ATRL Moderator Tsareena Posted June 12 ATRL Moderator Posted June 12 I didn't even know they were together but I only recently started following Gabbriette. Congrats to them
glitch Posted June 12 Posted June 12 I hope stans leave this woman alone. Flashbacks to 1D fans harassing any woman who glanced in their general direction. 1
ohjulia Posted June 12 Posted June 12 People that haven't been in a volatile relationship with a Matty Healy don't understand. I was Taylor Swift...Completely infatuated with a MH. Everyone knew it was bad news but I couldn't get out of the cyclone no matter how hard I tried. I waited and waited. We would try to not speak but then inevitably we would restart the cycle. Eventually, I ended it when all my pride, self-love and value were thrown out of the window and 10 months later they got married LOL. I spiraled after that. 8 years of my life wasted, and for what? 1 7 2
More Than A Melody Posted June 12 Posted June 12 6 hours ago, Burn said: The way every man after dating Taylor goes straight into a happy marriage. This further confirms that no man truly wants to put a ring on Taylor's finger. Nnnn what are you talking about? Only Calvin, Taylor L and Tom are married out of all her exes. Calvin got married like, a few months ago, and Tom was single for years before meeting Zawe. Taylor L got married like a decade after her 1 month relationship with him ended John, Jake, Joe Jonas, Harry, Joe Alwyn, are all either single or dating around. It's 2024, dating is harder than ever for regular folks, let alone celebrities. OT: If she's willing to marry that POS then I have no respect for her. Congrats I suppose. 1 1
on the line Posted June 12 Posted June 12 ATRL during 2023 while Matt dates Taylor: HE'S A NAZI BURN HIM TO THE GROUND DESTROY HIM CANCEL HIM ATRL during 2024 while Matt gets engaged to a child: OMGZ, CONGRATS TO THE HAPPY COUPLE!!!!!! Oh, the gays. 1 4
LoveInStereo Posted June 12 Posted June 12 1 minute ago, ohjulia said: People that haven't been in a volatile relationship with a Matty Healy don't understand. I was Taylor Swift...Completely infatuated with a MH. Everyone knew it was bad news but I couldn't get out of the cyclone no matter how hard I tried. I waited and waited. We would try to not speak but then inevitably we would restart the cycle. Eventually, I ended it when all my pride, self-love and value were thrown out of the window and 10 months later they got married LOL. I spiraled after that. 8 years of my life wasted, and for what? I'm not trying to sound callous or unfeeling but I have to ask: is this satire? 1
ohjulia Posted June 12 Posted June 12 Just now, LoveInStereo said: I'm not trying to sound callous or unfeeling but I have to ask: is this satire? No. 1
trueromance Posted June 12 Posted June 12 they're both kind of trolls on social media so I don't know what to think but congrats I guess
dobrevv Posted June 12 Posted June 12 33 minutes ago, on the line said: Oh, he's spiraling. Engaged to a Gen Z? 26?? 10 months??? honestly who cares,as along as i dont see crazy people shipping him with taylor and making every surprise song about him 3
Phaunzie Posted June 12 Posted June 12 42 minutes ago, on the line said: Oh, he's spiraling. Engaged to a Gen Z? 26?? 10 months??? Now girl, the only people spiraling are the Swifties, why do you care so much about who he marries? Taylor left him, move on. Plus 26, Gen Z what that got to do with anything?
