Headlock Posted May 11 Posted May 11 49 minutes ago, selena_lavigne said: It only works with a ***** going inside of a ******, but sometimes a person with a ***** or a person with a ****** might ask somebody with the other body part if they would like to have a child. This with the asterisks is sending me 2
Mike91 Posted May 12 Posted May 12 I have a 49 year old gay uncle who got married three years ago and had a child via surrogacy last year (and is planning on having another soon). He and his husband very much have a traditional marriage, other than the fact they are two men. It's becoming more common. I'm not gay, so I can't speak to your experience, but there's still a societal pressure to settle down and have a family, whether you're gay or not. It's probable that you've accepted being gay but aren't comfortable going against what is still considered "normal". Up until recently, gay couples couldn't even get married, let alone think about starting a family without dealing with a lot of challenges. Even though things have come a long way, there's always going to be a feeling of "otherness" to it and scrutiny that comes along with it, so it's not surprising that you may feel it would be easier to settle down into a heteronormative situation. However, don't get into a relationship with a woman for the sake of following traditional values. It's not fair to her, to you, or to your potential children. Unless she knows about the situation and is okay with it. Even then, you're still probably better off being a single parent and having a family through adoption or surrogacy.
shimind Posted May 12 Posted May 12 Marry a lesbian who would want to be in a open relationship.. have 2 kids with her and than enjoy an open relationship with gays for the rest of your life. Make sure to sign a prenup 1
JoeAg Posted May 12 Posted May 12 well I for one definitely want sex cause I'm a horny sl*tty stud but don't be discouraged cause I know a TON of people just like you who want what you want! in fact, my best friend is kinda that way. you may not always find them at the bars or on ANY of the dating apps (it's to the point where ppl even mostly feel like they want sex on tinder, at least in my area) but you'll find them around for sure. I think it's best to just have a f*ckton of friends in the queer community, you'll always be meeting people from mutual friends and you'll eventually find people more your speed. and i know fomo is a thing, but your life is your life and your decisions are respectable as long as you're not hurting anyone
Into The Void Posted May 12 Posted May 12 It's not gonna happen. I been waiting for ever to meet someone.
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