thatsmydemi Posted October 22 Posted October 22 On 10/19/2024 at 3:45 PM, burninredhot said: No I just mentioned the fact that she could've easily avoided this if she just minded her business She's been doing this for years and you still bring it up. No matter how much time she spends minding her business that people like you and stans in general will ALWAYS bring those things back. 2
thatsmydemi Posted October 22 Posted October 22 On 10/19/2024 at 8:33 PM, ScorpiosGroove said: what hate train ? i don't mean this in a shady way but she isn't nearly relevant enough for one She's not relevant because she's spent years trying to hide from the public eye. The moment she does something you don't like she's gonna be EVERYWHERE and y'all will drag her to the pits with no remorse. 1
thatsmydemi Posted October 22 Posted October 22 I'm glad to see she's (apparently) in a good place now and has learned to differentiate between what things she can share and what not, what things she should speak up about and what not. Hopefully, it's not a facade and she's actually in a good place. Sadly, she's still human and very vulnerable. It's sad to think that no matter how much time she spends out of the public's eye or minding her business, people will still think she's the messy person she was YEARS ago, and the moment she makes another mistake, it will be blown out of proportions and people will drag her bringing up drugs and everything she's dealt with. She's been one of the most bullied celebrities out there. It's honestly surprising she's been able to bear everything she's seen. People have attacked her with no mercy even for the smallest or most stupid things. I'm glad she's also learned to stay out of the internet and focus on her personal life and career. 4
hypnodemiluv Posted October 23 Author Posted October 23 On 10/22/2024 at 3:32 PM, thatsmydemi said: I'm glad to see she's (apparently) in a good place now and has learned to differentiate between what things she can share and what not, what things she should speak up about and what not. Hopefully, it's not a facade and she's actually in a good place. Sadly, she's still human and very vulnerable. It's sad to think that no matter how much time she spends out of the public's eye or minding her business, people will still think she's the messy person she was YEARS ago, and the moment she makes another mistake, it will be blown out of proportions and people will drag her bringing up drugs and everything she's dealt with. She's been one of the most bullied celebrities out there. It's honestly surprising she's been able to bear everything she's seen. People have attacked her with no mercy even for the smallest or most stupid things. I'm glad she's also learned to stay out of the internet and focus on her personal life and career. people are BAD they LOVE to tear another person down. Demi done so much good for this world... she deserves world <3 1
Polgg48 Posted October 23 Posted October 23 scooter was trash for those PR relentless news that derailed her career to fall off from mainstream that bad, fumble even with sympathetic narrative after her in-house collapsed incident. good that her rock phase basically saved her life and she's been happy with her relationship and her show now either, she doesnt earn credit she deserved for getting through that period tbf
lauren198 Posted October 23 Posted October 23 Geez...people are getting weirder and weirder Since when someone being "annoying" is a reason to be insensitve over something like this? 3
Raphy23 Posted October 23 Posted October 23 (edited) On 10/19/2024 at 9:25 AM, SharGaga said: She promoted being California Sober (drinking alcohol and smoking pot) after overdosing and getting blind spots in her vision. Also she went back to her abuser/ drug dealer after overdosing to get high and hook up. The whole thing is very very disturbing and chilled me to my core. She also had a room that was supposed to look like a LSD trip. Umm there is something called Harm Reduction. You can't just suddenly go cold turkey. Edited October 23 by Raphy23 3
SharGaga Posted October 24 Posted October 24 6 hours ago, Raphy23 said: Umm there is something called Harm Reduction. You can't just suddenly go cold turkey. Quote "Smoking and drinking led me back to other substances," said Demi, who previously defended their decision to go "California sober" after their near-fatal overdose. https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/leylamohammed/demi-lovato-california-sober-overdose-drug-addiction
Distantconstellation Posted October 24 Posted October 24 On 10/19/2024 at 8:59 AM, Saint James said: we haven't even hated on her in years. most of her threads are flops now We? No just u. A gay man still parading around as a teen even tho u are in your 30s
Mr. Duff Posted October 24 Posted October 24 I love Demi and it hurts me to read awful vile comments to her especially since she's very vulnerable. I had to skip all the way to the end of this thread because the first page is just tone deaf and disrespectful in a lot of ways. Anyways I'll always root for you Demi. You're not perfect and obviously has a lot of questionable choices, but I still believe you're a good person and I just love your music so much you're always worth supporting. 3
Saint James Posted October 24 Posted October 24 5 hours ago, Distantconstellation said: We? No just u. A gay man still parading around as a teen even tho u are in your 30s interesting since i'm not over 30 nor the one resorting to personal attacks here.
