celeb news Sebastián Yatra can't spend over a year in a relationship without cheating

[Mr. Loco]

 

Sebastián Yatra is in the middle of controversy after a revealing interview given to the podcast Alone with…. During the conversation, the Colombian singer addressed sensitive topics such as his sexuality, drug use and his past relationships with singers. Tini and Aitana. However, it was his reflection on the duration of romantic relationships that has generated the greatest stir.

The interpreter of Red high heels He said that his longest dating time has been one year and that he has only fallen in love twice. “It happens to me that I say: ‘if I have a relationship for longer, I don’t know how I can put up with it’, because it would make me want to be unfaithful, even if I am in love with someone,” she said.

Sebastian Yatra He reported feeling “limited” once a relationship begins, which leads him to question the idea of maintaining a long-term commitment.

“You say: ‘I’m not going out to party because I’m going to like someone, I’m going to want to do something and I’m going to put up with it.’ So, why am I going out? At this moment in my life, with the type of life I have “I have a more open way of thinking about it and I don’t see it as crazy to have at some point in my life a more open relationship than what we are used to,” he said.

Sebastián Yatra is the target of criticism

On social networks, users were quick to express their disapproval of Sebastián Yatra’s statements. Comments like “if you are incapable of going out partying without cheating on your partner, your problem is not going out partying”, or “if after a year you run out of love, let me tell you that you do not love and have never loved your partner” , reflect discontent with the singer’s opinions.

In addition to his statements about romantic relationships, Sebastian Yatra He also addressed the issue of his sexual orientation, reiterating his attraction to women, but stating that, if he were different, he would live his sexuality openly.

“I like girls, but I feel that, if I liked men, I would live it openly and relaxed. I have that feminine part very developed, I think it also helps me to write and to put myself in other people’s shoes,” he highlighted. .

Finally, the singer highlighted the importance of emotional connection in a relationship, although he separated love from sex. “Sex goes in one drawer and love in another, even if they are on the same shelf. Obviously, sex with love is the most beautiful thing,” he added.

[RideOrDie]

straight people discover open relationships and shut up please

[rnb]

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"Sex goes in one drawer and love in another, even if they are on the same shelf. Obviously, sex with love is the most beautiful thing," he added.

for one year apparently

Edited February 26 by rnb

[SinnerCity]

I mean, cool for telling us you’ve got commitment issues mate

[Mr. Loco]

1 minute ago, SinnerCity said:

I mean, cool for telling us you’ve got commitment issues mate

He could commit to an open relationship 

[SinnerCity]

2 minutes ago, Mr. Loco said:

He could commit to an open relationship 

Not really, from his statement he admits he feels limited by being in a relationship, no matter how opened it can be, there will always be a compromise you have to make to respect the bond and your partner and he clearly either has got massive commitment issues or he’s simply closeted and that’s a facade which would be classic closeted gay man deceiving strategy.

[Mean Trees]

He isn't even that cute to be doing all this anyway. I guess...

[Iceland]

Gurls, he’s homo.

[YR.]

Pathetic man-child 

[Almodusa]

Just stay single  meet people who aren’t going to mind/would be into one night stands/friends with benefits and keep it moving 

[alestevens]

Emmmm, well. At least he gave us Cupido

[DoubleRainbow!]

Of course the jotxs are defending promiscuity 

[Robburro]

funny to hear that from the best latin songwriter about love.. the other boys can't be romantic as him and yet..

[Attitude]

What a skank

[YellowRibbon]

He always gave me gay vibes tbh

[Keter]

2 hours ago, RideOrDie said:

straight people discover open relationships and shut up please

Even the people doing “open” relationships haven’t discovered open relationships. It’s always emotionally-immature, trauma-laden, broken individuals. Invariably. And it never works long-term. Ever. 

 

OT: this man is ugly

Edited February 27 by Keter

[Happylittlepunk]

This man has issues and should probably see a therapist. 

[Gui Blackout]

3 hours ago, RideOrDie said:

straight people discover open relationships and shut up please

Straight men been on it they just forget to tell their girlfriends 

[Inverted]

He didn't even say those words. He's just admitting he hasn't been able to maintain a non-open relationship longer than a year because his eyes stray. Considering that's he's young, attractive (he's not ugly) and he's a pop singer who travels a lot for work, he will inevitably live a lifestyle where he has plenty of exposure to other attractive women. If he doesn't want to be monogamous, that's his prerogative. He should just be honest with himself and whoever he pursues relationships with. What he wants could change when he gets older.

 

I think a lot of the people responding angrily are projecting because of all their fears (or actual experience) with adultery. At least he's being honest about what he wants and what he's able to offer. Maybe he needs therapy, but so do all these people responding with anger.

 

3 hours ago, Keter said:

Even the people doing “open” relationships haven’t discovered open relationships. It’s always emotionally-immature, trauma-laden, broken individuals. Invariably. And it never works long-term. Ever. 

 

OT: this man is ugly

I have to disagree. Those are usually just young gay men in open situationships. There are plenty of older people (not just gay male couples) that are still together because they're committed to each other and they don't share beds anymore.

Edited February 27 by Inverted

[Vrx.]

Sounds like he just prefers to think with his cock and a big load of **** 

Nothing wrong with that inherently, but don’t make it out to be something philosophical 

[LatinFreak]

Relatable king! I 

[Bey'Knight]

Of course atrl jumps for the jugular. For a forum full of gays, yall painfully heteronormative in your thinking anytime anyone steps outside the norm on matters pertaining to sex/relationships. It takes self-awareness to recognize and acknowledge one’s predispositions in any facet of life.

Isn’t it better for him to be upfront about his stance on relationships than get entangled in a messy one simply cus societal expectation demands he be in one?
 

You don’t have to agree or convert to his doctrine but dammit respect his candidness. **** off with the sexuality spiel. He’s not tapping any of you on Grindr even if he’s gay. Stop projecting sexuality onto every male artist with a breath. That ish is predatory!

[JoeAg]

either be open, poly, or just not in a relationship dingbat 

[Smarticle]

Serving homosecksuahs on Grindr

[xluvxduffxmusicx]

Kinda hot tbh