Kayseri Mantisi Posted September 9 Posted September 9 constantly talking **** to you about someone else, and then you see them kii'ing and having fun with the person they talked to you very negatively about like what 1 1
Into The Void Posted September 9 Posted September 9 13 minutes ago, Solaria said: The worst people I've known are people who are extremely non-confrontational, build up all these resentment over things they perceive u do wrong or things that hurt them in some sort of way, and then suddenly the bubble bursts and they become extremely angry at you for no reason. I've noticed these are often the types of people who are either very insecure or very clingy. Oh wow I am non confrontational as it gets. Well that sucks 1
Lady Claire Posted September 9 Posted September 9 Also - when someone acts different towards you around different people. I used to have a friend that had a diff personality depending on who she was hanging out, and that sounded fake to me. And i'm pretty sure she was anyways.
AlGreRithm Posted September 9 Posted September 9 (edited) Always comes up with excuses for his/her every action. Like girl, nobody asked. Edited September 9 by AlGreRithm
Mornings Posted September 9 Posted September 9 From my experience the worst people are the ones who are always bored and talking about everyone else. 1
Strawberry Bubble Posted September 9 Author Posted September 9 16 minutes ago, Solaria said: The worst people I've known are people who are extremely non-confrontational, build up all these resentment over things they perceive u do wrong or things that hurt them in some sort of way, and then suddenly the bubble bursts and they become extremely angry at you for no reason. I've noticed these are often the types of people who are either very insecure or very clingy. Those people who perceive themselves as being super nice, always trying to please you, but hypocritically, all they really want is to look good. I've had several 'friends' and even a boss like that, and they truly are the worst type of person. They drag you into problems, hypocritically pretend to care about you, promise things like hangouts or spending more time together, and in the end, you realize they never cared. They just couldn't be honest because they were too afraid of looking bad. One of the most hurtful ways to wound someone is by making promises and constantly betraying their trust. You nailed it with this answer
NOW Posted September 9 Posted September 9 18 minutes ago, Solaria said: The worst people I've known are people who are extremely non-confrontational, build up all these resentment over things they perceive u do wrong or things that hurt them in some sort of way, and then suddenly the bubble bursts and they become extremely angry at you for no reason. I've noticed these are often the types of people who are either very insecure or very clingy. Hm I wouldn't say that makes them a horrible person though. Sometimes they are like that because of past trauma that they are still or have yet to heal from and as a result, they don't know how to manage their emotions. I have encountered people like that and I hope they can acknowledge it as a problem and work on it. 2
ChooseyLover Posted September 9 Posted September 9 14 minutes ago, Solaria said: The worst people I've known are people who are extremely non-confrontational, build up all these resentment over things they perceive u do wrong or things that hurt them in some sort of way, and then suddenly the bubble bursts and they become extremely angry at you for no reason. I've noticed these are often the types of people who are either very insecure or very clingy. I feel kinda called out. I'm very open with my feelings and I try my hardest to talk things out, but when there's no empathy found on the other end and the reaction to me simply sharing how I feel is really defensive and insensitive, I just start building up that resentment and keeping to myself. 3
smartalek22 Posted September 9 Posted September 9 Is it bad that when I view these sort of topics I worry I'm a bad person like idk. But I just have such little awareness of my own social interactions anyway to know. Anyways let me escape this paradox its too freaky 1
ChooseyLover Posted September 9 Posted September 9 1 minute ago, smartalek22 said: Is it bad that when I view these sort of topics I worry I'm a bad person like idk. But I just have such little awareness of my own social interactions anyway to know. Anyways let me escape this paradox its too freaky Right And I try to come up with something to add but I'm hesitant to feel someone in my life was a "horrible" person just because our relationship didn't work. Maybe I didn't come across really really awful people.
smartalek22 Posted September 9 Posted September 9 13 minutes ago, ChooseyLover said: Right And I try to come up with something to add but I'm hesitant to feel someone in my life was a "horrible" person just because our relationship didn't work. Maybe I didn't come across really really awful people. Idk maybe we just see it wrong. I highly doubt most people go around with bad intentions, its just unaddressed flaws that bring bad reactions.
Strawberry Bubble Posted September 9 Author Posted September 9 53 minutes ago, Solaria said: The worst people I've known are people who are extremely non-confrontational, build up all these resentment over things they perceive u do wrong or things that hurt them in some sort of way, and then suddenly the bubble bursts and they become extremely angry at you for no reason. I've noticed these are often the types of people who are either very insecure or very clingy. I don't know why your comment doesn't have more upvotes lol. It's literally the answer I was searching for, and everyone is relating to it, but I'm the only one who upvoted it lol. @everyone, upvote this comment please! 1
Reginald Posted September 9 Posted September 9 Not me expecting this to be a shade thread about Brittany Mahomes
Cyanide Posted September 9 Posted September 9 1 hour ago, Triton said: Always the victim, must agree with them, if you're not supporting them it means you're against them 1 hour ago, Dark.Poet said: Triangulation - particularly when they insist that you should pick between them and person they have conflict with. Run from this kind of people. 1 hour ago, brazil said: Dont own up to their statements and positions or change it based on the receiving party (particularly relevant in work enviromentl Ugh the way I had an ex friend who was ALL of these things Look up the term "crazymaker" 1
TipToe Posted September 9 Posted September 9 If you get close to someone and you notice they constantly blame other people for their problems and never see their own self as problematic... run for the hills. Maybe they aren't necessarily horrible nor objectively dangerous but these people are toxic, possibly narcissistic. Also: constant little lies (and pretending they are good, but it's always too obvious). 1
Solaria Posted September 9 Posted September 9 1 hour ago, ChooseyLover said: I feel kinda called out. I'm very open with my feelings and I try my hardest to talk things out, but when there's no empathy found on the other end and the reaction to me simply sharing how I feel is really defensive and insensitive, I just start building up that resentment and keeping to myself. Yeah but that's different. I'm talking about people who just never share how they feel, regardless. I'm speaking from experience here as well. I used to be the friend that had no boundaries, that just swallowed everything and never wanted to say when I felt wronged because I didn't want people to dislike me or I didn't wanna make things awkward between me and a friend. But then you just end up building so much resentment for a person which is just such a waste. Sometimes things need to be uncomfortable to come to a better understanding with each other. One of my friendships detoriated because of this. So whenever I see this pattern in other people I'm always very quick to call it out. I'd rather you tell me everytime you didn't like something whether big or small than you just not saying a ything at all. 1
GentleEarthquake Posted September 10 Posted September 10 dislikes my favorite artists and likes my least favorite artists
AMIT Posted September 10 Posted September 10 people who are rude and who look down on others for no good reason, manipulative/deceitful people. someone being annoying for various reasons in general does not mean that person is ''bad'' or ''mean''. bad people for me are the ones who are potentially dangerous in maybe not very obvious ways. they hide their evilness behind stuff like ''objectiveness'', ''telling it like it is'', passive-aggressiveness or gaslight you straight up. 1
Relampago. Posted September 10 Posted September 10 They instantly become whiny, bratty or defensive when they don't get what they want. Very dismissive of how the people they date are feeling or how they treat them. Always expecting to be catered to. Cannot handle being called out or told they're in the wrong whatsoever. Anyone who shows a lack of thoughtfulness for others and tries to play it off as "oh I didn't know!" or "oh please, I don't mean it that way!!" 1
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