discussion Are you on PrEP?

[JoeAg]

my roommate (who is not quite as sexually active as I am but has far more penetrative sex than i do; he's a trans guy and a bottom) was on prep for about 3 months but just could NOT stand the blood tests  I do his t shot all the time and he detests needles more than anyone i've ever met

[jakeisphat]

1 hour ago, Joyride said:

not even my shadow

 

But yeah, I'd recommend that you take it if you want to go all the way with him in multiple positions but aren't sure if he's ******* other people. It's always best to be safe and it's a highly effective drug. 

[Ichinaru19]

This makes me not want to get back into dating

[Joyride]

19 minutes ago, JoeAg said:

my roommate (who is not quite as sexually active as I am but has far more penetrative sex than i do; he's a trans guy and a bottom) was on prep for about 3 months but just could NOT stand the blood tests  I do his t shot all the time and he detests needles more than anyone i've ever met

I did go to school to become a nurse for two years before I switched lanes so I'm not scared, it's not an issue for me!

[Joyride]

18 minutes ago, Ichinaru19 said:

This makes me not want to get back into dating

same

[yonsé]

Yes. And doxypep too. In some states it's even free. I don't pay anything and I get tested regularly so it keeps you on a schedule too.

[Ichinaru19]

56 minutes ago, Joyride said:

same

I'm not a sexually active person, but from the times from dating I somehow got herpes 2 Luckily I didn't have symptoms but like wtffff  

[brazil]

I'm supposed to start soon

[makeme]

Thankfully I have a boyfriend but if not I would consider it

[Joyride]

41 minutes ago, yonsé said:

Yes. And doxypep too. In some states it's even free. I don't pay anything and I get tested regularly so it keeps you on a schedule too.

I'll look into Doxypep, honestly I've been single for so long that I'm out of the loop. I was not having sex with anyone so this is like a "comeback" in a way. and I'm already terrified.

[Joyride]

I can get Doxypep for free and Truvada for $20 for a month's supply here we go

[Oktober Knight]

No, I'm afraid of the side effects. Plus I only do anal with my partners so I don't see the need. 

[Janet]

6 minutes ago, AvadaKedavra said:

This year, I thought about lookin-joinin the PREP program of my country because I was considering getting into the whole (Sex-Craze-Scene)  due to FOMO,Twitter Porn addiction and social pressure, especially since I'm in my early 30s, still a "bussy" virgin, and seeing so many gays involved with that... I was like. Im losin my youth not doin anything and *** every guy in existence. Im so dumb.  Im behind everyone. I considered havin an Onlyfans too and uploading content with a mask on lol
 

But after a car crash earlier this year, where I was headed to a "Sex Club Party" for the first time and my Uber hit a pedestrian in front of her family, I feel like things like that don't bring the best energy into my life. I've noticed that when I try to dive into the wilder side of things, nothing good really comes out of it. Honestly i dont know if im ready to live with that type of danger in my life. I have a very peaceful and comfortable life lmfao. I dont know if im ready to trade my peace for some messy experiences. Specially takin in account how here in the third world if you meet the wrong people things can take a really dark dark turn. Kidnapping,Drugged,Sex Trafficking,Gettin your whole bank account stolen.
 

I re-evaluated my life in these last months and realized I'm genuinely happier with a more grounded lifestyle focused on my hobbies,wholesome,cutesy,conventional stuff. Some people thrive in that bratty sex drugs drinkin scene, and if it fulfills them, that's great. I discovered my happiness lies elsewhere. People just should do whatever it makes them happy.
If theyre happy in a sling gettin ****** by 10 random guys. Thats great. Hope theyre havin the time of their life and hope theyre safe. 
I discovered im happier with simpler things in life. Like eating snacks and dancing in my livin room to lifetimes by katy perry or some of my fave vacanza bops. Goin to eat pie with my besties or lookin at the sunset and waiting for the train of my town
 

The only thing is that sometimes I wish I could have good friendships in the community, wanna have tons and tons of friends but I worry about ending up in risky situations  and facing the consequences without being prepared and how i should be on PREP once i get more social. At the same time, I don't see much point in keeping something I won't even use, lol.
So, i dont know....But PREP is the best thing ever. Glad the community has something to protect themselves. prep and doxyprep

You can go to sex parties and choose not to get dicked down by 10 men.  I've attended events stone cold sober so it's not necessarily going down a path of destruction - you can go to these things just for the experience. 

 

Also not sure where you're from, but if you're looking for community / fun experiences, then a gay sauna is a happy medium. You get to make connections with people in a more chilled setting (than a sex dungeon club event)

[AvadaKedavra]

52 minutes ago, Janet said:

You can go to sex parties and choose not to get dicked down by 10 men.  I've attended events stone cold sober so it's not necessarily going down a path of destruction - you can go to these things just for the experience. 

 

Also not sure where you're from, but if you're looking for community / fun experiences, then a gay sauna is a happy medium. You get to make connections with people in a more chilled setting (than a sex dungeon club event)

Thank you, Hennie. That's a very thoughtful answer.  
maybe one day i will go to a sauna as something "exploratory"
"to look for evidence like gaga"


I was actually on a dangerous path because I'm not into soft stuff-sanitized sex; I'm attracted to the Bareback-Tina-BDSM-Dump lifestyle.
I was just a few steps away from joining that lifestyle and have been invited to so many wild sex parties over the past few years with pornstars and everything.     I have a good knowledge of that whole community and how wild things can get there


Right now, I'm done with that. I don't even watch porn anymore. I just get bored of it.
I don't know if my sexual desire-sex drive will come back in the future, but at the moment, I feel like doin things outside of that dimension-BOX
I want to connect more with the gay community in my country, but I feel like I need some self-development first.  
My love now is chilling out and doin money and reaching stardom like my faves LOl 
my social time is ATRL  


All of these experiences have been helpful because I used to be very prudish in the past.
I was critical and judgmental of everyone  i was raised jehovah witness 
I viewed "sex-addicted gays" in a very negative light, but if I'm honest, so many of them treated me really well online—better than some of the "fancy gays" with perfect lifestyles

I no longer see casual sex as a big taboo, and I also dislike ****-shaming now. 
Like David Henrie mocking his co-star. Thats vile 


Gay and Proud
 

 

 

 

Edited November 1 by AvadaKedavra

[YouSmellLikeHospital]

I've been thinking about it but I need to do more research. I'm worried about the side effects and the impact it supposedly has on your organs

 

I'm recently single and so many guys are trying to jump my bones but I don't trust any of these ******* to go through with anything  they have been around the block. The same guys have been on these dating apps for YEARS and everyone has ****** everyone 

[Alldeezy]

 

Wtf is prep  

 

Why does it remind me of a mean girls character

[katara]

No but I only breed bottoms who are on PreP

 

[M.R.]

So am I safe if I fill this bottom's hole since he's begging me for some time. He's on PreP and showed me that he tests regularly.

[MP3]

On 10/31/2024 at 8:21 PM, Bloodflowers. said:

No, I am in a monogamous relationship with a fellow Christian gay