Strawberry Bubble Posted Monday at 07:13 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:13 PM Another thread of me doubting the people around me and hating on them, lol. Do you have any subtle or obvious signs that a relationship has no future? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PerfectCure Posted Monday at 07:16 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:16 PM Passive aggressive teasing disguised as jokes, especially if done in public or around other people 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexrex Posted Monday at 07:34 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:34 PM Lack of interest that ends up killing the flame 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princess Aurora Posted Monday at 07:36 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:36 PM Silence or barely small talk.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
illia Posted Monday at 07:36 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:36 PM If it's poly 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Mesha. Posted Monday at 07:43 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:43 PM Love bombing 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AshleyLovescats887 Posted Monday at 07:47 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:47 PM When he doesn't stream Halsey's fifth studio album, 'The Great Impersonator', featuring hit singles such as 'The End', 'Lucky', 'Lonely is the Muse', 'Ego' & more(!), out October 25th. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodflowers. Posted Monday at 07:49 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:49 PM You just feel it or you don't Their energy simply shows Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRHCOLLECTION Posted Monday at 07:55 PM Share Posted Monday at 07:55 PM When they become laid back and the texting is reduced to one liners Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strawberry Bubble Posted Monday at 08:05 PM Author Share Posted Monday at 08:05 PM 7 minutes ago, AshleyLovescats887 said: When he doesn't stream Halsey's fifth studio album, 'The Great Impersonator', featuring hit singles such as 'The End', 'Lucky', 'Lonely is the Muse', 'Ego' & more(!), out October 25th. Girl, that's obvious. Any relationship worth it wouldn't ignore Halsey. I'm looking for more subtle signs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YourFavoriteWeapon Posted Monday at 08:44 PM Share Posted Monday at 08:44 PM When they don't stan Willa Ford. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CherieMoon Posted Monday at 08:57 PM Share Posted Monday at 08:57 PM (edited) When they never match your energy and criticize you for being yourself instead. Example: Miley & Liam Edited Monday at 08:58 PM by CherieMoon 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bad guy Posted Monday at 09:09 PM Share Posted Monday at 09:09 PM Friendship or romantic? There's different answers for both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joey307 Posted Monday at 09:10 PM Share Posted Monday at 09:10 PM In my experience it's when they find out I'm a prostitute on the weekends 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strawberry Bubble Posted Monday at 09:15 PM Author Share Posted Monday at 09:15 PM 5 minutes ago, bad guy said: Friendship or romantic? There's different answers for both. both Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie in a Bottle Posted Monday at 09:22 PM Share Posted Monday at 09:22 PM When the relationship feels more like a dead-end job you're not even being paid for. this goes for both friendship and romance imo. Maintaining a relationship shouldn't feel like manual labor. If it does…. Sorry…. But it's a sign to move on 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dolce Vita Posted Monday at 09:55 PM Share Posted Monday at 09:55 PM there's an energy change when either you or your partner stop giving the same level of attention or care anymore. you know when you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDreamer Posted Monday at 10:04 PM Share Posted Monday at 10:04 PM you just know it, but of course you will try to be a martyr and ignore the signs. Only after when you finally get out of that relationship and you look back that all the signs were right there all along. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bad guy Posted Monday at 10:37 PM Share Posted Monday at 10:37 PM 1 hour ago, Strawberry Bubble said: both Friendship: When it's always you reaching out, you making plans, you putting in the effort, you being excluded if that person hangs out with other people you're friends with. You can just tell if someone is a friend for the moment and who are your friends for life. For example I just finally finished my undergrad this past May and I had a core friend group of about 8 people, and then outside of that individual friendships not tied to them (work friends, class friends, etc). I suddenly had to move out of the city my school's in and move back home. Maybe half of my core group has reached out to me since and who I actively still speak to. This showed me that the other half of this group were just circumstantial friends or friends that if I see in passing will catch up with but not my true best friends. And that's fine. When my previous work/class friends DM me on Instagram asking me how I've been doing and you don't it's also pretty clear But then I also have a few friends from middle school/high school that I won't talk to for years but if we meet up it's like no time is lost. I feel like you just know if things are legit or not. Relationship: This is easier to know because it will be obvious. If they change their entire demeanor out of the blue and aren't as attentive to you, that's sign #1 to communicate what the issue is. If they acknowledge that they're being distant and can explain why (maybe they have a personal issue going on) you can work through that and can make the relationship stronger. If they can't give you an answer or worse, deny they're acting different you are headed for a break up eventually. Because in order for a romantic relationship to work there has to be a foundation of honesty and trust. That doesn't mean you have to know every single secret they hold, but if they intentionally keep things from you or tell you the sky is green when you know it's blue then it's a wrap. I mean you can keep pushing if you really want it to work but if they aren't budging then just cut your losses. People get too caught up in the idea of what a person can be and not look at the person for who they are and end up wasting their time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DockDock Posted Monday at 10:42 PM Share Posted Monday at 10:42 PM 2 hours ago, AshleyLovescats887 said: When he doesn't stream Halsey's fifth studio album, 'The Great Impersonator', featuring hit singles such as 'The End', 'Lucky', 'Lonely is the Muse', 'Ego' & more(!), out October 25th. your posts and gif are giving So Fetch!. OT: when you don't care about the other person anymore...like a turn off. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dumbsparce Posted Monday at 11:20 PM Share Posted Monday at 11:20 PM When you don't get a boner every time you see them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kern Posted Tuesday at 08:05 AM Share Posted Tuesday at 08:05 AM When you see the future and the relationship is just not in it 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oktober Knight Posted yesterday at 01:18 AM Share Posted yesterday at 01:18 AM When you stop visualizing your future together or if it's completely different than what you both envisioned. Also when the "spark" is gone when you come home and/or kiss and hug your partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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