of them.

[Bacardo Royale]

The way he threw in 8 inch chile

[Bussea]

atrl would never

 

 

he really said:

 

 

Edited May 17, 2022 by Bussea

[Jan]

1 hour ago, Bacardo Royale said:

The way he threw in 8 inch chile

I think he'd have instant second thoughts before taking an 8 incher