Freakshowvato Posted October 24 Posted October 24 (edited) 16 hours ago, Raphy23 said: Umm there is something called Harm Reduction. You can't just suddenly go cold turkey. Some people are not ready to be fully sober. Demi was recovering from one of the HARDEST drugs to overcome. And she made clear in the documentary that harm reduction was an experiment, and went alongisde her eating disorder recovery, because she was learning to not moderate eating. It was part of her specific journey with her comorbidities and specific situation to attempt harm reduction to stay off of harder drugs, and when she was ready, she went back to treatment and obtained full sobriety. Yeah, she abused weed/alcohol, but who are we to judge when we already know she's an addict. And when she HERSELF IN THE DOCUMENTARY said it was experimental and may fail, and that she does not recommend anyone emulate her. People will be surprised to know that Demi once said substances saved her life at one point, it gave her temporary relief from severe depression that helped her from harming herself. It's a complicated subject, and to act like it's a black or white, right or wrong, and pass judgment is cruel and unnecessary. What matters is thankfully she is FULLY sober now and at a stage where she can enjoy full recovery from ALL substances. She has overcome so much from not just 2010 when she first went to treatment, but also 2018 when she relapsed after 6 years of sobriety and almost lost her life. Have some compassion for her journey since then, and the fact she found full sobriety again. Edited October 24 by Freakshowvato 1 1
Raphy23 Posted October 24 Posted October 24 9 hours ago, SharGaga said: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/leylamohammed/demi-lovato-california-sober-overdose-drug-addiction Yes it can happen. It doesn't always work for everyone the first time. But the idea is you only stick to alcohol/weed, and then eventually you remove those too. You have to do it gradually. 4
Raphy23 Posted October 24 Posted October 24 21 minutes ago, Freakshowvato said: Some people are not ready to be fully sober. Demi was recovering from one of the HARDEST drugs to overcome. And she made clear in the documentary that harm reduction was an experiment, and went hand in hand with her eating disorder recovery, because she was not learning to not moderate her eating. Demi's comorbidities. It was part of her specific journey to attempt harm reduction to stay off of harder drugs, and when she was ready, she then went back to treatment to obtain full sobriety. Yeah, she abused weed/alcohol, but who are we to judge when we already know she's an addict. Demi has said that substances saved her life at one point, it gave her temporary relief from severe depression that helped her from harming herself, and yet in the same token it ruined her life with a lifelong disease and almost took her life. It's a complicated subject, and to act like it's a black or white, right or wrong, and pass judgment is cruel. Either way, it's her recovery from a disease, and not anyone else's journey to comment on or judge. This too! She was doing what she thought was best for her 3
Freakshowvato Posted October 24 Posted October 24 (edited) People lack compassion for Demi, when to be honest, it is extraordinary what she has overcome. Not only because of what she has been through and all that she dealt with (sexual abuse, eating disorders, substance abuse, overdose, bipolar depression), but also because she is at an INSANE household name level where she will never have anonymity with the entire world discussing and mocking her (Poot, memes, haters making fun of her addiction, dumb "controversies"). The fact she has been as successful as she is with her journey is remarkable. And yeah since 2018 her two eras were not huge or produce mega hits, but she remains a huge celebrity and known pop star and will forever be one, because of the previous hits she has produced and her voice. Even her Disney days alone on the Camp Rock movies cement her as a lifelong celebrity. Edited October 24 by Freakshowvato 2
thatsmydemi Posted October 24 Posted October 24 10 hours ago, SharGaga said: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/leylamohammed/demi-lovato-california-sober-overdose-drug-addiction Listen, I've never supported Demi's California Sober phase but she was crystal clear and careful about it. She explicitly said in the doc and interviews that it was something that was working FOR HER and it wasn't meant for everybody. She wasn't promoting that lifestyle. Even in her doc, she included people who said they didn't agree with it. It's not like she was out there saying it's the best thing ever and people with addiction should try it. Lucky for her, she realized it wasn't working and completely ditched it. 3
DougAF Posted October 24 Posted October 24 Me getting downvote notifications constantly days later: 2
ShadeIena Posted October 24 Posted October 24 On 10/19/2024 at 9:37 AM, hypnodemiluv said: Revealed during J Balvin documentary 'A great day with J Balvin' Demi reveals with tears she wanted to end her life... ATRL and others - Demi hate train needs to stop. She doesn't deserve this! Nobody deserves... you saying this when you constantly shade Selena here and you stalk her threads sounds a little hypocritical , just saying 4 4
hypnodemiluv Posted October 25 Author Posted October 25 21 hours ago, ShadeIena said: you saying this when you constantly shade Selena here and you stalk her threads sounds a little hypocritical , just saying I'm shading and pointing some fake behaviours sure but i will NEVER ever wish her death or something like that! This topic is about something serious. 3
Antikythera Posted October 25 Posted October 25 Same old same old. If things not good poor me, if things are good "it was me". She should retire. Always the same docs BS. She lies constantly, she always say she is fine and months later she says it was the worst time of her live because comments. 1 3
Pink Ranger Posted October 25 Posted October 25 On 10/24/2024 at 9:25 PM, ShadeIena said: you saying this when you constantly shade Selena here and you stalk her threads sounds a little hypocritical , just saying Throwing shade at Selena for her poor single choices this year, taste in men and her constantly announcing social media breaks is not the same as what's going on here sis if you can't tell the difference between shade and genuine disgusting comments about someone who wanted to unalive themselves then stick to twitter babes. 2 2
alp Posted October 26 Posted October 26 On 10/19/2024 at 4:25 PM, SharGaga said: Also she went back to her abuser/ drug dealer after overdosing to get high and hook up. it didn't happen 1
AMX Posted October 26 Posted October 26 So I'm suppose to pretend Demi wasn't (and I use "wasn't" because I hope she has grown) bitter and mean-spirited. I remember all the jabs at Taylor. Besides the only time I actually disliked her was the froyo incident. 1
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