Popboi. Posted Wednesday at 03:20 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 03:20 PM A good therapist would know better than to generalize like this 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CosTaSsSs Posted Wednesday at 03:27 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 03:27 PM Therapists are not really entitled to tell their opinion. Not really judging on their work, 'cause it may be a very helpful therapist for you, but it feels this holds some truth but at the same it is a generalization. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartalek22 Posted Wednesday at 03:27 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 03:27 PM i feel like my problems are too much for a therapist idk... like sorry... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PillowCase Posted Wednesday at 03:34 PM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 03:34 PM 18 minutes ago, Princess Aurora said: She made some points but it depends. Also, the subtle shade at I'm pretty sure he already knows It's my damn lisp 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julianna Calm Down Posted Wednesday at 03:39 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 03:39 PM Time to change therapists chile, perhaps to someone that has actually gone to school. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fememeist Posted Wednesday at 03:51 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 03:51 PM Maybe let's not look for therapists on craigslist 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arrows Posted Wednesday at 04:11 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:11 PM Trash therapist honestly! Where are you from? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
byzantium Posted Wednesday at 04:12 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:12 PM That and they are insecure with their sexuality. The funny thing is, in my anecdotal experience, women find the straight guys with gay friends much more attractive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KBax Posted Wednesday at 04:15 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:15 PM I've had lots of straight male friends who did not give a single f*ck that I'm gay. They weren't afraid of hanging out with me or being around me at all. We'd literally go to clubs together, hang out and do regular things friends do... so I feel like that comment is straight phobic. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alexrex Posted Wednesday at 04:18 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:18 PM That's the case for many straight men. But not all of them are homophobic. But it's true there is still judgement and shame around that. But to say all straight men are homophobic , that's a big generalization right there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heldenzeit Posted Wednesday at 04:41 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:41 PM A therapist making generalized assumptions? Don't pay this rat a cent. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devin Posted Wednesday at 04:43 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:43 PM ur therapist sound small minded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GraceRandolph Posted Wednesday at 04:46 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:46 PM Definitely for older straight men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonginBey Posted Wednesday at 04:47 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:47 PM You're both gay, so what does this have to do with straight men? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeemoR Posted Wednesday at 04:48 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:48 PM it's true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GentleEarthquake Posted Wednesday at 05:09 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 05:09 PM She's not wrong but also not completely right Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Archetype Posted Wednesday at 06:17 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:17 PM It depends on where you live… I would generally disagree with your therapist but I know it's true in certain parts of the country /world. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
305 Posted Wednesday at 06:17 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:17 PM I mean sure, there are straight men that wouldn't want a gay friend because of that but I have many straight friends that love the gays and that I have really good relationships with that are purely platonic. Allies exist Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dula Peep Posted Wednesday at 06:24 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:24 PM 3 hours ago, RideOrDie said: this is a huge generalization and specific to certain cultures/places i have many straight male friends, but that could be because i'm a masc4masc hairy thick dom top and my DMs are open straights? who needs them? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
selena_lavigne Posted Wednesday at 06:27 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:27 PM (edited) Some days i wish i had never come out, i woulda been a closeted Selena Gomez stan and masc4masc. If i didn't come out at 15 my fashion sense woulda probably gotten way more guys, i woulda gone to the gym every day, i woulda written really seductive singer/songwriter pop and the girls would go crazy. And people would ask me in interviews, cuz i woulda had 5 top 10 hits by now, if i was gay and i would say "i love the gays, but i don't like labels" I then would have entered a relationship with an up and coming pop girl and go out with her to get photographed every single week, and we would eventually break up after becoming the hit hollywood couple. Edited Wednesday at 06:32 PM by selena_lavigne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante Posted Wednesday at 06:29 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:29 PM i could have told u that for free Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlossomSoul Posted Wednesday at 06:29 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:29 PM (edited) Your therapist sounds out of line and dated Edited Wednesday at 06:29 PM by BlossomSoul Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BussC,XOXO Posted Wednesday at 06:33 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:33 PM she's kinda right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julianna Calm Down Posted Wednesday at 06:35 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:35 PM Sadly a case of therapist needing therapy to better themselves and their therapy skills and uncover some unconscious biases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
no_better Posted Wednesday at 06:36 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 06:36 PM What a weird thing for a therapist to say. Straight people can be homophobic but not all straight men are homophobic to a degree. Not even most Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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