Can someone explain this to me about Ariana Grande?

[Matchatea]

5 minutes ago, Jay07 said:

I'm sure Ariana has friends and family that care about her and will help her if she ever needs help. Gossiping about it on ATRL doesn't really help anyone.

Forreal it's not our business and we don't know her medical history. Like what do ppl want fans to do? Stage an intervention? We don't know her and she said ppl to stop and that she has supports in place.  Also pointing out someone has an ED does not help the person with one, nor does commenting on their body!!! I say this as someone who struggled with one for almost a decade!

[l3disko]

It's her new blonde hair/bleached brows/makeup.

 

Completely washes her out and makes her look sickly - its just not a look she can pull off.

 

 

Compare to the time just before she bleached her hair:

 

 

Edited yesterday at 04:21 PM by l3disko

[Abracadabra]

45 minutes ago, Robyn. said:

I agree with the skinny and fat hypocrisy for sure.

 

Not so much about the men and women discourse. Let's say a male celebrity known for his physique gets crazy skinny, it's not going under the radar.

I agree that it would raise some eyebrows but I'm not convinced it would inspire the same level of concern. Plus it's all relative, Ariana was already a petite woman hence why I mentioned that losing a relatively small amount of weight can look drastic on someone with her frame, similar to what happened with Cheryl Cole a few years ago. Dave Bautista recently dropped 75 pounds in a short amount of time because he felt he was being typecast as the buff dude in movies. We are in an era where tons of celebrities are losing weight rapidly due to Ozempic etc, and although male celebs have their appearance scrutinised too, the "I hope they are okay" kind of comments really only ever apply to women. Obviously I hope she is okay too, I just think speculating about ED's isn't helpful and there's a lot of other things that can cause weight loss too.

[diemoehre]

1 hour ago, velocity said:

i'm worried for her because she looks very unhealthy. it's not normal for a ribcage to be jutting out like that.

 

also please spare me the fake outrage 'don't comment on women's bodies'. there's difference in someone commenting maliciosly with bad intent and people commenting because of genuine concern.

How does commenting on it help Ariana or anyone else in any way though?

[ariananext]

She looks the same as in 2013 and 2014, it's just the different look with pale skin, bleached brows and hair.

 

Anyways, the "her fans keep denying she has an ED" argument is so funny to me, like what are we supposed to do? Even if she happens to have an ED, are we supposed to call 911 or camp outside her house? She has the best resources as a millionaire, a good family and friends around her, how is discussing and speculating about it going to help her or anybody?

[velocity]

1 hour ago, diemoehre said:

How does commenting on it help Ariana or anyone else in any way though?

it's not about helping her, only she can help herself (if there's something wrong), it's about voicing worry about someone you care about? are you really that emotionally detached that you wouldn't worry or discuss someone's possible decline in health?