discussion Do you know any DL guys with a wife and kids?

[BrentB]

Do you know any gay/bi guys like this (that you were with before, briefly or a relationship), but they now have a wife & kids & distance themselves from the gay/bi label? 

 

I don't know any dudes like this, but that won't stop my suspensions tbh 

Edited December 20, 2023 by BrentB

[KatyPrismSpirit]

who cares about labels 

[Reginald]

Yes. One man I know married his longterm girlfriend a couple of months ago, and is still hooking up with guys on the side. They've been together for like 7 years, have multiple kids, and he's lying to all of them. I almost feel bad for him, but feel worse for his wife. He's created such a deep pit of deception and lies to hide the fact that he's actually gay   

 

Y'all stay away from these DL guys in relationships, it will NOT end well 

[BrentB]

58 minutes ago, KatyPrismSpirit said:

who cares about labels 

Of all statements be made on ATRL  

 

OT: There's a dude I got with a while back that told me, after our brief fling, that he'd be going back to his country & live a life that pleases his family. He's from Dubai & the man don't like puss like that. But I still think about him at times & how I had no fighting chance to get through to him. 

Edited December 20, 2023 by BrentB

[Beyonnaise]

This guy at my college who secretly hooked up with all the gays on campus, he wasn't feminine but very sub behind closed doors. Now he has a wife and kid and still hits up my friend to hook up on the low late at night 

[Oktober Knight]

Too many to count. Not that I find the situation hot or actively seek it, but sex with married men is so intense because they're so deprived. 

[Illuminati]

I know a couple of bi girls that went on to have very traditional straight relationships but I guess that's not the same As far as knowingly hooking up with a married man goes, especially if they have kids, I don't think I could sleep at night. Romanticize hooking up with old daddies, not tearing families apart besties

[Outlaws]

Yeah, the s*x was really good with this married man but I still regret to this days that it was at their house.

Like, I crossed a line. But anyway, had a good time.

[Happylittlepunk]

Based on experience many of the men who are married and have kids usually hook up with gays because they are disparate for sex. Some claim that are still straight I am not here to judge people anyone. But I believe some of them they simply deprive of sex. There wives no longer want sex or they get it so rarely or not often as much as most men want. It’s honestly sad but too each there own.

[TaggedGalaxy]

My ex boyfriend in college is now married to a woman and has a kid. He was closeted during our entire relationship and struggled with his sexuality since he was raised in a very religious household. He broke up with me since I represented everything he hated about himself. I feel bad for his wife

[dman4life]

A few

[Afterglow]

Absolutely. Hooked up with many married men and/or "straight" dudes with and without girlfriends. 

 

Also worked at a bathhouse in Cali for 2 years, more married straight men than anyone else came in. We had a line of them on Cumunion nights  theyd put their rings in the lockers and have fun all night. 

 

Don't feel bad, not our fault the straight world is deprived of some good fun, especially in the guys side. I could never be a straight male.

[Romova99]

Yes, I was seeing this guy for months which was still in the closet (and I still think he is), he always said he was just exploring his sexuality and wasn't looking for anything serious, as the time went on he started to tell me more about himself, he suffered from lots of depression and had been sexually abused in the past, also his parents were homophobic af so he said he would never tell anybody about his preferences, one day he had a mental breakdown and stopped texting and seeing me, I did my research and I found he had a kid but soon after that he just shut down all of his social media, I know nothing about him since that day but we met for like a year or sum.

 

When I lived in Mexico there was this thug papi that used to visit my parents home when no one was there and we just hookup and go, one day I went to his home and saw pictures of her little kid and her wife and in the other room there was his daughter bed and all that ****  never saw him again lol.

[Dolce Vita]

this guy i was ******* for a while admitted he had a girlfriend and showed me her photo like a psychopath…needless to say i cut him off my roster after that 

[305]

This past weekend after a wedding I attended, the husband of one of the bridesmaids grabbed my crotch after everyone went to sleep and we messed around. It was really unexpected but hot, I kinda feel bad for his wife but oh well

[Dante Silva]

The existence of this thread makes it seem like the original poster thinks this is rare. They are all over Grindr, they have profiles that last only a few hours, then they appear back out the blue from a completely separate, newly created profile days later.
 

As an objective gay my surprise comes from their preference for ‘raw’ sex and occasions when some have even admitted that when they later go back to their wives that they get hard at the thought of their wives being ignorant not only that they are cheating on them with someone of the same sex, but that their wives are totally ignorant of the fact that the last time they used their equipment, it was to ‘breed’ someone from Grindr only hours earlier. 
 

I have yet to converse with a guy who has contracted an STI and passed it on to a wife who is blissfully unaware her husband was even cheating in the first place.

[imabadkid]

Unfortunately yes... lots...

[Cyanide]

I had a boyfriend in college who is from a very conservative country in the Middle East and is now married to a woman… he was bisexual though so hopefully he’s happy 

[harwee]

Yes and he's a bottom too