discussion Do you want to propose or be proposed to?

[Symmetra]

When you get engaged? Which do you prefer to do?

[Daddy]

I would like to propose cause that way I can control the place and time. Being proposed to in broad daylight with people around seems so embarrassing. I hate that kind of attention. 

[Hephaestus]

Part of me would like to set up the proposal and make it special, but I'd probably prefer to be proposed to 

[WitnessOblivia]

neither

[RussianRoulette]

Neither.

[Heldenzeit]

Ugh, I'd love to propose to someone. 

[Ferret]

Im bottom so id like to be proposed

[99sandthe2000s]

I'm a lady so I want my woman to propose to me  but I'm not against proposing to my partner.

[iconicyayo]

neither 

[jordanjm]

I'd prefer to propose so I could control when and make it special for my partner.

 

Though I'd still be happy if he proposed to me. 

[John Slayne]

Proposed to. But it depends, if I felt it was right I wouldn't mind proposing.

 

Also I'd hate to be proposed to in public, it's so tacky and inauthentic. I'd want my proposal to be a private and intimate affair between my partner and I.

Edited April 27, 2022 by John Slayne

[Exquisite]

Neither

[enchanted0]

Neither for sure. 

[Taylucifer]

proposed to he better do that **** in a private setting

[Da Vinci]

doesnt matter to me as long as it's in a private, intimate setting with just the two of us

even just talking about getting married is enough, no need for the "going down on one knee" stuff

[Space Cowboy]

Neither. Marriage is for ugly people.

[znake]

They better propose me 

[Subzero]

Everyone who knows me knows that I absolutely hate surprises with a burning passion, so I'd be the one to propose and it would be in a private setting without any unwanted attention or an audience.

 

And that's only if the guy I am with genuinely wants marriage as I'm indifferent to it  

[LoveInStereo]

Weddings are a gross display of bourgeois overindulgence. I’m looking forward to getting married someday but the notion of a wedding sounds emotionally draining & not even fun. Like a pageant. I don’t need a production, I just need my husband

[JonginBey]

Be proposed to.

[Karla Cabello]

neither

[Symmetra]

8 minutes ago, LoveInStereo said:

Weddings are a gross display of bourgeois overindulgence. I’m looking forward to getting married someday but the notion of a wedding sounds emotionally draining & not even fun. Like a pageant. I don’t need a production, I just need my husband

period

[SweetTalker]

1 hour ago, Hephaestus said:

Part of me would like to set up the proposal and make it special, but I'd probably prefer to be proposed to 

Basically this 

[GentleEarthquake]

neither

[Bloodflowers.]

I'm the top aka the man in the relationship so I will have to propose my boyfriend