discussion Are people still not over the fact that gays do it from the "back door?"

[queenoftheclouds]

On 1/3/2025 at 11:18 AM, Hexchromatica said:

Straight guys are more obsessed with two guys having sex than gay men

That's really annoying most of the time.

[Sawk]

12 minutes ago, modeblock said:

Absolutely not, no mattery how ally'd, #LoveisLove'd they may pretend to be, straight people still think of homosexuality as weird, especially male homosexuality. But honestly, I don't think it's the poop that bothers them as much (because well they love anal as well), but I think it's the psychology of a male being penetrated that bothers them a lot. 

 

For women, it's thinking of their macho man being ****** in the ass, and for men, it's the thought of being ****** (like a woman) that is very bothersome. I think both are related to misogyny and anxiety around procreation?

You nailed it (pun intended ).

 

Since being a receptive partner is a vulnerable position, a man taking it up the ass is seen as a willing moment of weakness, like you said, it bothers them because (imo) they can't understand a man putting himself in a spot where another dude is dominating the sexual encounter.

 

It's why they ask "who's the girl" when referring to bottoms, inherent misogyny won't let them view a bottom as a real man since heterosexual sex is always subconsciously about procreation, so a man who is being a receptive partner is in no way completing the role of insemination; that being said, a top isn't either, but, because they're at least "mimicking" the sexual behavior of the straight man while topping, it's seen as a more relatable action and therefore not as degrading to his character.

[Jagger]

Not all of us do. I find it foul (for me, idc what anybody else does with consenting adults) 

[JonginBey]

Imagine thinking I converse with ignorant people.