Vespertine Posted December 18, 2023 Posted December 18, 2023 Straight men are insane for thinking like this, but honestly so many straight women play into it too, along with all the other gender “norms,” and straight men are worried about appealing to women 24/7. I hold my tongue to some degree because they’re friends I otherwise very much love, but sometimes when I hear my straight female friends talk about aspects of dating men and how they interpret things from men… Even just the layers of ideas around when it’s appropriate for the man to pay the entire dinner bill, or when it’s appropriate to go dutch. To be clear, this is in situations where both parties are working full time with comparable salaries. I can’t imagine spending valuable time and effort thinking about these ******* made up rules about what men and women do. Being gay is freeing in many ways. 8 1
ImpressMeMuch Posted December 18, 2023 Posted December 18, 2023 2 hours ago, 45seconds said: Straight men are bottom of the barrel. i mean yes comments like these are a self fulfilling prophecy to this issue tho
liquiddiamonds Posted December 18, 2023 Posted December 18, 2023 (edited) not taking gender advice from someone that felt embarrassed enough about his british background and pretended to be an american Edited December 18, 2023 by liquiddiamonds 3
bad guy Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 And who is asking (or interested in knowing) 21’s take on societal norms and male expression? Just enjoy the music not everything needs to be debated
Just a Gay on ATRL Posted December 19, 2023 Author Posted December 19, 2023 46 minutes ago, bad guy said: And who is asking (or interested in knowing) 21’s take on societal norms and male expression? Just enjoy the music not everything needs to be debated In the interview it came up unprepared. The interviewer was asking 21 Savage about Drake since they work together a lot and then 21 Savage mentioned it was a “zesty” question, the interviewer defended their question, then 21S and a colleague went off about gender norms.
Karla Cabello Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, The Man Who said: Where did they mention anything about skin colour? They said felon/dropout/male rapper - unless you’re implying that only black men can be those things? Which says a lot more about your way of thinking. most male rappers are black and so are most men incarcerated, in america at least. do you think every rapper and every men incarcerated is stupid? Edited December 19, 2023 by Karla Cabello 3
imabadkid Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 this is why so many men are DL. how embarrassing.
Zendayababes Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 5 hours ago, Resident of Gag City said: “I feel like describing male friendships is zesty as hell.” You coulda just ate your ******* food and said "we're good friends". But I don't expect someone with that ugly ass tattoo to think. 1
The Man Who Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 7 hours ago, Karla Cabello said: do you think every rapper and every men incarcerated is stupid? Absolutely not! And I never agreed with what they said, I just didn’t agree with you assuming they were referring solely to black people. But agree to disagree.
kishi Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 15 hours ago, Vespertine said: Straight men are insane for thinking like this, but honestly so many straight women play into it too, along with all the other gender “norms,” and straight men are worried about appealing to women 24/7. I hold my tongue to some degree because they’re friends I otherwise very much love, but sometimes when I hear my straight female friends talk about aspects of dating men and how they interpret things from men… Even just the layers of ideas around when it’s appropriate for the man to pay the entire dinner bill, or when it’s appropriate to go dutch. To be clear, this is in situations where both parties are working full time with comparable salaries. I can’t imagine spending valuable time and effort thinking about these ******* made up rules about what men and women do. Being gay is freeing in many ways. Blame the patriarchy. It hurts all of us...the men that stand by it, the women who reinforce it. 1
rac7d Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 19 hours ago, sunbathinganimal said: literally serving 'fellas is it gay to have friends' He just has a 31 man cation a few days ago
Dolce Vita Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 the mental gymnastics/performative masculinity that hets do just live your life girlie wrdgaf
Trent W Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 There should be laws to prevent people like this becoming famous Some artists or role models spew the worst ignorance you can imagine everywhere Reading this word vomit hurt my brain.
Twilish Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 21 needs to do something for me and shut the **** up
XxxKatyCatxxX Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 Ah, yes, we the men, we are not allowed to feel anything, we robots! He sound like my father... 1
DamianSolo Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 Reading that just made me feel physically sick—to think there are people out there, thinking like this. It's no wonder why people think I'm narcissistic. Am I really supposed to give a **** about someone's opinion with a dumb ass mindset like that? 1
loveisdead9582 Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 Say you’re an uneducated **** without saying you’re an uneducated ****. That whole exchange was disgusting. 1
Aaron Posted December 19, 2023 Posted December 19, 2023 Being a straight male sounds exhausting. Just constantly living a prison of your own making 1
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