More Than A Melody Posted June 12 Posted June 12 25 minutes ago, trueromance said: they're both kind of trolls on social media so I don't know what to think but congrats I guess His mom confirmed it on her talk show this morning. 1
C_Colstead Posted June 12 Posted June 12 (edited) Congrats on getting engaged to a racist, I guess. But the Swifties in the OP... thank God the vast majority of Swifties I've come across are normal, because the ones in the OP are a prime example of why parasocial relationships are deeply unhealthy. The exact same will happen with Travis if they split up and he dares move on. Edited June 12 by C_Colstead 3
liquiddiamonds Posted June 12 Posted June 12 1 hour ago, ohjulia said: People that haven't been in a volatile relationship with a Matty Healy don't understand. I was Taylor Swift...Completely infatuated with a MH. Everyone knew it was bad news but I couldn't get out of the cyclone no matter how hard I tried. I waited and waited. We would try to not speak but then inevitably we would restart the cycle. Eventually, I ended it when all my pride, self-love and value were thrown out of the window and 10 months later they got married LOL. I spiraled after that. 8 years of my life wasted, and for what? Julia, what you've been through is super hard and downright abusive, but you were not Taylor Swift. Taylor is already herself in a new relationship and very happy with it by the looks of it. Don't take the lyrics of her new album as literally what she been through. She probably put pieces from different exes and her own imagination to come up with music that fans like you could relate. Both Matty and Taylor have moved on and are in different stages of their respective personal lives. They're not coming around to each other, cycles are non-existent and we have no idea how deep they were in their relationship beyond lyrics that could mean anything about anyone. There's a chance they were messy rebounds and we won't ever know until a memoir is written or something. Anyways, good that you left that man behind. You'll have more than 8 years to look forward 3
ohjulia Posted June 12 Posted June 12 3 minutes ago, liquiddiamonds said: Julia, what you've been through is super hard and downright abusive, but you were not Taylor Swift. Taylor is already herself in a new relationship and very happy with it by the looks of it. Don't take the lyrics of her new album as literally what she been through. She probably put pieces from different exes and her own imagination to come up with music that fans like you could relate. Both Matty and Taylor have moved on and are in different stages of their respective personal lives. They're not coming around to each other, cycles are non-existent and we have no idea how deep they were in their relationship beyond lyrics that could mean anything about anyone. There's a chance they were messy rebounds and we won't ever know until a memoir is written or something. Anyways, good that you left that man behind. You'll have more than 8 years to look forward My name is not Julia, what a mess. And you're mistaken, toxic cycles do exist and that's why it's hard for some people to leave abusive and destructive relationships. Also, I never said I am Taylor Swift; I just relate to her lyrics. Fortunately, I'm happy now in a healthy relationship. 1
ohjulia Posted June 12 Posted June 12 Just now, Digitalism said: Why would anyone want Taylor to write about this? Some swifties are stuck in the past and their level of parasocial(ism) knows no bounds. It's mostly Twitter swifties though, Reddit has all the sane ones. 1
liquiddiamonds Posted June 12 Posted June 12 (edited) 3 minutes ago, ohjulia said: My name is not Julia, what a mess. And you're mistaken, toxic cycles do exist and that's why it's hard for some people to leave abusive and destructive relationships. Also, I never said I am Taylor Swift; I just relate to her lyrics. Fortunately, I'm happy now in a healthy relationship. Of course they exist but it is a HUGE reach for us to assume Taylor was in one with this particular person. Not because I don't believe it, but because none of the parts have ever come forward with any claims to it. Maybe later in life they will feel like getting candid, but there's this underline that every Taylor ex was abusive to her since at least Speak Now… and that's problematic in itself Edited June 12 by liquiddiamonds
AvadaKedavra Posted June 12 Posted June 12 1 hour ago, ohjulia said: People that haven't been in a volatile relationship with a Matty Healy don't understand. I was Taylor Swift...Completely infatuated with a MH. Everyone knew it was bad news but I couldn't get out of the cyclone no matter how hard I tried. I waited and waited. We would try to not speak but then inevitably we would restart the cycle. Eventually, I ended it when all my pride, self-love and value were thrown out of the window and 10 months later they got married LOL. I spiraled after that. 8 years of my life wasted, and for what? Mom he really wronged u. We need a new uptempo album and for you to drop jack antonoff 1
Gesamtkunstwerk Posted June 12 Posted June 12 The way nobody on this site would care if it wasn't for his ex
dobrevv Posted June 12 Posted June 12 (edited) 1 hour ago, ohjulia said: Some swifties are stuck in the past and their level of parasocial(ism) knows no bounds. It's mostly Twitter swifties though, Reddit has all the sane ones. what are you talking about, reddit is crazy,there is sub about matty and taylor and snark with 46k members that talks **** every day about taylor and her current relationship Edited June 12 by dobrevv
ohjulia Posted June 12 Posted June 12 1 hour ago, dobrevv said: what are you talking about, reddit is crazy,there is sub about matty and taylor and snark with 46k members that talks **** every day about taylor and her current relationship I'm an avid poster of r/TaylorSwift and I have not seen people idolize Taylor and Matty, in fact the sub is pretty vocally against Matty.
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