loveisdead9582 Posted November 25 Posted November 25 (edited) I mean… I wouldn't mind it… someone to pay for my life and all I have to do is make sure there's food on the table and keep the place clean? Done. Edited November 25 by loveisdead9582 1
katara Posted November 25 Posted November 25 Hell no I am way too independent for that sh*t. Also I am a top anyway but I expect both parties to contribute financially. Also the power dynamics will be completely in your disfavor, the other earning half will have all the say and power over you. I know many of you are into submission like that but in reality it becomes abuse real quick and if you break up you're gonna have to find a job with years of being unemployed. Good luck with that LOL 1
no_better Posted November 25 Posted November 25 Not in a thousand lifetimes (speaking as a vers bottom lol) I associate a lot of my self worth with the productive/creative output that I give to the world. To think that I would just be at home, clean, and cook for someone else sounds like my worst nightmare
Uncatena Posted November 25 Posted November 25 I wouldn't mind having a partner who treats me to nice things but, hell no
P.O.P Posted November 25 Posted November 25 Sounds "fine" on paper but hell no. That mf better hire a cleaner if he is that rich I would be insecure in a money gap relationship 1
JoeAg Posted November 25 Posted November 25 11 hours ago, Zeferino said: Yes I want to be a trophy husband for a hot brunet guy oooo hmu I lowkey want a trophy husband at some pont 1
JoeAg Posted November 25 Posted November 25 but yeah no thanks lol I like having my independence and being my own legy king… but if I do get famous and my music takes off or something i'd want a trophy husband i fear (not a huge age difference but just someone sexi who will hang with me and travel with me)
Illyboy Posted November 25 Posted November 25 15 hours ago, glitch said: No because what if it all falls apart. Then you've been out of work for a number of years, it will be difficult to get another job, and you'll have next to no money of your own saved up I think the key would be to only do it with someone you know you will spend all your life with. I know it sounds unrealistic but there are couples that do last until they become elderly so I cling onto that
Illyboy Posted November 25 Posted November 25 13 hours ago, Xtina23 said: mmmhhmmmm!!! Yes!!!! Any 6'+ rich tops, preferably in finance, please get into my dms!!!! This you?
glitch Posted November 25 Posted November 25 7 minutes ago, Illyboy said: I think the key would be to only do it with someone you know you will spend all your life with. I know it sounds unrealistic but there are couples that do last until they become elderly so I cling onto that Yeah there are couples like that, but there's no way of knowing if your particular situation will end up that way. Even if you do have a perfect relationship, life happens, situations change. The relationship could end for all sorts of reasons outside of your control. Plus, a bit morbid, but your spouse could also just drop dead one day 2
Illyboy Posted November 25 Posted November 25 (edited) OP: It sounds good on paper but the description given in OP sounds a little restrictive. Maybe something similar but not that exactly, honestly I think I'd be so fine with a relationship where the "taking care of his emotional, physical needs" was a mutual thing. Abt the financial and house-running part idk bc I've never dated or had to take care of a house (my mum makes the chores look easy but I am also aware it takes a lot of brain power to organize the multitasking like "leave the laundry laudry-ing while doing something else, don't forget to do X remember that [someone] has Y appointment at Z" so I'm not sure, I might be too scatterbrained for that) Edited November 25 by Illyboy typos 1
Letters From Adi Posted November 26 Posted November 26 Doing chores is easier than going to office to grind daily, so I'm accepting husband applications
Europe Posted November 28 Posted November 28 It sounds really good but you need a very high level of trust to do that. I feel that gay relationships are more fragile because there are no kids to make the couple stay together so it is risky business.
JonginBey Posted November 29 Posted November 29 If he's genuinely a kind person, then I'd compromise; because the money alone isn't going to be enough to keep me around.
Zeferino Posted November 29 Posted November 29 On 11/25/2024 at 5:47 AM, JoeAg said: but yeah no thanks lol I like having my independence and being my own legy king… but if I do get famous and my music takes off or something i'd want a trophy husband i fear (not a huge age difference but just someone sexi who will hang with me and travel with me) Rooting for you future hubby 1
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