Do you prefer to date someone with similar physical characteristics to yourself like racial/ethnic background, hair colour, smooth / hairy, height, build, something completely different or it's all random? 
 

Interesting to see insights for those in homocultural vs multicultural societies and if it makes a difference. 

I am pretty much only into guys that are in some way the opposite of me. Which leaves me with a lot of different types of guys but the ones I'm not into are usually skinny hairless twinks like myself

I'm a twink and I only go for beefy guys, my man is a very hairy bear, I couldn't go for someone slim…

I tend to date people who are visually complementary to me (read: not visually similar). The idea of dating myself is just not interesting.

never dated someone who looked like me

NO. Masc4Masc or Fit4Fit only. 

I think if you started to work on yourself, you'll be just only attracted to people with a similar lifestyle.

 

People are out there dating other people that look like them? 

I've always been attracted to men who are almost polar opposites of me. It kinda sucks cuz most of the healthy longtime gay couples I've seen tend to be clones lol, maybe they're onto something

Yes. This is one of the few occasions where I wish I had a twin 

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Nearly everyone I've dated hasn't looked like me but my ideal type is very similar looking to me

I'm not a narcissist so ofc i date guys who don't look like me

I like dating guys who are mentally (and economically) stable lol. Like, just once I'd like to meet a gay guy who has his sh*t together 

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I prefer dating people who don't look like me. Since childhood, my social groups have always been multicultural 

yes, i am a white man's ***** at the end of the day

I am white and i have dark hair and honey colored eyes. 

 

My first boyfriend was half marocain and half Algerian. Darkish skin and def doesn't look like me. 

 

My second (current) boyfriend is half Italian and half Russian. Blondish with grey eyes. 

 

They look nothing like me and whoever is seeking to date someone that looks like him should get evaluated asap 

Tbh as long as you're tall and decent looking you already have a 60% chance with me, the rest is personality and how I feel around you 

 

My boyfriend looks nothing like me visually but we are very similar in a lot of our interests, outlook, childhood, and life experiences. 

Never been into opposites and ended up dating someone who's a total opposite of me

Yes, several times.

I'm blonde and blue-eyed, I prefer a contrast. Southern Italian guys are my favorite. I'm lucky because they tend to have a preference for nordic-looking ones

No, always went for a little older. I'm 5'10 and smooth.  Daddy issues maybe, partner is 6'3, blue eyes, not too hairy. 

Why would I wanna date anyone who looks like me I'm extremely unattractive and boring ass Australian

 

Because a male looking like me would be weird it's bad enough me and Allday got similar features 

 

 

 

 

I have never dated anyone who looks like me. Probs Cuz I'm (Beyonce voice) unique 

The only physical similarity between me and my man is that we're both tall

I have never dated anyone that looks like me. 

I'm blonde Anglo and only date darkies 

 

I'll make an exception for gingers cuz they have the prettiest pinkest dicks in the game