celeb news Bebe Rexha & boyfriend break up, Bebe posts his texts on weight gain

[Cain]

This doesn’t seem like a bad text to me, weird of her to air it on sm

[Kern]

8 minutes ago, apasionata said:

You can always shut up and let people take the easy way out without shaming them for doing so (Ozempic user here).

 

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Yes Bleta like you have stash for lifetime of Ozempic like get over yourself

I meant that it’s literally easier just for being cheaper alone and I didn’t shamed anyone but I guess it’s a sensitive topic for you lol

And Bebe gained weight because of hormones, not from eating too much 

[Gyal]

the text is so respectful that i'm kinda siding with him - but on the flipside, i also get mad when my man points something out that i'm unhappy with, but i guess she asked first?

 

also what is with all these notable people airing their dirty laundry over instagram? like pls have some decorum, wtf are we supposed to do about it?

[WiredBrain]

I was expecting some horrible message but the guy sounds decent 

[Asscatchem]

this only makes herself look bad for sharing private texts with people she's supposed to care about

[katara]

Honestly seems like HE dodged a bullet. From what he is writing and how she leaked those texts to the public seems like she is really toxic. He's gonna be much better off in the long run without her. 

[Harrier]

100% on the boyfriend's side. What he said was supportive and normal. Communicating and being genuinely honest in a relationship is essential and that seems like what he was doing. It's not healthy for him to consistently lie to her to boost her ego. Plus, Bebe crossed a massive line by sharing a private text online unprovoked, espcially as he's not that famous. Really gross.

 

Bebe is clearly insecure and in her feelings about her own weight gain, which is understandable. But she also clearly lacks self-awareness about how those feelings are affecting her behaviour and her relationships with others.

 

We should all try to be more aware of our own feelings rather than rationalising them and attempting to present ourselves as victims of others.

[brazil]

She shouldnt have shared this tbh. She thought she would have another Jonah Hill situation, but clearly it's completely different, he wasnt asking her not to talk with men or post pictures of her work.

Edited July 17, 2023 by brazil

[Cain]

Actually this makes her look really bad n

 

She obviously has a fixation on weight and appearance (see her asking her ex about her appearance and commenting on his weight gain) and is lashing out to him out of insecurity 

 

And instead of maturely dealing with it and showing some self-awareness she is now posting a private conversation as a means to gain attention and sympathy from people on the internet 

 

He kinda dodged a bullet

[Lovett]

3 hours ago, aesthetic bih said:

However, the "seek a therapist" part from the ex was a bit shady to me. Feels condescending and unnecessary.

From what he's saying, it seems therapy has already been part of the discussion (separately from this text exchange). He references a 'retreat thing', so likely they've been discussing her getting away, journalling and therapy. So it doesn't feel condescending to me, personally.

[wantedyoutogrow]

this makes her look like the toxic one 

[Daddy]

This just makes her look bad. She needs the attention so much, she's posting private messages that aren't even bad to send her stans to bully someone. 

 

She's part of the problem she always calls out. Hope he's posting her messages cause I'm sure they aren't as nice as she wants us to think...

[DuffStan]

She told us she sabotages everything she loves

[Ari29]

5 hours ago, kimberly said:

I am not going to engage with this subject or with you further. clearly lacking the empathy and critical thinking skills for the conversation to go anywhere. you're the one that keeps replying to me to defend whatever takes you have about this poor woman.

 

Why do you feel you’re the only one in this thread with critical thinking skills? 

Edited July 17, 2023 by Ari29

[Totami Legend]

guess what twitter is sending him death treats. again - what's the plan here bebe? 

 

imagine releasing a complete AI music video during an industry strike, and people asks why she's so hated 

Edited July 17, 2023 by Totami Legend

[yassskween]

she's sympathy-holic

[SoldierofLove]

5 hours ago, Gyal said:

also what is with all these notable people airing their dirty laundry over instagram? like pls have some decorum, wtf are we supposed to do about it?

This 

 

This trend of posting private messages is just weird behaviour. Just vent about it to your friends over dinner or something. 

[Valentine]

Love her. But I don’t see that he did anything wrong. His text is actually really nice, supportive and rational ?

[Otter]

He seems very emotionally intelligent from that message. Most BF's can't relate... 

[Walk_Away21]

Omg why would she post this I also think she's just overwhelmed lately. Hopefully she takes a break after the tour.

[katara]

47 minutes ago, Otter said:

He seems very emotionally intelligent from that message. Most BF's can't relate... 

This though!!!! He is very hot and emotionally mature. She lost big time and it's only her own toxic ass fault.

 

Most men I know have the emotional maturity of a rock 

[Ger]

Let's say Bebe isn't thinking clearly at the moment. Perhaps that object hit during her concert had some adittional effect. 

[Archetype]

She's upset because he told her the truth and she didn't like it.  Clown behavior posting this, it makes her look horrible.

[Quiqui4eva]

I wonder if she doesn’t have a strong support system behind closed doors? That’s assuming she was looking for validation with the post

[Digitalism]

This comments are normal in healthy relationships 
very petty of her for using it to get twitter clout and it will backfire and make her look insecure